A different perspective on today's episode: 18th September - Page 4

Originally posted by: tk2015

@bold: Even I feel the changes in the characters have been too abrupt to truly be acceptable. These issues could've taken a little while to develop.

People are sometimes like chameleons, always changing colour. But everybody suddenly did a 180 twist with the wedding. Not everybody can be flipping sides so easily, na.

Biji-Kammo had turned a new leaf and while I had inhibitions about Biji, Kammo seemed to have truly accepted Babita and HS as her people.

I understand CVs wanting to show that marriage isn't a 'laddoo', but now I'm even seeing that people don't really change for the good... Which is sad.

And for HS-Mini, this issue runs much deeper than a CD misunderstanding, but if they don't show anything, what are we supposed to understand?

Expectations always lead to problems in any relation and it seems to be the case here too. I do believe soon we'll get to see a beautiful Hannie conversation addressing every issue they have with each other.

But how am I to believe that it'll have any effect in the long run if the post-appendicitis conversation was disregarded so easily. HS still harbours hurt and is still scared because of that one fight, despite the apology and the in-depth conversation.

Honestly HS’s behaviour did not make any sense to me. He was the one who stood like a rock earlier on. He was the one who felt she is head strong and an inspiration to other girls her age hence he called her ‘veer balika’. He discussed her mother with her can u imagine. It takes only trust to do that. He discussed Imarti with her, he gave her the keys to the trunk to the room. That only shows trust and love for her. Where on earth and when did he grew suspicious abt her intentions. Can u recollect One incident where there was some issue bet these two. There was a short phase when she came to know abt HS’s love for Babita and her reaction was natural. But it was short lived. She accepted him whole heartedly, he knew that and he also accepted her same way. For him she was his daughter ....Coming to Mini...she was the one who stood by HS during Imarti incident when Babita also did not support him ...she went Against her mother...for him...never before has she ever supported anyone else before in front of her mother...she was the one because of which the wedding happened..she stood against everyone for these two....just imagine a small girl 18 years of age shows so much maturity to an extent where honestly I felt it was too much ....just not required to make her a parent but they did that...in the process killing babita’s Character completely...now Babita is shown to trust Mini...good to see and expected but after all this ...why is HS behaving the way he is...is this some other HS as he can’t be the one I have seen all these days...one I described above ...one having that relation with both ladies ...this one is someone different....Mini had a conversation with Bobby when she says u don’t have to explain me anything...I trust u...I know u wud never do that....HS shud have said this to Mini....and what did makers do ... they created a new HS just to add some masala...but how can v identify with this one....will HS ever not trust Mini...can it evn happen....not possible with the given background ...not even 1% possibility...now for a second if I consider 1% possibility that he suddenly starts distrusting her...my second question is will he still say this in front of everyone ...in a big wedding function where there are outsiders...where Khatri is present...where Babita’s in laws are present...some trust that they have a bond...some feel Mini will be at loss...will he say this in front of all those guests....is he so immatured....so foolish...as if not thn what are they showing...suddenly someone who is a private person...will say such a big thing to Mini in front of the world....just not believable unless HS is an impostor....plastic surgery karke aaya hua naya Banda...they have killed the entire plot...ruined it by showing him not trusting her....just need to do repair work at the earliest...this we can’t forget whatever they do now but atleast the next story line would become better and the plot won’t get damaged... the deterioration would stop ....hope they see the messages and take action immediately ...

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Yesterday night I was thinking about his question 'Woh CD when Kaise pahuncha chori'?. I feel his actual question was' Why didn't you make sure your mother's past doesn't affect my happiness like you did with my past? Why didn't you question your mother for hanging on her past whilst walking the aisle down with me like you questioned me? Why didn't you ask your mother to get rid of the CD thinking about my happiness? Doesn't my happiness/ hurt matter to you? Am I not part your life like your mother is? You won't hurt your mother but what's the guarantee you won't hurt me for your mother?

I don't know if I am making sense.Just venting out my emotions. HS troubled eyes piercing my heart since yesterday.

I read it the same way as you did, but perhaps the execution was not up to the mark, leaving us all feeling strange.

Originally posted by: sunaina02

But I do blame Hanuman Singh .

I never expected that one CD and Hanuman will stop trusting Mini!!

This is exactly how for the sake of drama and continuation of the serial, CVs ruin characters .

Mini has not divorced from her father . No matter what, your biological parents are your biological parents and they are engraved into each cell of your body in the form of DNA .

Mini does not owe any explanation to Hanuman Uncle even had she still loved her father .

But Babita does.

Whom Hanuman should not trust is Babita who has still kept the CD among her clothes . Why? Why did not she throw it away to get "cchutkara" from her past life ?

Appropriate reaction of Hanuman should have been demanding to know from Babita why the CD is still there ?

And Yes , Mini's not taking part in the griha pravesh and Hanuman ignoring the fact shows what turn the serial will take in future.

