A different perspective on today's episode: 18th September - Page 5

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

that was of course for the story to proceed, but i still feel it is a personal decision and HS should not question her. atleast not now.

Exactly. HS should not have doubted Mini and get angry in front of everyone , at least not now when wedding rituals are still going on. That is not as per Hanuman's character portrayed so far . If, as shown in the past , he should have - gone through the whole wedding , scolded Bobby for using a wrong CD , asked Lala to investigate how the CDs were interchanged and then when all three of them were home would get is cleared from his Vir Balika .

That's why I am saying that they have completely ruined HS character by blow of only one CD.

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Exactly. HS should not have doubted Mini and get angry in front of everyone , at least not now when wedding rituals are still going on. That is not as per Hanuman's character portrayed so far . If, as shown in the past , he should have - gone through the whole wedding , scolded Bobby for using a wrong CD , asked Lala to investigate how the CDs were interchanged and then when all three of them were home would get is cleared from his Vir Balika .

That's why I am saying that they have completely ruined HS character by blow of only one CD.

Unnecessary drama for TRPs, it was clear.

They could have shown conflict in many other ways, as they did in the past. I felt like I was watching a K show.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thanks for your post, dear. I am not sure I understand your question about the information, please can you explain?

I had written this:

I don't think he accused her of planting that CD or that he genuinely did not trust her, because if that is the case then it is wrong. He asked her how it got there but did not pursue that line of questioning, so I am assuming his doubts were cleared. Let's see. But his feeling hurt was based on the realization (or so he thinks) that she doesn't want him, and I think he is right to feel that way based on the information he currently has. In future, when he finds out the truth - and I really hope this time Khatri is caught - then he needs to take a step back and assess why he was so quick to think Minnie was the one to do this, rather than ask Babita why she still held on to that CD.

I clearly said that if he accused or didn't trust her then he was wrong because she had never previously given him a reason to mistrust her, that too in a matter involving Ashok.

What I meant by information in my post was that based on what he has seen about Minnie speaking about her mother and being in charge of the CD + event and also all her previously hurtful words, and the knowledge of her being against HS and Babita's relationship in the past - he worked on that information. He reacted based on his insecurity so his reaction correctly matches what he thinks he knows. That doesn't mean he is right to think that his Veer Balika would betray him or insult him in public or to doubt himself as being capable of being a father. If he let his doubts overpower his judgement, that's not correct. I think he couldn't control his emotions anymore so it came out that way.

That's why I also said that he's the one who needs to introspect if he really believed Minnie could do such a thing, and if even for one second he believed it, then he needs to ask himself is it because his insecurities blinded him or is it because he doesn't understand Minnie, their bond, or himself well enough? He has to figure out where he went wrong or what's missing, if that's the case.

Does that make sense? Or is there anything else I can elaborate on to help you, dear?

PS, thank you so much for your earlier comment about me writing without bias. I always try to be that way, but if I missed something, then I apologize.

The same information I was talking abt, the first two parts in bold....I felt there was no information here but evn if there was there was still no reason to not trust Coz its all trust trust and trust which shud have been in abundant ...HS not trusting MINI can only be a illusion not reality...

I actually read in one of your posts that u felt HS was right just because his frustration of the past...he was hurt in the past and all that came out now...my point was nothing defines justifies his action...and no action of his in past many episodes shows that he is hurt with mini and for that matter if he is hurt with either mini or Babita better was he never married Babita ...as these things shud end not be carried forward ....

Since u cleared now that u never meant that and u feel what he did was wrong there is nothing I can say...mayb I read or understood something wrongly and am happy to know that u never felt he was right..

Pls don’t apologise no need to...we can have a meaningful conversation...agree to agree ...agree to disagree ....just discuss plainly ....and the fact that v can do that itself is amazing ....as I said before having different views is ok as long as it does not result in an argument ...the fact that v can directly say things ...express though our views at all times do not match itself means v can converse...as if not v wud not respond to each other’s posts...I do not react whn I feel ppl think it is personal...pls let me clarify it is not personal at any point...fiction for me is not so important 🙂 that I fight with ppl here 😀 but wud love to know views and express

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

The same information I was talking abt, the first two parts in bold....I felt there was no information here but evn if there was there was still no reason to not trust Coz its all trust trust and trust which shud have been in abundant ...HS not trusting MINI can only be a illusion not reality...

I actually read in one of your posts that u felt HS was right just because his frustration of the past...he was hurt in the past and all that came out now...my point was nothing defines justifies his action...and no action of his in past many episodes shows that he is hurt with mini and for that matter if he is hurt with either mini or Babita better was he never married Babita ...as these things shud end not be carried forward ....

Since u cleared now that u never meant that and u feel what he did was wrong there is nothing I can say...mayb I read or understood something wrongly and am happy to know that u never felt he was right..

Pls don’t apologise no need to...we can have a meaningful conversation...agree to agree ...agree to disagree ....just discuss plainly ....and the fact that v can do that itself is amazing ....as I said before having different views is ok as long as it does not result in an argument ...the fact that v can directly say things ...express though our views at all times do not match itself means v can converse...as if not v wud not respond to each other’s posts...I do not react whn I feel ppl think it is personal...pls let me clarify it is not personal at any point...fiction for me is not so important 🙂 that I fight with ppl here 😀 but wud love to know views and express

I think what I was trying to say was:

He is right to feel hurt about being neglected or forgotten in the speech but not to mistrust Minnie, that too over a stupid thing like the CD. She never betrayed him in the past so why would she now? These are just stupid tricks by CVs for the sake of drama.

I didn't take anything personally. You made your point in a respectful manner which was very nice. It's also good feedback for me that sometimes I might not communicate my thoughts clearly so other people might not get the message I am trying to send.

Thanks for your message!

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think what I was trying to say was:

He is right to feel hurt about being neglected or forgotten in the speech but not to mistrust Minnie, that too over a stupid thing like the CD. She never betrayed him in the past so why would she now? These are just stupid tricks by CVs for the sake of drama.

I didn't take anything personally. You made your point in a respectful manner which was very nice. It's also good feedback for me that sometimes I might not communicate my thoughts clearly so other people might not get the message I am trying to send.

Thanks for your message!

🙂