Sept 11th: The guilt trap - Page 7

Originally posted by: naq5

no im equally not happy with yesterdays episode . mini dint need to hear that she is ashok's reminder to babita. that would have really hurt her & nothing has been spoken about that to mini. yesterdays assurance scene was lacking according to me.

what kammo did was very vile. she has always been like that. its only in between that she had turned over a new leaf. if i were babita i would not trust her, not with the business atleast.

The Kammo friendship has always been tricky. She still wants to be Khatri’s wife alongside being Babita’s “friend”....she’s been uncomfortable in other scenes also when Mini or HS has criticized Khatri....so I really don’t know how she was expecting this equation to progress. 🤷‍♀️

Does she think that everyone should start respecting Khatri despite his behavior? And she clearly does subscribe to his general mentality or she wouldn’t still stay with him...in that case, I don’t see how this “friendship” will work. Mini doesn’t take crap from anyone...least of all Khatri. So should she be muzzled now to spare Kammo ki feelings for her pathetic husband? 🙄

And I still feel that instead of the tamasha, Mini could have overheard someone saying that and be disturbed by it....then slowly HS, Babita realize and help her overcome....like they did with the depression issue. But Yahaan Itna public tamasha hua and assurance felt very surface level 🤷‍♀️

Anyways, I guess as per the new spoiler, HS will address this by giving Mini the same lehenga as Babita for the wedding?

I hope koi toh dhang ki convo bhi ho.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mini never ponders over her hurt or her happiness. She masks her emotions under -- Babes ki khushi. That's what micky has been trying to make her see.

This constant being cheery and happy for Babes, has made everyone accept that things don't affect Mini. And Babes is the one everyone needs to tend to. Mini and Babes both are so caught up in Mini being Babes' mother since the shadi rituals. They have to cross over and take their respective roles. Babes the mother & Mini her child.

Let's just hope that writers show this cross over in an organic manner. True PB style. Like how Babita rose to the occasion when she realized Mini was fighting stress and anxiety. She has to come out of her bride to be phase to see that Mini has burdened herself much more than her 17 years old self can handle.

About bachhada analogy of Kammo, it was definitely below the belt. It has the possibility to haunt Mini. My gut feeling though says, this was to make Mini cross over from Uncle to Papa. But let's see how it pans out.

Exactly....the shaadi preps have upended the usual dynamics. Babes is in her own stressed headspace as a bride....Mini is in supergirl mode as always....in all this, the actual Mother-daughter feel has taken a bit of a backseat.

I just feel wary cuz it’s all so sensitive to handle. Change is coming, but usually PB handles change well for the characters....Yahaan Babita has been in her messed up headspace for nearly a month...and Ab yeh issue for Mini needed Babita to be in a better mental space to handle....instead she was in her usual panicky child mode yesterday while trying to assure Mini. It didn’t give me much confidence 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: deefy89

I find it strange how from the start the show has been about the bond that the mother-daughter share however it often seems very one sided (from mini’s side). I get the fact that babita is insecure and all the rest however it always seems like her issues trumps everyone elses. Even though they’re meant to have this “bond” it seems very hard (sometimes impossible) for her to see mini’s pain. Don’t get me wrong, I love how babita has changed and evolved to an extent but why does she have to act like a child all of the time? And why does mini have to parent her? I feel like at times instead of showing the bond they’re actually showing mini sacrificing and hiding her own insecurities for the sake of babita

Nobody has to do anything....ppl do things out of immense love....Mini’s immense love for Babita makes her parent her....Babita’s immense love for Mini makes her willing to push herself to rise to challenges that otherwise scare her.

They have an extremely co-dependent relationship...but yes, some things are not healthy right now between them and need to be addressed.

A deep meaningful mother-daughter convo is also long overdue.

Originally posted by: MaaneetDeewangi

That better not happen 😵

How easily she said all that crap to Hanuman, knowing she tied him rakhi 😡

I really don't want to see Kammo's face in Hanita's wedding! 🤬

If not Hanuman, I hope at least Babita gives a lecture to Kammo.

Hanuman should just return her the rakhi, but I know he'd never do that cuz he respects women irrespective of how shitty they are 😑

Lol I don’t get how she can show her face in the wedding after this either but ppl are saying she will be back in the remaining ceremonies 🤷‍♀️....so I can only presume they brushed her bakwaas under the carpet.

