Re: Mita's life prior to Ashok

A really sad episode today and how one can go so low to justify there actions is unbelievable.

We have a insight in Mita's young life and how are Parents had no time for her. She was lonely and about Mini age and she fell in love and got pregnant and parents done abortion and put her in Boarding School. Than She left School and stayed in 1 room and how She meet Ashok who was understanding and did not know that he was Married for 3 years. And again her Parents rejected her. Mita again says that Ashok was not like that in London and she tried to change him but it did not work. Makes me wonder how She is going to survive in London with unsupportive parents. Hope that she keeps the Baby snd returns when She mentally strong to teach him a lesson.

Again big lecture from Babita to Ashok on Women's rights as Wife etc. I think that She was shocked when Mita said how caring he was to her and hide his Marriage from her. Here when Mita was telling her life story Babita looked bored and only started to take notice when She said that Ashok was caring to her and was shocked when she said that she had no idea that he was married did did she realise what a cheat Ashok is. Asking Mita what she is going to do next, I tought was a little selfish.

Here I think that Babita should have taken notice when Mita was saying how she was deprived of love and how She fall for a boy at a young age and got Pregnant when she was looking for love as it happens all the time to vulnerable Girls, as Mini is going through the same. Lets see if any lessons are learned here.

Mini was the only one who really understood what Mita went through when She was young and She was upset and I think that she bonded with Mita when She was saying what happened to her and I hope that Mini takes notes and does not Make the same mistakes as Mita.

Here I think that Mini bonded with Mita as both of them were deprived of a Father's love etc. And both have and had Depression when they were growing up. And Mini had Babes and Khuranas and than HS and Nayeem Be but Mita has no one. When she returns London alone to start again.

Low life Ashok brings food for Mita and refuses to give her Phone back and when she throws the food and answers him back he man handles her again and drags her out and pushes her and not thinking of the baby. Claims that Mita seduced him and he is innocent and insulting brings up her past and calling her character in question to justify his actions. Is so low. He is a scumbag.

Here HS worried where Mother and daughter gone. Calling Nayeem and door bell rings and he is shocked to see Mita. Asks Mini what She is doing here.

Again a drunk Ashok insults and screams that HS has kept his Wife as well. Got a few slaps from HS for insulting the ladies.

Today I think that the episode was Mita's emotional input with Depression and unloved by her Parents and I think that the only one who understood her was Mini as both have gone through the same. And I think that actions speak louder than words.

this whole track was quite badly executed by the makers .

Originally posted by: cute.manasi

this whole track was quite badly executed by the makers .

Agree. Makers look very confused as to which direction they want the show to go. All of a sudden they gave a backstory to a character they are about to send packing. The editing was horrible. The scenes are haphazard. It has gone from being realistic to unrealistic. I don't know in which world a catering business can survive the way it is being shown in the show. Babita is shown as shooting videos or getting angry with HS or giving lectures. Her business is magically running by GOd knows whom. HS haveli has become dharamshala. I love HS but I will say he is very unrealistic character too. Lovely being mean to Mita made no sense. Ashok being shown so low is not needed. Although whatever Babita said today was good, but it seemed like a Professor giving lecture rather than a woman rebuking a man for his misdemeanor. The direction is shoddy. I have seen this happening in Sony shows when the channel warns the PH to either increase Trp or perish. Sony is so notorious for that. Last week and today did not give me good vibes at all. Something is definitely wrong. 😕

Originally posted by: rose1000

Agree. Makers look very confused as to which direction they want the show to go. All of a sudden they gave a backstory to a character they are about to send packing. The editing was horrible. The scenes are haphazard. It has gone from being realistic to unrealistic. I don't know in which world a catering business can survive the way it is being shown in the show. Babita is shown as shooting videos or getting angry with HS or giving lectures. Her business is magically running by GOd knows whom. HS haveli has become dharamshala. I love HS but I will say he is very unrealistic character too. Lovely being mean to Mita made no sense. Ashok being shown so low is not needed. Although whatever Babita said today was good, but it seemed like a Professor giving lecture rather than a woman rebuking a man for his misdemeanor. The direction is shoddy. I have seen this happening in Sony shows when the channel warns the PH to either increase Trp or perish. Sony is so notorious for that. Last week and today did not give me good vibes at all. Something is definitely wrong. 😕

I feel the same way. Let's hope for once we have a happy and late ending for this show.

Idk why Babita is being blamed incessantly for not understanding Mita. Mita is not relatable. A lot of kids are deprived of parents love. A lot people are lonely but they don't indulge themselves in self destructive activities such as dating unworthy people. Mita has always made wrong life decisions. We have seen Mita's parents, they seem supportive enough. She can't blame her parents for poor choices she made. Yes, her parents just made one mistake of sending her to boarding school but Babita's parents were even less supportive towards her. Babita couldn't relate to Mita cause no matter what her backstory is she, should have forced Ashok for divorce way before. Mita should have either left ashok or force him to leave Babita. Mita is just facing her repercussions. It's called Karma. Mini could sympathize easily cause she didn't have to go through what babita had went through her life. Waited 17 years for vain. Yes she was delusional but she'd already faced the consequences for it and during that only mini and HS was with her. Her so called in laws and her brother was against her. Forcing her to stay with Ashok. Mita always had more support than Babita. It's been more hard for Babita. Babita has already been much merciful towards Mita by not taking her name in the court yet Mita tried to use babita to bail that Ashok from jail. Mita's character is not pure evil but her constant wrong decisions makes it hard to relate for some.

