Re: Mini rude

I know that Mini has been through a lot lately, watching from the beginning I do find that Mini is getting rude, maybe partly due to Babita etc in trying to please her Babes.

Today I found her extremely rude in the precape and Babita just standing and listening. Its like she has become her Mother's mouth piece in voicing her opinions etc.

Its not the 1st time that I have noticed it. She has been rude to Nayeem bi and HS many times and again her Babes has been present and says nothing to tell not to be rude. Its just HS who tells her off.

Its a worry as to what she will do next. Will she ignore or bad mouth her sibling just to please her Babes. That's a fragile relationship coming up. Its about time that Babita stops using Mini to express there joint opinion and they really need to move on now. Like yesterday's when Mini bought Mita home she was just glaring at her as to why she bought her there and even Nayeem Bi had to tell her quite a few times before she helped. So its a bit hypocritical to say that her Mother told her to respect others but its a pick and choice when to be polite.

Its sad that Mini cannot see that the breakup of her parents marriage is not just due to Mita only but her Babes as well.

As many times in the past episodes before her divorce She was a walking zombie in her marriage and know she really needs to stop using and making use of Mini to voice there joint opinions.

There was never a proper Babita/Ashok, Father/Mother or Father/Daughter relationship, to justify there present state in moving on and sometimes anger on Mita like today when she came to thank Mini for helping her, Mini starts her lectures again and its getting like a wheel that goes round sbd dies not stop and Its not like he meet Mita will he was in Patiala and started the relationship but instead there's as always been a long and awkward relationship between them all.

It does not surprise me anymore. If both mother and daughter can be rude to Hanuman Singh after all that he does for them, how can we expect them to be courteous with Meeta who has been a partner to Ashok in wrecking their home?

But rose you are missing the point in that there's was never a proper family life to justify the sometimes over the top reactions be it to Mita or Nayeem Bi etc.

Mita for her part is trying but its a wheel going around without a break to stop it.

What will she do when her Sibling arrives. Will she bad mouth her sibling.

Today when Babita/Mini were discussing Babita and HS relationship Mini found it funny. She is getting kn my nerves now. This Babita is more worried about Bill's reaction, which is stupid.

Its Mahaan babitas parwarish no wonder y mini has become like this ..both r getting my nerves nowadays..

After reading all the POV. You all are blaming Babita and Mini. Put yourself in their shoes then you’ll understand.

Why you all are thinking Babita don’t understand the Hanuman’s feeling? She understands very well. But she don’t want to go there. Their mental state is not there to give any other person that place. She’s hurt beyond imagination. She doesn’t want to get hurt anymore. That’s why she’s putting that kind of face.

For Mini , she’s a teenager. You don’t even know how teenagers behaved. She don’t forgive or forget what happened to her or her mother. That person who hurts them she’ll never going to forgive.

This is the way human emotions works. It is very complicated. I love this series because of their practical approach. Otherwise it’ll be another Indian drama.

Originally posted by: guddi01

But rose you are missing the point in that there's was never a proper family life to justify the sometimes over the top reactions be it to Mita or Nayeem Bi etc.

Mita for her part is trying but its a wheel going around without a break to stop it.

What will she do when her Sibling arrives. Will she bad mouth her sibling.

Today when Babita/Mini were discussing Babita and HS relationship Mini found it funny. She is getting kn my nerves now. This Babita is more worried about Bill's reaction, which is stupid.

Honestly, both mother and daughter are getting on my nerves now. There is no consistency in their behavior. And this BIll thing is going too far. I guess if Bill proposes Babita will accept him...all her rudeness is for HS. Mini is rude to Mickey also. Sorry, I am just too annoyed at the behavior of the mother daughter duo. They are coming out as two selfish people.

Originally posted by: rose1000

Honestly, both mother and daughter are getting on my nerves now. There is no consistency in their behavior. And this BIll thing is going too far. I guess if Bill proposes Babita will accept him...all her rudeness is for HS. Mini is rude to Mickey also. Sorry, I am just too annoyed at the behavior of the mother daughter duo. They are coming out as two selfish people.

