The Roles in a Marriage - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I keep wondering about the same. Is she behaving like this cuz of the CD incident or would she have been like this after shaadi regardless? 😕

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah it’s quite likely Babita is confused about her feelings...but my problem is that the writers are not showing her emotional conflict properly...like in every scene, Kuch nuance needs to be there in her body language to show she does want him but holds back for some reason.

Instead, they are showing things like her saying she is giving him honesty by telling him she wants to eat with Mini and can’t sit with him. 😕....makes her look like a robot.

I guess Poonam or NB might have a convo with Babita eventually about her behavior...but again, the writers will likely try to say she’s behaving like this cuz she is feels torn between being a mother and a wife. But the actual scenes don’t reflect this....wife toh chhodo, she isn’t giving basic friendship and affection to HS...guilty mother excuse can’t justify that.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

. 1.Chai toh Lala bana deta and he could have gone to her shop for nashta. Aur lala toh HS ki baatein bhi sun leta hai. Lala se hi shaadi kar leta. Ab to court ne bhi permission di hai. Kam se kam Lala use shaadi ki raat chaarpaayi pe sone nahi deta.😆

2. But Mini ko to yeh father chahiye hi nahi. Babitha ke haath ka khaana to patiala babes se order kar sakta tha. Arre haan iss maharani se room share karna toh bahut garv ki baat hoga HS ke liye. Ab yeh toh bahut bada faayda hai. Bahut punya kamaaye honge usne jo BABITHA ji se room share karne ka mauka mil raha hai use😆

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Lala se shaadi karna would deffo have been the best option for HS, but I guess usne Geeta Kumari ki khushi ke liye SACRIFICE kar diya Laale ko😆.....itna bada toh dil hai humaare Thaanedaar saab ka😛

Mini se koi puchh hi nahin raha ki use kya chahiye.....LOL both H and B are using her as an excuse to avoid discussing the real problems in this shaadi which right now is a farce.....shaadi mein honesty ka gyaan toh de diya HS ne, but what about the fundamental point that shaadi is about PARTNERSHIP....about EQUALITY?.....it's not a transaction as Babita is treating it....ki tum mujhe time do, main tumhari seva karungi with chai pakode🤔.....

Originally posted by: Jiarao

If it was about CD she could have atleast berated him for doubting Minnie or asked Minnie how she felt about it. With HS I understand her hesitance but Minnie? Why isn't she talking about it?

Yeah, nobody is talking about the CD incident only anymore....like they are all scared to raise it incase there is a big tamasha over it again like there was last time......Babita just keeps randomly asking HS if he still has some issue with Mini but she herself has not asked Mini at all how Mini felt about that incident.

They are just doing a dikhava ki sab normal and theek ho gaya hai....that's what's bothering me.

one conversation between HS nd minnie nd everything ll get sorted nd its not happening nd babita is the reason.. no she is not doing anything intentionally but she is not trying to make amends also.. as sum1 said its all abt i me nd myself for her at present.. running away from HS dont know why, getting overprotective abt minnie somewhere which is understandable bcz of what happened at the wedding but still she is unable to understand whats going on in both their minds nd hearts, how much hurt r they.. how can sum1 be sooo immature🥱

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah, nobody is talking about the CD incident only anymore....like they are all scared to raise it incase there is a big tamasha over it again like there was last time......Babita just keeps randomly asking HS if he still has some issue with Mini but she herself has not asked Mini at all how Mini felt about that incident.

They are just doing a dikhava ki sab normal and theek ho gaya hai....that's what's bothering me.

Babitha ki toh beat hi mat karo.

Originally posted by: rr66

one conversation between HS nd minnie nd everything ll get sorted nd its not happening nd babita is the reason.. no she is not doing anything intentionally but she is not trying to make amends also.. as sum1 said its all abt i me nd myself for her at present.. running away from HS dont know why, getting overprotective abt minnie somewhere which is understandable bcz of what happened at the wedding but still she is unable to understand whats going on in both their minds nd hearts, how much hurt r they.. how can sum1 be sooo immature🥱

Yes, Babita is again only focused on her own feelings, her own comfort.

In the morning, when she “honestly” told HS that she can’t sleep without Mini, can’t eat without her, she...didn’t even wonder how that would sound to him or make him feel....didn’t even notice his hurt face.

lol the only time she thought about him was when she presumed he would feel hungry after coming back from work so she fed him. That also she did as a general “mujhe Logon ko khaana khilana achha lagta hai” 🤷‍♀️😂

Her inability to sense either HS or Mini’s state of mind shows that she is only consumed with her own state of mind while the other two are overcompensating in trying to appease her. Instead of bringing the family together, Babita is becoming the reason for the rift widening since she doesn’t want to take responsibility to fix it...she just expects others to fix it or she will just break it all in response 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah it’s quite likely Babita is confused about her feelings...but my problem is that the writers are not showing her emotional conflict properly...like in every scene, Kuch nuance needs to be there in her body language to show she does want him but holds back for some reason.

Instead, they are showing things like her saying she is giving him honesty by telling him she wants to eat with Mini and can’t sit with him. 😕....makes her look like a robot.

I guess Poonam or NB might have a convo with Babita eventually about her behavior...but again, the writers will likely try to say she’s behaving like this cuz she is feels torn between being a mother and a wife. But the actual scenes don’t reflect this....wife toh chhodo, she isn’t giving basic friendship and affection to HS...guilty mother excuse can’t justify that.

of course she is conflicting between being mother and wife but as you said writers shook show it properly.... Yeah even I feel she is behaving like robot... HS ne sach bolne bola to sach bolke chali gayi... Kya yeh sensitivity surf Minni he like rakhti hai kya...

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I think the CD issue is not over. It will come up sooner and we may have a real confrontation.

Babitha ki toh beat hi mat karo.

I hope the CD incident is addressed soon and not dragged out for a whole month 🙄🤦‍♀️

The current situation where they are all pretending they are normal with each other won’t sustain that long. Writers want drama, I get that....but execution needs to be better for this angle.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I hope the CD incident is addressed soon and not dragged out for a whole month 🙄🤦‍♀️

The current situation where they are all pretending they are normal with each other won’t sustain that long. Writers want drama, I get that....but execution needs to be better for this angle.