Everyone has different views for this topic. Some may find Mita a villain, some may not. Some may feel what Hs did was wrong and some may feel this is totally unrealistic. Ironically, I know many people who have faced worse than this. And infact (like I said before) parents have lost their children. Somewhere down, all of us being "the rational people" we are, will always blame Mita for the problem she has faced. But, being in her shoes, it would have been just difficult to accept the reality that we have faced a lot in life. At that point we only crave for our parent's love and support even if the whole world is opposite us. But, we dont understand what to do even if our family turns against us. We may do anything. And this girl was smart enough to run to London and not harm herself. And when she ran to London, she had to finance herself, so worked as a bar tender. She had no other option. She did not want to complete her studies(very understandable, Not at all unrealistic). And Mita, tried to find love outside. She started finding a person who was very vulnerable towards her. If you all realise, in some way or the other, HS is playing the same role now. But the only difference is Babita had Mini. Mita did not have anyone to even support her except Ashok. He made her a better person, a stronger woman. In the case of Babita, she was always weak from the beginning. Nothing like her own daughter. She always had the habit to crib, even if she had people supporting her. Because if you see Mita and Babita's case, Mita has faced much more than her. Yet, she was a successful working lady in a place like London. Right now Babita has started earning for herself, and that job is uncertain too. No one knows what is she doing with the catering business. Half the time she is giving gyaan and just solving problems...Not comparing Mita and Babita but just stating the ratio of similarities and differences between the two....And sorry for this long post 😅

I don't think that anyone is blaming Babita here. We are talking about Mita young life. Please read the heading.

When she is talking about her young years in looking for love and her parents are too busy to give it, she looked for it outside and fell for a boy and got pregnant and had a Abortion and was send to a boarding school. This is a reality in which every Country you are living in valuable Girls are taken advantage of and child pregnancy/abortion or even worse human trafficking happens.

Yes she was lonely and lived and supported herself before She found someone who was willing to listen to her but unfortunately for her it was Ashok.

What she is like now is what She was like a teenager with no help but this time she has a Child, how will she cope in London, beggars belief.

Will her Parents help her, I don't think so. They were never supportive of her from the beginning and worry about there imaginary reputation and yes we have Parents like that in all Countries.

So just to dismiss Mita just like that and call it Karma is so stupid and wrong and give her parents a clean chit is so typical Indian mentality in blaming the Child and not acknowledging childhood depression due to lack of attention is still exists wherever you live. Had she been a boy her parents would not have acted this way.

I think that the only one who understood her was Mini because they have had the same signs of depression and lack of love in a proper family life. Mini too can still go down the route that Mita took to confuse attention from a boy/,Mickey at this time in her life has She still has Depression issues etc and young vulnerable Yes Mita parents were there but were never they really supportive and in Mini case she has Babita and Grand parents and Aunty but are they really supportive of her in this state, I say no.

Babita has never been a proper Mother for her and has relied on her inlaws for help in raising her who too use emotional blackmail to get there way and over dramtic lovely to set a example. So hence her contact with Mita, slightly different upbringing for Mita and Mini but no proper love or attention from the Parents.

So in short we have been shown a journey back to a young Mita looking for Love falls for the 1st person who shows her love and its a disaster and when she grows up its the same story again and this time we have Ashok supportive and love and again a disaster. No wonder She is in such a vulnerable state and this time with a Baby, how will she survive in London will be interesting to see and here's hoping that She does become strong this time around and picks up her life and gets on with it.

So I don't get it, where and who is blaming Babita for this.

By the way my Psychologist daughter has been watching it as well and says it so common in all Countries and its so easy to blame the Victim, in this case Mita. In some cases the Victim does comes worse in a lot of cases etc.

Babita's insecurities, vulnerabilities and that little selfish tone of things makes her more relatable. She has learnt to be selfish the hard way.

I'm reminded of her dialogue again, for her being disinterested :

Kya aapne mujhe kuch zyaada hi mahaan nahi samajh liya?

I dont find anything unrealistic. Such things do happen, I can totally relate to this!

Meeta's back story was given so that Babita doesn't have a sour taste with respect to her. Nothing haphazard here. Remember Naeem Bi told HS that if she accepts him at all, it'll be to get rid of her past life? This Meeta justification is here to mend Babit's inferiority complex, the fact that she feels Ashok chose Meeta OVER her. All in all, for her to peacefully move on. Now she knows Ashok is that kind of person in life, not her fault AT all.

Ashok is being portrayed as someone who values no one in life. They've been quite building upto this.

Now we'll see Babita Meeta bond, one broken and the other abused in life, by life.

It's heartwarming to witness this.

I don't understand why many of you are assuming that Mita's parents will not look after her and that she will be begging on streets of London? They have not shown anything yet. It will be good if the episodes play out first.

When I said haphazard, I meant the story telling has been poor. The flow of the story is so rushed that even the logical things are looking illogical. This show probably took the longest time to introduce the male lead 's entry. It was so slow in the beginning. Compared to that, the last two weeks seemed extremely rushed. This is just my view. I do not expect anyone else to agree with me.