In my eyes , Hanuman singh was more angry than hurt. I dont know why the director wanted such expressions from Annirudh !!!

i agree with all your points, except i think the CD could have just been overlooked. maybe babita never realised that it was there and only after it was played did she realise it was in the cupboard.

also she might have kept it for her parents. her parents are dead and maybe this might be the only video she has of them. despite all the bad memories it still has her parents.

and even if babita has kept a part of her past, however bad, why is it wrong? it is ok for HS to keep his and imarti's wedding photo on the wall and if babita has the CD she should be questioned? Why?

^^^

Because Babita wanted "chhutkara" from her past life . She burnt everything earlier but somehow the CD was left to cause the drama during her second wedding .

Also , Imarti died and Babita got divorce from Ashok . There is a "slight"difference there .

You hang your deceased spouse's photo on wall but never hang your divorced spouses photo .

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i will wait for a different perspective for todays episode as well.

I wish I could make sense of the mess that was today's episode. Full on rishton ki khichdi. I hope I'll be able to make sense of this by tomorrow to write something.

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Also , Imarti died and Babita got divorce from Ashok . There is a "slight"difference there .

You hang your deceased spouse's photo on wall but never hang your divorced spouses photo .

yeah, but both are from the past. one was a sweet past, the other bitter. but still the past.

Originally posted by: sunaina02

^^^

Because Babita wanted "chhutkara" from her past life . She burnt everything earlier but somehow the CD was left to cause the drama during her second wedding .

that was of course for the story to proceed, but i still feel it is a personal decision and HS should not question her. atleast not now.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree about your point that Minnie has fooled her father too. This is exactly what NB was referring to when she asked HS how much he really understood Minnie, to which his response was that she was brave, strong, etc. There's a whole side to her that he hasn't seen.

I don't think he accused her of planting that CD or that he genuinely did not trust her, because if that is the case then it is wrong. He asked her how it got there but did not pursue that line of questioning, so I am assuming his doubts were cleared. Let's see. But his feeling hurt was based on the realization (or so he thinks) that she doesn't want him, and I think he is right to feel that way based on the information he currently has. In future, when he finds out the truth - and I really hope this time Khatri is caught - then he needs to take a step back and assess why he was so quick to think Minnie was the one to do this, rather than ask Babita why she still held on to that CD.

What information does he have...u are one person who has been talking abt wat really happens ...and also abt wat others feel and not only abt what or whom u like...and that is y I m posting on your msg...usually I see ppl biased and no matter wat they jus want to stick to their perspective ...my way is I stick to my point but also read wat others have written in a positive way...try to understand their view positively ...it helps ...but if I don’t agree also stick to my stand and let the other person know my view...a discussion here is nice to have as Itz all fiction ...so all these are view points.....mere discussion..no personal grudge...but ppl do get too much into it ...u I felt thought like how I did...hence felt like posting..so do not mind pls....

I m somehow surprised with your views mayb like I put forth above wat I felt abt u....wat information does he have...can u explain as from watever I have seen...there is not evn one scene abt any disrupt between these two ...no misunderstandings...no hard feelings ever....small arguments which make no sense ...yes there have been those much acceptable arguments but no friction...infact one supports the other whenever required...evn against Babita ...Wat information or indication made HS feel that Mini deliberately played the CD....infact how cud they evn show him thinking this way...if this was a real story happening nearby ...honestly I wud have thought that actually this person just used the daughter to get close to the mother...and now he does not care for the daughter anymore ....m saying this as this can’t be possible for me...a matured person wat they have shown HS to be he will never think this way...his profession is such that he will try to find out who did all this with 100% confidence that someone did this ...nothing for me points out to the fact that Mini was the culprit at all...no one there in that hall except for idiots who only are jealous will think this way.....and like I said in the worst case if the father has a doubt (extremely less possibility as for me this will never happen) then also he would have his presence of mind and manage the situation in a pleasant way not spoil it...he wud maybe later discuss the same....he wud handle it carefully cautiously...be aware that his move will create lot of chaos ...and ppl over there do not deserve to even know wat he really feels....y wud he create a scene ....there is no real reason to understand who played the CD as it does not matter..and now it does not matter at all ....as Itz not abt the CD...wat was seen in the video is a fact ...and known to all...but what happened was wrong...as if one CD can impact so much ...wat will happen if ashok comes back and wat if he creates misunderstandings or anyone does...Trust is a big word ...and when u trust someone no CD no misunderstanding and nothing impacts ....that is wat a pure true bond is all about ....and I saw that bond...they took it away in a jiffy for so called serial drama ....just feel HS is wrong and we have to say that....(though Itz the makers who are wrong and who created the mess) yet it was they his character...for one moment they made those ladies believe that a second marriage works but by showing this they again raised a question abt does it really work ?...can a step father be a real father to the child...for me it is a Yes as I want to take away the earlier version which was pure...which v discussed so many times before...this version does not exist for me ...can’t evn think of that bond getting spoilt..

