Hanuman Singh - Page 7

Well, HS himself gets uncomfortable when she gets too close and puts her hand on his shoulder. His expressions are hilarious!

I am actually glad they are showing HS' flaws because we've been wanting to see them for awhile. He's not perfect and over time his mistakes and issues will also come up, because they will have to show how Babita handles them.

I am still waiting to see what the andar ki aag and rakshas was all about.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have always said that HS should have apologized to her on his own for his words (perhaps not the reason behind them), due to his own principles, regardless of whether Babita demanded it or not. It was not ok to say those things to her, he could have found a better way to achieve the same result. Fine, maybe he was in distress so couldn't think straight but after the matter on the court case was sorted out, nothing prevented him from apologizing. I also think she was right to be offended enough to leave for the sake of her self-respect but the message she gave was that she was leaving him/the house in his time of need because she put her self-respect above him then.

He has seen what a good marriage looks like and what total surrender in a relationship is about, what letting go and overlooking the other person's mistakes is about. He told NB that aise na hota prem ka rishta, because he has a point of reference. Babita has not experienced or seen such a thing and the fairytale image she has of a perfect marriage and the expectations that come with it is not necessarily something HS expects or looks for. The mistake both are making is assuming the other person will react or think the same way they do about situations and words.

This is why I have been saying this whole wedding is rushed, it's too soon. They should have taken the time to evaluate whether or not they want to spend their lives with each other, whether they are a good fit for each other or not. Proposal without sorting out underlying issues was the main problem here. She rushed and he did too. Babita is still not ready, and I've said this for ages, and neither should HS or anyone else, including Babita herself, expect her to be this soon. She hasn't moved on from her past completely. Whether or not she was partly or fully to blame in her past marriage is a different matter. It will take time. A few months cannot erase 17 years.

Society puts pressure on people to get married the first time round, and in many ways the second time round too without trying to understand that it can be harder and more complicated. "They love each other so they must get married soon." Why must it be that way? I also think the PH was trying to highlight this but it hasn't come out correctly for some reason.

HS' reaction and chat with Lala was not about discovering her ego issues or insecurities or anything like that. He had always known she had them but I am starting to wonder if he has now become insecure that no matter how much he loves her and tries to protect their relationship she could leave him because of these issues. He cannot even bear to imagine that he might lose her one day and is feeling this way because he thinks it is inevitable even though that might never actually happen. After the whole Imarti track there was no introspection shown to us on his part or on Babita's as to how they both felt about it, and it was swept under the rug as usual. They don't know explicitly where they stand in each other's lives and all the underlying issues have yet to be handled and communicated about. As I said other posts, HS should not do this to himself. If he is feeling this way he should either back off or resolve the issues before marrying her. In either case, he needs to have a discussion about it with the person who it affects and not just Lala or NB.

The fact that the PH are having to justify their stance on social media shows that they missed the mark with those scenes.

I have a feeling the PH is taking the route of highlighting issues, them resolving all issues and coming to an understanding to happen post marriage. As now, both their feelings have been established and acknowledged. After knowing they like each other, if they continue living under the same roof while building an understanding and bond, it will seem like a live-in relationship (mini's version not HS's). So they are heading towards getting them married and then them discovering and understanding each other fully.....

This is definitely not the right route or message. But this is a TV show.

This is a second marriage for both. Both have past experiences and different learnings from it. However, both first marriages were arranged. This is a love marriage but because they live under one roof without anyone else there, they are now giving an official name to the relation. All realities and issues and most importantly, communication will happen after marriage. It seems this is because the writers have already established that these 2 will be together in the story. Feels like they are starting from this premise and will build in their 'relation' once it has been given a name.

If she had actually moved out, then there was a scope of building the relationship pre-marriage. But as she has not, they can't live under one roof knowing each clearly loves the other without legalising it or scandalising the pan-India audience.

Few very important things have been swept under the rug but then these 2 have not had one single decent conversation which is the basis of an understanding relationship. They are making their own assumptions - some extreme, some just wrong.

Originally posted by: sheeluneelu

You know what Mahi Poonam dekhkar hame apne jijaji ki baatein yaad aati hai woh kahte hai di se mujhe iss duniya ki sabse boring saaliyan mili hai jo baat tak nahi karti hai.. Hame feel hota hai unhe poonam jaise saali toh nhi chahiye thi🤣

😆

Sali ho toh Poonam jaisi 😉

Full taang khichaayi

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, HS himself gets uncomfortable when she gets too close and puts her hand on his shoulder. His expressions are hilarious!

She does that on purpose to make him uncomfortable hahaha☺️🤣

And he's bowled off

I think that HS stopped Babita and told khatri that they don't need his Wedding planning and he got angry and hit the poor guy as it was not wanted he expected from them. I like the way he gently touched her shoulder and she stepped aside for him without question and that I believe that she still trusts him and loves him.

I think that they came back from the temple on his bike. And Khatri jumped at them.

I think that Babita got angry more on HS as to why he stopped her, but I think that he will explain to her with love why he did it and they will talk and sort out there misunderstandings for once and all and hopeful have a Lovely hug as they both need it.

I think Khatri is going to be sorted out for once and all by Mini and Co.

@ARCH21

Yes, it seems like the PH might want the marriage to happen at this stage for reasons you mentioned above. I had hoped they would be bolder but perhaps this is their way of showing how to handle things within the boundaries of a marriage too. I mean, even if they resolve their current issues and get married, it doesn't meant there won't be new issues over time. That's the whole point of adjusting and growing old with your life partner.

These two used to find ways to communicate all these months and now in the most important phase of their lives there's been a very obvious radio silence of sorts that's the crux of the problem. I am quite sure that this is going to be addressed. Notice how even Minnie, who is usually very vocal and doesn't let problems fester, resorted to writing in her diary rather than confront her parents as she would have done in the past.

I am fine with them not having a "perfect" or even good marriage. I don't mind whatever direction the writers take the lives of these three, as long as it makes sense and character growth is visible.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Fingers crossed. Babita is slightly pissed with HS for ignoring Khatri. But there are good things to it as well :)

This is your guess?

Originally posted by: Manasi_MD

They also said ki Hanuman ne Babita ko uske gusse ke baare me khub sunaya. Hopefully that resolves things, and doesn't make them worse!

Okay, I am missing something here... where did you find this out?

Originally posted by: inlieu

@ARCH21

Yes, it seems like the PH might want the marriage to happen at this stage for reasons you mentioned above. I had hoped they would be bolder but perhaps this is their way of showing how to handle things within the boundaries of a marriage too. I mean, even if they resolve their current issues and get married, it doesn't meant there won't be new issues over time. That's the whole point of adjusting and growing old with your life partner.

These two used to find ways to communicate all these months and now in the most important phase of their lives there's been a very obvious radio silence of sorts that's the crux of the problem. I am quite sure that this is going to be addressed. Notice how even Minnie, who is usually very vocal and doesn't let problems fester, resorted to writing in her diary rather than confront her parents as she would have done in the past.

I am fine with them not having a "perfect" or even good marriage. I don't mind whatever direction the writers take the lives of these three, as long as it makes sense and character growth is visible.

@Bold - My hopes are on this.

It sure has been a long radio silence on very important things recently where once they all used to talk about & discuss everything including their insightful conversations at night.....