Why do people fall for wrong persons - Page 2

I think what's happening is pretty natural, and this is how the characters would grow. This situation is the foundation of their family I guess. I remember the time when HS scolded Minnie for shouting at her Mom and made her say sorry. I loved that scene coz it clearly indicated they were acting as one unit.

And, Minnie thankfully can see through her Mom's faults too and is pointing out the flip side of her new found self respect jargon that she has started concocting every situation around this imaginary self respect.

It's mean and stuff but it's natural, realistic and amazing the way they show it.

I loved HS-Minnie scene when he says kaan ke neeche bajaunga, lol. Too cute and adorable. A typical scene between a father figure and daughter, someone who's not a father but still is.

I didn't mind the Babita - HS scene too, and from where i can infer, he's said something pretty strongly to her about Minnie or herself or both from the precap.

Also, this camp or whatever will definitely bring to light some undercurrents.

I also loved, how he said Babes won't say anything to Minnie. A typical dialogue by a pampering father to his daughter about the mother. Lol.

I too was extremely disappointed with the way Babita spoke to him and behaved with him.

Most ungrateful and self centered is what I felt. Apart from wanting self respect, etc and not wanting to 'FALL' (Pray for what?? Is it a sin to have feelings for another man or gracefully accepting his feelings for her especially when he is such a dish!!! LOL) in her daughter's eyes, Babita has a lot of serious growing up to do and evolving to do!

Without Hanuman she would have reached NOWHERE in her new life period.

This is how I have interpreted her behaviour. She is suddenly conscious that he might have feelings for her and trying hard not to give any mixed signals. Her first instinct is that what will people think? That means what people thought about them was true so the idea itself is rejected. Earlier she was ok to accept but because of this new found realisation, she does not want to create a bond and is viewing everything suspiciously with new eyes..

She will have to learn that is ok to like somebody. I guess the day mini accepts him and realises what is happening is when she will accept Hanuman...

She considers herself and mini as o e unit so that is why rejecting the gift..encase Hanuman is encouraged.

Some days back, Babita mentioned about her friend Poonam. I am wondering if the makers have any plans to bring her in future. Imagine a situation where Poonam comes. She is single, ready to mingle. HS and Poonam develop a good friendship bond. Wonder how Babita will react😉

Originally posted by: rose1000

Some days back, Babita mentioned about her friend Poonam. I am wondering if the makers have any plans to bring her in future. Imagine a situation where Poonam comes. She is single, ready to mingle. HS and Poonam develop a good friendship bond. Wonder how Babita will react😉

I feel that the presently more babita will reject her and HS emotional bonding the more she will respect and love him and that too soon. Promos speak a lot. In promo you can see HS with babita and minnie along with mohalla walas. Soon HS will be holding not only minnies hand but Babita's too. I think they have brought up ashok catering business track to bring HS Babita closer.

Babita's character is carved with flaws and weak due to circumstances.

Now she is changing and as a woman she is not wrong if she is drawing a line between Hanuman Singh and herself.

She is hurt already beyond in past and doesn't want same now.

Plus she is worried about society.

Regarding people falling for wrong people it's just time and circumstances which makes people suffer .

Babita's determination to become an independent and successful woman is great, but she's confusing self-respect with ego, and her insecurities aren't helping.

I hope she sees the difference at some point - Minnie tried explaining this to her but she wouldn't listen. She still hasn't learned after all those emotional decisions that she made in the past (not accepting child support, sending back her jewelry, etc).

She knows how honest HS is and that his love for Minnie is pure and selfless. She knows that he has filled a huge hole in her daughter's heart that Ashok left by never being a real father. HS tolerates her behavior but he's a human being at the end of the day and will have a breaking point. She must not risk depriving Minnie of her father figure.

The camera scene was beautiful. It seemed to HS the most natural thing to do, because that's how a father would behave - find a way to fulfill his daughter's dreams. Babita hasn't seen it that way yet and it will take her time to understand this. However, I think her general fear of betrayal and her abandonment issues are preventing her from not only accepting emotional ties with HS but also from allowing the new father-daughter bond to develop beyond a point that she cannot control or let go.

She's growing as a person, and I'm glad to see a FL with flaws that are realistic. She still has to get over the 'kya kahenge log' concerns, especially in thinking that Minnie would be affected by it.

Ashok being around means nasty comments and fights for sure. I hope this allows Babita to see HS as being such a stark contrast to her ex that she really gets what "selfless" vs. "selfish" means in this case. It should be an eye opener and her insistence on showing Ashok his place would also mean that she would indirectly become closer to HS.

Originally posted by: najma123

I think what's happening is pretty natural, and this is how the characters would grow. This situation is the foundation of their family I guess. I remember the time when HS scolded Minnie for shouting at her Mom and made her say sorry. I loved that scene coz it clearly indicated they were acting as one unit.

And, Minnie thankfully can see through her Mom's faults too and is pointing out the flip side of her new found self respect jargon that she has started concocting every situation around this imaginary self respect.

It's mean and stuff but it's natural, realistic and amazing the way they show it.

I loved HS-Minnie scene when he says kaan ke neeche bajaunga, lol. Too cute and adorable. A typical scene between a father figure and daughter, someone who's not a father but still is.

I didn't mind the Babita - HS scene too, and from where i can infer, he's said something pretty strongly to her about Minnie or herself or both from the precap.

Also, this camp or whatever will definitely bring to light some undercurrents.

I also loved, how he said Babes won't say anything to Minnie. A typical dialogue by a pampering father to his daughter about the mother. Lol.

@bold

Totally agree. The writers are doing a great job - no dialogue is randomly placed. Everything has its own pace and reason.

Originally posted by: rose1000

Babita has always gone overboard with self respect factor. She refused to take alimony and child support which was her legal right just because of that self respect. It's ok if she did not want alimony. I can understand that. But not taking child support has cost Minni her career for now. I wonder if Babita will ever know how Minni had to sacrifice her admission because of lack of money. That time HS had given a lecture about self respect. I guess Babita has forgotten that. That is y she cannot differentiate between her own self respect and the fatherly love of HS towards Minni. This time I am with Mini. She is being more matured than Babita in this instant.

Yesterday when Mini said if she had camera she could have taken pics. So my question is why did Babita not get her a camera? Now when HS gave the camera, she is saying she has money to buy it. If she had bought it, then it would not have been necessary for HS to buy it. Babita is really confused soul right now. If she has money and does not want "ahsaan " from HS, shouldn't she find another place to live? She can stay as tenant at Naembi's house too. She is taking HS "ahsaan" when it suits her. So much inconsistencies in her thoughts and behavior. Mini is right.

Rose, tum toh Patiala babes ki dukaan bandh karvake rahogi....😂😂😂😂😂ideas math do yaar🤪🤪

On a serious note, liked the way u pointed out, Babi had to reach out to Minnie in her desires before HS did. If she dint, she has to understand the depth of bond in which HS noticed Minnie ‘s desire. Can’t blame Babi much at this point, as after NB has suggested her to move ahead in all respects, she is scrutinising every minute thing between HS and herself now.🙄