Originally posted by: NatureHappiness
One thing is for sure that Ashok has changed. When Mini was a kid, Ashok actually had some fondness towards Babita. But, he fell in love with Meeta and changed drastically. Hope the story will take an interesting and logical turn.
It's difficult to say because these are Babita's memories not his. Ashok has already said he never got a chance to love Babita because his parents wouldn't let her and Mini join him.
In a way Dadaji and Beeji laid their own beds here. It was their decision to keep Babita and Mini with them that led to Ashok finding the companionship he needed elsewhere.
The show is making it very clear that neither his falling in love with Meeta nor his asking for a divorce was wrong.
It's his stringing both Babita and Meeta along for 10 years, his absolute disregard for the feelings of others / rules of politeness, his blaming others for his own decisions / shortcomings, and his selfishness that's the problem.
Their marriage should have ended 10 years ago.