Word! Especially to all you said in bold. My thoughts exactly 👏🏻
The biggest disconnect right now is that Babita is behaving like this when she herself initiated the marriage proposal...she wasn’t forced or compelled into this shaadi....she displayed signs of yearning for HS before the shaadi, talked about stuff like worrying he may not love her enough...but now suddenly she can’t bear to share a room with him or have a basic convo with him without dictating to him 🙄
Exactly. Be it the dheere jalna sequence, her pouring out her heart in front of NB and her demanding haq from HS: all showed her yearning for HS. And now when she he is her husband, she is confused about her feelings. Such a turnaround in her character. I understand that physical proximity might be too intimidating for her but finding excuses to avoid being in the same room as him is perplexing. To be honest, I really feel bad when she doesn't even try to strike a conversation with him. How does a marriage work without communication and understanding?
And I may have taken it in stride as Babita ke issues, but nobody calling out the unfairness is bothering me....HS just being a yes man to all these unfair demands is also bothering me....if he had shown some level of regular reaction...not an outburst but Kuch toh to show that he doesn’t find this right, would have been more understandable.
So yes, I would like to see his sabar ka baandh breaking as well, but seems like it’s gonna continue like this for a while.
If this is all still part of the Amrit Manthan analogy, even then it doesn’t add up. Even previously, despite knowing that he will need to give time for Babita’s poison to churn out, HS did take a stand when she was going way overboard.
But now, he isn’t. His attempts at overcompensating to all her demands are kinda making me cringe.
I agree completely. I am all in for giving the writers a chance to explain Babita's insecurities and apprehensions but this can not be done at the cost of hurting the other person. Nobody calling out this unfairness is bothering me as well. Supporting your spouse, not wanting to see him/her sad, doesn't mean that you should give in to every unreasonable demand. As a person, Babita has every right to do things which she pleases but as a wife, she needs to take into account HS' feelings as well. She can not always boss him around and expect him to understand. HS, by not calling out her behavior, is not doing any good either. I don't want him to be too rude to Babita but Babita needs to be shown the mirror. And frankly, this is not the Babita I know. Babita can be self centric, Babita can be selfish but the Babita we were introduced to, understood her people so well. I might be wrong in interpreting though.
And yes, the ultimate point....these three were already living together comfortably under one roof for so long before, so this level of breakdown, even because of new dynamics is feeling a tad forced...they could have shown the conflicts in a better manner given their writing caliber, as you said.
Vahi to. This all looks forced and hence not PB style.
And I miss HS-Mini the most too. I feel like without fixing their issue, nothing will feel right :(
They need to talk. Period. Babita is keeping them further away. She has to take the lead now.
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