I think that might be why they showed Minnie rushing them, to make everyone understand that it's not so easy. It's not an on and off switch. Things need to be resolved in a natural manner. HS gave them both time and space, now they have to give him time and space to come out of his grief while supporting him. It is as much a test for them both as it is for him.
I am wondering how Minnie is going to handle seeing her hero, her idol have to fight this battle and how she will feel when she sees him breaking down openly after opening the floodgates.
Mini is the strongest one right here right now. She is going to become his anchor. She was there for her babes ... She is going to be there for her dad too. Again I would like to say the writing is amazing ... Because like any other daughter mini is going to realize that dad's are true heroes but they also make mistakes, break down and cry. I want a moment when HS breaks down and she hugs him tight.