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Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I don't think Babita will give it back to Beeji because she's old and Babita also respects both Dadu/Beeji as she would her own parents.

Lovely Bua is different, and I do hope she gives it back to Lovely Bua if she takes it too far.

I know she won't but I want her to at least voice out her frustrations with what has happened to her. I don't think she has ever complained about them to Minnie or Naeem Bi for obvious reasons. But just voicing out her feelings will do her a lot of good.

I haven't seen the spoilers but I heard that she clarifies to HS that Lovely is no longer her nanad due to her divorce. So clearly, she has broken ties off with her in that respect. Dunno if she'll say anything directly to her face though. It'll just spoil the atmosphere even more and knowing Lovely, she won't sit back quietly. The level of taunts she'll give will just sky rocket.

I loved the HS Mini conversation... It was so apt and good to hear each and every line... HS is a gem and he does understand Babita really well... For him it's not going to be turning back as now he knows how to deal with her... Seeing all her flaws and insecurities.... Mini should now just sit back and relax and leave Babes to HS...

And I hate Lovely Bua already.....

why minni , why u hv to invite ur lovely bua......

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It was an okay episode overall. Definitely not one of my favorites as somethings irked me a lot and they were all related to Minnie.

- Mickey was trying to lighten up the mood and for her to blast at him and cry, didn't sit well with me

- the clothes; I understand Minnie's reasoning. If you've only worn a suit once, you might as well wear it again for some of the smaller functions. But come on, it's your mother's wedding. At least buy one new suit. There was something about this scene that was off to me. It was as if they were trying to present her as the sacrificing one again. No one was going to say anything to her if she bought a new dress for herself.

- Minnie being Babes' mother again; the "beti hai na meri" line left a bad taste in my mouth. Just, NO. It was spoken in a jokey manner but this is something that we've been trying to break away from. Babita is the mother and Minnie is the daughter and that's how it should be.

- The convo between HS & Minnie was nice but I didn't appreciate Minnie once again giving the avenue to break the alliance. Just stop it with these rok the shaadi conversations. It's draining my excitement for the wedding and I'm slowly getting to the point where I just don't care if they get married or not.

HS is absolutely right about letting Babita just be. She'll slowly open up to what's eating away at her. But let her do it at her own pace and her own terms. Minnie needs to stop seeking out instant results. That's not how the world works and certainly not how people function either. Especially when it comes deep seated issues that have been left unresolved since childhood. Whatever's bothering Babita will take a long time to resolve and I'm glad HS will be there to help her through it.

After the marriage, Minnie should start focusing on herself and leave Babita to HS. At this point, I feel like he knows Babes' needs a lot more than Minnie.

The precap was weirdly shot with Minnie's voice over. I prefer the clips instead.

@Bold: This annoyed me too. Like come on, why is Mini shown to be the "mahan devi". She's a teenager and teenagers get really excited about wedding. Its annoying that she's like "I don't want new clothes". I would have been so excited to buy new clothes for all function, if I were Mini, and its not like they don't have money. Babita is earning good money from her catering, so whats this hullabaloo about "paise bach jayenge". You don't need to go buy designer clothes, you can buy something you can afford.

I am so glad that HS really and truly understands Babita. Slowly, they are moving to a direction where HS will understand Babita more than Mini I feel.

Well heres my two cents on the episode ..

Loved the initial scene - it was light and comic.. loved Mickey's attempt at making everyone laugh.. Loved how Minnie was caught between choosing Babes and Hanuman and How HS solved that for his veer balika.. I found it natural for Minnie to react in that way with Mickey.. for once she was the kid there who was upset at not getting things done at her own way.. I kind of like her when she behaves that age..

Loved chotu sa scene between Babes and Minnie.. Babita's nervousness and fears can be understood.. and well any bride normally will go through this in a wedding.. its pretty normal..even in cases where its first time...

Coming to Minnie and HS scene - I found it most endearing and so educational.. HS is by far to me the most well written character with such depth of understanding.. the way he explains her veer balika the complicated things is truly amazing.. I am really glad that Minne now has a parent who can guide her in these things.. especially how she feels responsible in making her babes stronger.. there is a man who can shoulder that responsibility along and perhaps give her that much needed space she needs for her own life...

Yes lovely bua is back... !

yeah agreed on clothes scene - they need not show her this mahaan , I m surprised that her mother readily accepted that too... may be CVs should take care of such small things.. it can be overlooked though..

Originally posted by: riti4u

yeah agreed on clothes scene - they need not show her this mahaan , I m surprised that her mother readily accepted that too... may be CVs should take care of such small things.. it can be overlooked though..

Yeah Kinda annoying that she's trying to be the mother or mahan or whatever. This is usually how mothers reacts. They don't care for new clothes as long as their kids have 'em. Babita did point out how can she wear new clothes when Mini is wearing the old one. I thought that was a natural reaction. Mini's reaction was just plain annoying to me tbh 😆.

I hope they don't turn Mini's character into this mahan devi

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

This annoyed me too. Like come on, why is Mini shown to be the "sacrificing devi". She's a teenager and teenagers get really excited about wedding. Its annoying that she's like "I don't want new clothes". I would have been so excited to buy new clothes for all function, if I were Mini, and its not like they don't have money. Babita is earning good money from her catering, so whats this hullabaloo about "paise bach jayenge". You don't need to go buy designer clothes, you can buy something you can afford.

I am so glad that HS really and truly understands Babita. Slowly, they are moving to a direction where HS will understand Babita more than Mini I feel.

Exactly! If it was a relative's shaadi, then I can understand. Even I reuse suits since I don't even wear them that often. But this is your MOTHER's wedding. Why wouldn't you jump at the chance to get something new? And like you said, it doesn't even have to be designer. There are so many nice affordable clothes that she could have selected from but noooo, isse toh dekha na hai ki yeh kitni sacrifices kari hai apni maa ke liye. 🤔

Same and I honestly don't mind it. I'm actually looking forward to when it happens. There are some things that Babita will feel comfortable sharing only with HS rather than Minnie and that's how it should be. Despite what she says, Minnie is still too young to fully understand the intricacies of human relationships.

Originally posted by: riti4u

yeah agreed on clothes scene - they need not show her this mahaan , I m surprised that her mother readily accepted that too... may be CVs should take care of such small things.. it can be overlooked though..

Yeahh, but Minnie's pretty stubborn too. If she has made up her mind about not wanting to buy anything new then there's not much that Babes could do.

Btw, why are they not celebrating 200 episodes completion? I thought there would be pictures, videos etc from the set of the celebration, but we haven't gotten any yet 😕