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Originally posted by: RTDeewani
You're mistaken. rose1000 didn't blame Babita and Minnie for the broken marriage. She was telling about Babita not teaching the proper manners to speak with elders to Minnie.
sorry i am reading all replies blaming Babita for failed marriage i think i quoted it on a wrong thread
Originally posted by: Needblessings
I was trying to figure it out. You never ever said baita was responsable for failed marraige !! from where this questoin came?
sorry i am reading all replies blaming Babita for wrong marriage i think i quoted it on a wrong thread
hi anju. I am older to you. I am 43. And yes i completely agree with what you say. Moving on is not easy. And what babita and mini are behaving is exactly the replica of what happens in real life. Infact i will again say that people bring out their worst in such scenarios. Babita and mini are only venting out their anger in a much polite way, warna real life main baat laat ghuson tak pahunch jaati hai.Originally posted by: AnjuRish
I am sure most of you are very young prob say below 30. I am nearly 39 and have a lot of experience in life
Like bab i have been in a situation where i was letdown by all in a dark phase but my brother was der along with a few friends
It is very easy to say she does not appreciate HS but it is not easy
Moving on is not like changing clothes
Opinions are formed by our life experience
My truth may be diff from others
Yeah but don't be sorry, it happens.
sorry i am reading all replies blaming Babita for failed marriage i think i quoted it on a wrong thread
In real life i am a very polite person but if my father would have done what ashok has done to his gullible wife. Even i would have behaved like mini. Meeta should stop interfering and try ing to be mahaan. Even i would have hated the other wife and father for cheating my mother. Ten twenty years down the line What will meeta and her kid do if they find out that ashok is cheating on her too. Will she and her child be polite to the other women? No never, i believe she would behave worst.
Being older than someone doesn't automatically mean that the older person needs to be respected. Respect is earned. Our parents don't deserve just because they gave birth to us. They deserve our respect because they were/are good human beings who led by example and gave respect in return.
Both Ashok and Meeta disrespected Babita and Minnie. Cheating is an extremely scarring experience for the person cheated on. It affects one's self worth and confidence. While cheating is more complex than plain lust it is easier to forgive say a one night stand than a long standing relationship with another person (like Ashok did with Meeta). What they did was beyond indecent. If Ashok no longer loved his wife or didn't find her sexually attractive, all he needed to do was divorce her. There was no need to be deceitful for so many years.
Babita's reaction is very realistic, especially for a woman from a small town. Minnie too, while a brat at times, is well within her rights to chew out her sperm donor and his wife - especially since THEY keep seeking her and her mother out. The Khurrana's need to first learn to respect that everyone has the right to personal boundaries and not barge into lives that they have helped make miserable.
sorry i am reading all replies blaming Babita for wrong marriage i think i quoted it on a wrong thread
no issues!! Thts nice of you to clarify it :):)
After reading all your comments,I feel most of you feel Minnie is the mouth piece of babita and why babita not accepting Hanuman. What I feel is Minnie has still not forgiven Meeta or Ashok for betraying her Mother. She witnessed her mum being completely shattered and slowly to build her confidence and stand for herself for that she has the utmost respect and love for her Mother. As a daughter she feels she is the shield against any harm coming towards her Mother hence her fierceness towards Meeta. After all Meeta came in between her mum’s marriage. She is the outsider. Her grandparents,Aunty,Uncle and even her Father she has a certain softness towards them. As for Babita she feels insecure whenever somebody tries to be too close to Minnie be It Hanuman or Meeta. Minnie is all that she has sharing Minnie’s love with anybody doesn’t feel comfortable for her as she feels ,Minnie will move her from the affection spot from 1 to 2. After all that babita went through her daughter was and is the only one who stood by her. She doesn’t want that spot to be snatched by anyone. As for Hanuman. Babita does have feelings for him, but she is afraid to express her feelings,this is because she is unsure how Minnie will accept this, if Minnie rejects Hanuman, babita is afraid she will lose Minnie in the process which she definitely would not risk it. That’s my opinion
very well said. Especially the last line. A mother will think 100 times before risking her childs love for herself.Originally posted by: Devilow0405
After reading all your comments,I feel most of you feel Minnie is the mouth piece of babita and why babita not accepting Hanuman. What I feel is Minnie has still not forgiven Meeta or Ashok for betraying her Mother. She witnessed her mum being completely shattered and slowly to build her confidence and stand for herself for that she has the utmost respect and love for her Mother. As a daughter she feels she is the shield against any harm coming towards her Mother hence her fierceness towards Meeta. After all Meeta came in between her mum’s marriage. She is the outsider. Her grandparents,Aunty,Uncle and even her Father she has a certain softness towards them. As for Babita she feels insecure whenever somebody tries to be too close to Minnie be It Hanuman or Meeta. Minnie is all that she has sharing Minnie’s love with anybody doesn’t feel comfortable for her as she feels ,Minnie will move her from the affection spot from 1 to 2. After all that babita went through her daughter was and is the only one who stood by her. She doesn’t want that spot to be snatched by anyone. As for Hanuman. Babita does have feelings for him, but she is afraid to express her feelings,this is because she is unsure how Minnie will accept this, if Minnie rejects Hanuman, babita is afraid she will lose Minnie in the process which she definitely would not risk it. That’s my opinion
@devillow
I agree with u r pov
Some additional points
It is hard to share the love of someone who has always stood by u no matter what. She is more insecure of HS than anyone. She knows he has a lot of love care maturity to give and feela mini will tilt more towards him for love and care. She also feels at this point mini is not ready to share her mother with anyone. Nor is she ready mentally for another relationship
With meeta she is worried that if a civil relationship is der she will loose mini to her inlaws
Meeta should at this point not approach mini at all. It is just going to make her bitter. Just stay away and let her heal
Mini and bab will be defensive and self preservation says lash out. Maybe 5 years down the line all meeta can hope is a civil relationship
It is human nature
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