‘Inlieu’ ....don’t know your name but do pls not mind...as I said I really did not feel u wud say this and wanted to respond to the post ...

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

What information does he have...u are one person who has been talking abt wat really happens ...and also abt wat others feel and not only abt what or whom u like...and that is y I m posting on your msg...usually I see ppl biased and no matter wat they jus want to stick to their perspective ...my way is I stick to my point but also read wat others have written in a positive way...try to understand their view positively ...it helps ...but if I don’t agree also stick to my stand and let the other person know my view...a discussion here is nice to have as Itz all fiction ...so all these are view points.....mere discussion..no personal grudge...but ppl do get too much into it ...u I felt thought like how I did...hence felt like posting..so do not mind pls....

I m somehow surprised with your views mayb like I put forth above wat I felt abt u....wat information does he have...can u explain as from watever I have seen...there is not evn one scene abt any disrupt between these two ...no misunderstandings...no hard feelings ever....small arguments which make no sense ...yes there have been those much acceptable arguments but no friction...infact one supports the other whenever required...evn against Babita ...Wat information or indication made HS feel that Mini deliberately played the CD....infact how cud they evn show him thinking this way...if this was a real story happening nearby ...honestly I wud have thought that actually this person just used the daughter to get close to the mother...and now he does not care for the daughter anymore ....m saying this as this can’t be possible for me...a matured person wat they have shown HS to be he will never think this way...his profession is such that he will try to find out who did all this with 100% confidence that someone did this ...nothing for me points out to the fact that Mini was the culprit at all...no one there in that hall except for idiots who only are jealous will think this way.....and like I said in the worst case if the father has a doubt (extremely less possibility as for me this will never happen) then also he would have his presence of mind and manage the situation in a pleasant way not spoil it...he wud maybe later discuss the same....he wud handle it carefully cautiously...be aware that his move will create lot of chaos ...and ppl over there do not deserve to even know wat he really feels....y wud he create a scene ....there is no real reason to understand who played the CD as it does not matter..and now it does not matter at all ....as Itz not abt the CD...wat was seen in the video is a fact ...and known to all...but what happened was wrong...as if one CD can impact so much ...wat will happen if ashok comes back and wat if he creates misunderstandings or anyone does...Trust is a big word ...and when u trust someone no CD no misunderstanding and nothing impacts ....that is wat a pure true bond is all about ....and I saw that bond...they took it away in a jiffy for so called serial drama ....just feel HS is wrong and we have to say that....(though Itz the makers who are wrong and who created the mess) yet it was they his character...for one moment they made those ladies believe that a second marriage works but by showing this they again raised a question abt does it really work ?...can a step father be a real father to the child...for me it is a Yes as I want to take away the earlier version which was pure...which v discussed so many times before...this version does not exist for me ...can’t evn think of that bond getting spoilt..

‘Inlieu’ ....don’t know your name but do pls not mind...as I said I really did not feel u wud say this and wanted to respond to the post ...

Thanks for your post, dear. I am not sure I understand your question about the information, please can you explain?

I had written this:

I don't think he accused her of planting that CD or that he genuinely did not trust her, because if that is the case then it is wrong. He asked her how it got there but did not pursue that line of questioning, so I am assuming his doubts were cleared. Let's see. But his feeling hurt was based on the realization (or so he thinks) that she doesn't want him, and I think he is right to feel that way based on the information he currently has. In future, when he finds out the truth - and I really hope this time Khatri is caught - then he needs to take a step back and assess why he was so quick to think Minnie was the one to do this, rather than ask Babita why she still held on to that CD.

I clearly said that if he accused or didn't trust her then he was wrong because she had never previously given him a reason to mistrust her, that too in a matter involving Ashok.

What I meant by information in my post was that based on what he has seen about Minnie speaking about her mother and being in charge of the CD + event and also all her previously hurtful words, and the knowledge of her being against HS and Babita's relationship in the past - he worked on that information. He reacted based on his insecurity so his reaction correctly matches what he thinks he knows. That doesn't mean he is right to think that his Veer Balika would betray him or insult him in public or to doubt himself as being capable of being a father. If he let his doubts overpower his judgement, that's not correct. I think he couldn't control his emotions anymore so it came out that way.

That's why I also said that he's the one who needs to introspect if he really believed Minnie could do such a thing, and if even for one second he believed it, then he needs to ask himself is it because his insecurities blinded him or is it because he doesn't understand Minnie, their bond, or himself well enough? He has to figure out where he went wrong or what's missing, if that's the case.

Does that make sense? Or is there anything else I can elaborate on to help you, dear?

PS, thank you so much for your earlier comment about me writing without bias. I always try to be that way, but if I missed something, then I apologize.