Babita needs to take charge of all the critical situation ,not Minnie. Probably Babita`s lack of confidance make Minnie overconfidance. Babita can be so good to her ex inlaws but all frustrations come out on H.S!! She can be good and friendly to an unknown people over chat but cant appriciate H.S. I totally understand what MInnie feels when she sees Metta but at least keep in mind she is almost her mother age ( may be few years younger) . One more thing her body languge is also some time over the top. These two mom and daughter really need aZOR KA JHATKA just to understand H.S goodness and importance . You can not take him for granted .one more thing I wish H.S listens tio naim bi advice seriously and fora while makea distance with them.

Ic. No I disagree with you.

Babira too is responsible for the breakup of her Marriage and not only Ashok/Mita, as you clap with 2 hands not one. She was so engrossed with looking after the in laws etc that She forgot that She was married as well.

Ist point of healing is to acknowledge her own failure as a Wife, which has lead her husband to Mita for 10 years.

2nd point stop blaming Mita only when she is equally at fault here as well.

3rd point she needs to stop using Mini to bad mouth Mita etc. As Mini is going to be a big sister where she likes it or not.

4th point she needs to acknowledge that there was no happy marriage between them from the beginning and everytime they met they were strangers to each other and no bond between father and daughter.

No happy marriage or happy family here that Mita had broken up. She needs to accept that and stop playing the martyr here.

Needs to grow a spine and grow up and accept it. Instead of snapping at everyone.

Would not surprise me at all if it is shown for whatever reason that Ashok begs forgiveness and she returns to him.

Or if Bill proposes to her and she will accept it. As this is how it is going now.

Mother and daughter are both selfish and use and abuse when it suits them.

Originally posted by: ic_2000

After reading all the POV. You all are blaming Babita and Mini. Put yourself in their shoes then you’ll understand.

Why you all are thinking Babita don’t understand the Hanuman’s feeling? She understands very well. But she don’t want to go there. Their mental state is not there to give any other person that place. She’s hurt beyond imagination. She doesn’t want to get hurt anymore. That’s why she’s putting that kind of face.

For Mini , she’s a teenager. You don’t even know how teenagers behaved. She don’t forgive or forget what happened to her or her mother. That person who hurts them she’ll never going to forgive.

This is the way human emotions works. It is very complicated. I love this series because of their practical approach. Otherwise it’ll be another Indian drama.

Babita can take 1000 years to move on. I really don't care at this point. But what most of us are trying to say is her lack of gratitude towards HS. Don't we teach our kids to say "Thank you" when someone gives them something or does something nice for them? Is it so hard to say thank you? The mother and daughter are using HS...they are taking advantage of his goodness. That is annoying many of us.

What will they do if HS throws them out of his house? Did they say thank you to HS when they got 11 lakhs cheque for Police catering? When Khatri was about to close PB catering, it was HS who came up with the rule book and saved them. Did they say thank you for that? When HS brought the dosa wala, Babita got busy eating without a thank you to HS. This is what is annoying. Just because she had divorce and bad marriage does not mean she will stop being courteous to those trying to help her. It called decency.

I agree that being courteous is needed. But she’s saying thank you by her gesture. Like making something special for him etc. just because she is divorced that doesn’t mean that she needs to move on fast and fall in love with head over heels. She loves her husband and trust him. It’s really hard to trust anyone on very short span of time. No matter what how many times that person helps her. She respects him. That’s more than enough.

H.s should first become her friend and earned her trust. Then Pursue her. But he’s just become a lover boy.

Teenage is a very complex age. I have one. So from my experience it’s very hard on them. They’re not matured enough to decide whether her patent is not in marriage for long time. They cannot decide what is right or what is wrong. So they speak whatever comes to their mind. Yes, as parent we need to correct them but sometimes in our own agony we forget those things.

Because Babita didn’t cheat on her husband. It’s human nature when people get hurt without their fault they want to punish those people did wrong to them. So hating Ashok & Mita is simple. She wants revenge on them. Do she can feel peace. It happened in real life.

We better agree to disagree.