A couple of totally random thoughts very incoherent - Page 3

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't want to see him go down that path, please. Can't see him feeling suffocated, mistreated.

definitely, he does not deserve it considering how theyve shown his personality to be.

i meant to say imarti wont be happy because even when she was assertive, she did it in a way that didnt insult his manhood like babita is doing.

funny thing is, ashok is the one who deserves to be mistreated by babita yet she never mistreated him and even in divorce (the drugs incident) stood by him. yet with hs who is such a lovely man gets treated this way.

many ppl have said this track is to outline the fact that babita was to blame partly for divorce and have mini see this. wish this is really true but even then why is it ok to show them hurting hs to prove this point when right right theyre showing babitas ''hurt'' being something thats wrong

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Same!

I watched the promo today and felt nothing. I don't get why Minnie needs to be involved in every little thing. She knows that they need some time alone and has even indirectly told this to Dadu and Beeji, but the CVs STILL find one way or another to make her involved. Whether it's her eavesdropping on their conversation or watching their interactions - it's becoming too much.

At this point all I want is ONE Hanita scene. The reason why Dheere Jalna and Tum Pukar Lo, their late night conversations and such similar scenes are so special is because it was just Hanita. They may have at times talked about others, but they spent those moments alone and bonded deeply with one another. Through their thoughts, they got to learn each other's way of thinking, get an insight into their characters, the depth of their understanding of the outside world etc.

At times I feel like the Hanita we had then vastly differs to the one we have now.

i agree about mini but the way theyve shown her, i sometimes think its better her being involved because she has more sense than babita (even tho shes 17). alot of stuff would not be realised by babita without mini. i wish this wasnt true and babita had the brains to learn on her own, but theyve created a character who has to learn from her daughter it seems

bold: also feels this way. theyve changed babita and to me it seems theres hs and mini on one hand and babita on the other hand. and i think its becoming more obvious that theres more love between hs and mini (idk if its just me who thinks this)

Originally posted by: deefy89

definitely, he does not deserve it considering how theyve shown his personality to be.

i meant to say imarti wont be happy because even when she was assertive, she did it in a way that didnt insult his manhood like babita is doing.

funny thing is, ashok is the one who deserves to be mistreated by babita yet she never mistreated him and even in divorce (the drugs incident) stood by him. yet with hs who is such a lovely man gets treated this way.

many ppl have said this track is to outline the fact that babita was to blame partly for divorce and have mini see this. wish this is really true but even then why is it ok to show them hurting hs to prove this point when right right theyre showing babitas ''hurt'' being something thats wrong

Because people like Babita are still so wounded by the past that they hurt their present and the people in it, often unintentionally.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Because people like Babita are still so wounded by the past that they hurt their present and the people in it, often unintentionally.

They’re not the only one tho, as is proven in the case of hs

Originally posted by: nocry

completely agree with all your points hJumkas are beautiful indeed. About Minnie , i literally felt so uneasy her being there.

Yes Babita even after HS saying that she too had hurt him. she dint bother about it. More over so happy seeing him folding his hands and apologizing . this is not a normal behavior which i continuously point out.

Bold:- Minnie se jyada ab babes ko jarurat hai psychiatrist ki.....

Originally posted by: deefy89

They’re not the only one tho, as is proven in the case of hs

Yes, they are also showing that not everyone handles such things in the same way.

Originally posted by: deefy89

i agree about mini but the way theyve shown her, i sometimes think its better her being involved because she has more sense than babita (even tho shes 17). alot of stuff would not be realised by babita without mini. i wish this wasnt true and babita had the brains to learn on her own, but theyve created a character who has to learn from her daughter it seems

bold: also feels this way. theyve changed babita and to me it seems theres hs and mini on one hand and babita on the other hand. and i think its becoming more obvious that theres more love between hs and mini (idk if its just me who thinks this)

I do agree with you on that. If it weren't for Minnie nudging and pushing her, Babes wouldn't have had the courage to do more than half the things she did. In some aspects, I don't mind her learning from Minnie but I do want her to take some initiative as well.

There was always going to be a change in Babita. Otherwise, there wouldn't be a point to the show. Since we're seeing her grow strong from her weakest points, I'm going to choose to see her ego as being the same.

It's natural to feel that way since we have seen more scenes of them bonding with each other than we have between Hanita. In the initial episodes, we have seen HS being an emotional support for Babes but rarely have we seen Babes do the same. In the more recent episodes however, both Minnie and HS have been there for each other during their lowest points. Hence, the love between them is coming off as being immensely stronger than Hanita's.

Originally posted by: deefy89

i think its becoming more obvious that theres more love between hs and mini (idk if its just me who thinks this)

You aren't alone in thinking this.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's natural to feel that way since we have seen more scenes of them bonding with each other than we have between Hanita. In the initial episodes, we have seen HS being an emotional support for Babes but rarely have we seen Babes do the same. In the more recent episodes however, both Minnie and HS have been there for each other during their lowest points. Hence, the love between them is coming off as being immensely stronger than Hanita's.

But their bond is stronger because it went through trials and was sealed forever. HS gave it a name and Minnie concurred. He had not done so with Babita until he proposed.

I think Minnie will always be first in his life anyway, he had already told her that he loved her more than her mother. Minnie shares a child-parent bond with him and a parent-child bond with Babita, so what she feels in HS' care is something still quite new, unexpected for her, and much-needed.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But their bond is stronger because it went through trials and was sealed forever. HS gave it a name and Minnie concurred. He had not done so with Babita until he proposed.

I think Minnie will always be first in his life anyway, he had already told her that he loved her more than her mother. Minnie shares a child-parent bond with him and a parent-child bond with Babita, so what she feels in HS' care is something still quite new, unexpected for her, and much-needed.

The name giving in HS & Minnie's case had essentially become a formality at that point. It was crucial yes, but they had lots of bonding moments to warrant it. Hanita however, always had a resistance. The proposal has been made, but now they need to act upon it to make this relationship truly work. If that makes sense. 🤔

In a way it saddens me that Minnie couldn't have that child-parent bond with her own mother. But if she were to have it, I'm glad that she was able to have it with HS.