Tu Mera jigar ka tukra hai: ajao saray - Page 23

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

In some ways I understand it because the women don't want another repeat of the past. Granted HS is a completely different man than Ashok, but there are still a lot of scars left by him that need to be filled in. If HS isn't capable of helping them overcome their issues, then there's no point in letting their relationships evolve. They were much better off as just friends.

It hearkens back to when she was crying to Naeem Bi that she doesn't feel worthy of his love. In many ways, she isn't because she's not mentally or emotionally strong as him. In order for this relationship to truly be one of equals, she needs to step up.

I've cried myself hoarse saying this for many months.

Abhi 396th episode ka intezaar hai yo sab dekhne ke liye.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

BABITAAAAAAAAAAA

Why what?

Originally posted by: inlieu

Why what?

I've been feeling very conflicted over her as of late. Have even cried a few times because I've gotten too deep into her psyche again.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I've been feeling very conflicted over her as of late. Have even cried a few times because I've gotten too deep into her psyche again.

Aiyyooo! I'm worried for you, Gur.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Bahar kitna raub hai, aur ghar mein? Official punching bag!

This is PB’s way of proving Good guys fall for the **** who treat them like shit and good girls ( which babita was 17 years ago) fall for idiots like Ashok. Even if they get treated like doormats

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I've been feeling very conflicted over her as of late. Have even cried a few times because I've gotten too deep into her psyche again.

You have to be careful. She is not even a real person- she will do what the writers make her do. Don’t get so emotionally invested in them.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

ashok kya baccha hai? Sending away dosent mean to altogether give up on his parents. He or lovely could have made necessary arrangements. Why blame babita. At that time it was necessary for ashok to be away for the emotional chaos he was putting mini through. How can everyone conveniently forget babita being blamed by beeji lovely meeta for ashok being in the jail. Khuranas are number one selfish people. I am not saying they should be abandoned but they are not worth babitas love, especially beeji and lovely. Beeji is dal badlu. She was ok with babita marrying hs for minnis sake as soon as lovepy came she changed colour like chameleon. She remembers babita only for the sewa otherwise she has always abadoned whenever dire situation came on babita and akways tried to emotionally blackmail babita. Iss beeji ko babita ko blame karte waqt apna budhapa yaad nahi aata kya, is her budhapa conditional and as per her convenience. I hope makers handle this situation with care. Dont want to see babita being blamed for these khuranas. Keep yourself in babitas place, we would have behaved worse with these khuranas. Lovely did not even allow meeta to live peacefully. And now she was again blaming babita during her wedding to hs. Aur kitna girenge yeh khuranas

oh common i cannot put myself in babitas place. i would have blasted way way sooner than she did😆. I am a very different person than she is so cannot think like her.

i am not blaming babita for sending ashok, was only talking about how she should have been clever with this sending of ashok away.

Ashok was always an idiot who always shied away from his responsibilities. when babita was sending him away she should have asked him to take responsibility of his parents, did she think of the logistics as to who will take care of them if they fell sick, if they needed money or support. By sending Ashok away she logically took that upon herself. she was clearly quite happy with taking care of them at that time. And now she dosent want to have to do anything with them nor she wants mini to interact with them

The point here is will Babita loose mini if mini decides to move in to another house with daadu biji to take care of them as they have no one in india now except her. Like HS took care of his father who tortured his mother & his GF who did not stand up for his mother because it was his responsibility, If mini decides that Daadu beji are her responsibility & babita should not be burdened with it then it will be babita who will not be happy with mini staying away from her

Yes Ashok should have come and taken his parents which dint happen. so now the onus has come on mini & babitas decision is coming back to her.

What babita should do is afford another two tickets and contact ashok and send dadu beeji to him or lovely to take care of they both are old now and leaving them alone is not a viable option. I will again say that she made a deal with ashok to leave when she got him released. when ashok was leaving it was babita who was well settled so he would have been of the opinion that babita was willing to take care of them. Also his parents were very disappointed with him so he must have felt they are happier with babita. now that she dosent want to she should be contacting him & asking him to come & take his parents

Originally posted by: inlieu

Teri aankhon mein dekh ke main sachchayi na bhaanp loon
Lekin thaari aankhon ne bhi dekh ke ek bar ko andekha kar diya maine

These were the lines that really hit me hard. It is so true, that HS, who could always read her like a book, failed to assess her correctly, because his vision was literally clouded by his tears and fears. The writing is just brilliant here.

The Minnie who would have fought with him, who in this very room had a major outburst regarding the audio clip, was silently shedding tears, not accusing him, or questioning him. She really has change a lot.

I know that they have patched up for now, but I'm not sure to what extent this wound of hers will heal. It is likely to add to the pile of hurt she's already carrying for long about a lot of things, and eventually I do hope she expresses how she felt.

They've gotta stop sweeping things under the rug.

i dont think it has healed actually. the mini who was so unhappy parting with her hanuman uncle when babita wanted to move out, is thinking of leaving the haveli for her grandparents and living with them to take care of them. She certainly wouldnt thought of this if she hadnt felt unneeded in HS's & babitas life.

The thing is going to remain in her head as its not easy to let go of what you have already got thinking into, i just hope she reallly dosent shift with dadu beeji in another house.

Originally posted by: naq5

i dont think it has healed actually. the mini who was so unhappy parting with her hanuman uncle when babita wanted to move out, is thinking of leaving the haveli for her grandparents and living with them to take care of them. She certainly wouldnt thought of this if she hadnt felt unneeded in HS's & babitas life.

The thing is going to remain in her head as its not easy to let go of what you have already got thinking into, i just hope she reallly dosent shift with dadu beeji in another house.

There's no doubt that Minnie and HS' love for each other will be tested and questioned over and over.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Geeta Kumari!

Chalo koi aur bhi uske baare mein soch raha hai.

Main poochti hoon ke bhai Lala ki kya ghalati hai? Woh kyon kunwara rahe?

LOL!

I stopped hoping to see her after HB's wedding. Pata nahi inka kya haal bana denge if god forbid, the audience starts loving them too. Second marriage can't be without siyappa, how will they show a first one without issues?