Khatri is an ass how ever everyone knows that

Kammo felt embarrassed for what Khatri was doing and maybe expected some support from her friend Babita

Kammo wanted Babes to have her back..not Khatris..and I think Babes could have walked over to.Kammo and said please leave with your husband he is ruining things..

However Kammo spewed so much venom that I think she lost her own self respect and perhaps her friendship with Babes

Essentially both blew their shit in public and neither handled it with composure

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol I don’t get how she can show her face in the wedding after this either but ppl are saying she will be back in the remaining ceremonies 🤷‍♀️....so I can only presume they brushed her bakwaas under the carpet.

You gotta be kidding me 😳

This is not something that should be taken lightly!

What she said was beyond disgusting 🤬

At least I'm never forgiving her for this 😡

Mini was fine before but Mickey started talking nonsense and putting thoughts in her mind about her and Babes relationship and this is the result. She should have told him the 1st time he talked about it but she laughed it off and he has persisted with it till 2 days when Mini told him to stop it.

Suddenly he has studied 1 lesson at School and he is a professional but does not see how much damage he has done to the girls that he has double dated and now Preeti and Mini who knows what he is like but still goes out with him. Its stupid.

He is trying to be her best friend and than pick up the pieces in his so called love.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Nobody has to do anything....ppl do things out of immense love....Mini’s immense love for Babita makes her parent her....Babita’s immense love for Mini makes her willing to push herself to rise to challenges that otherwise scare her.

They have an extremely co-dependent relationship...but yes, some things are not healthy right now between them and need to be addressed.

A deep meaningful mother-daughter convo is also long overdue.

Yes they a co dependant but that was not my point. My point is that even tho they’re meant to share this bond, babita fails to see beyond mini’s fake smile, just as she seems to fail to see mini’s insecurities. Mickey does. Babita doesn’t, get mini is so in tune with her mothers feelings.

I agree a convo is needed, but more importantly I think babitas character needs to grow up a bit and stop being so child like. Every time they show her taking a step forward and evolving, she takes a few steps back. I would personally like to see her standing on her own two feet, without mini constantly needing to coach and reassure her. She needed it at the start, but she’s done so many brave things that they should show her not needing it anymore.

It seems that it’s all leading to them being a bit independent of each other, which is good. I’m keen to see how it plays out

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly....the shaadi preps have upended the usual dynamics. Babes is in her own stressed headspace as a bride....Mini is in supergirl mode as always....in all this, the actual Mother-daughter feel has taken a bit of a backseat.

I just feel wary cuz it’s all so sensitive to handle. Change is coming, but usually PB handles change well for the characters....Yahaan Babita has been in her messed up headspace for nearly a month...and Ab yeh issue for Mini needed Babita to be in a better mental space to handle....instead she was in her usual panicky child mode yesterday while trying to assure Mini. It didn’t give me much confidence 🤷‍♀️

I have been wary of Mini the super girl and Babes damsel in distress for sometime. Babes is so occupied in her own web of thoughts and is unaware about people around her. Never saw this side of hers. Bit difficult to digest at times.

Let's just hope the larger conclusion is worth it at the end. So far PB has always concluded issues in a brilliant manner.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Khatri is an ass how ever everyone knows that

Kammo felt embarrassed for what Khatri was doing and maybe expected some support from her friend Babita

Kammo wanted Babes to have her back..not Khatris..and I think Babes could have walked over to.Kammo and said please leave with your husband he is ruining things..

However Kammo spewed so much venom that I think she lost her own self respect and perhaps her friendship with Babes

Essentially both blew their shit in public and neither handled it with composure

I think both Babes and Kammo ka ego came in there. And I don’t think they share that level of friendship to have these expectations from each other.

They still haven’t addressed the fact that Khatri tried to molest Babita...it’s way more personal to Babita and Mini. They may be doing business together but they can never really be friends as long as Kammo ultimately chooses her husband.

Babita didn’t call Kammo ghatiya, she called Khatri ghatiya. Which he is. Kammo took it personally, that’s her problem since she chooses to stay with such a man.

Aise toh even HS could have taken Kammo to the side and told her to take Khatri away. He also didn’t. Cuz he was talking to Khatri directly. Kammo made her ghatiya pati ki izzat her own. Like most women she measures her value through his 🙄