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BornHyper

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Posted: 11 years ago

#551

Originally posted by: jay_bpm
No I have no idea what it is

It is about RR... so u will not be interersted.

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jay_bpm

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Posted: 11 years ago

#552

Originally posted by: shweta_r
Jay - I do not think that you need to stress yourself about this. You should be happy that you are getting honest feedback. Everyone has their own personality traits that are difficult to change... Give it a conscious effort and you will surely be able to change that slightly

Yes I even spoke with supervisor from previous place and he too said it's okay for me to keep my own personality intact and just present my side with confidence and that's that.

Other counselor works at my place i get along very well said I am giving too much importance to and I quote "2 girls in my dept" and she sees they are taking advantage of that and running over me. I need to put them on side and just be confident as she feels I know what I am doing.

I did tell supervisor I feel others may be offended if i simply act myself which is not intentional rude just asocial. He said I can go for it !

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jay_bpm

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Posted: 11 years ago

#553

Originally posted by: shweta_r

It is about RR... so u will not be interersted.

figured it may be that but still didn't want to assume it 😆

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BornHyper

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Posted: 11 years ago

#554

Originally posted by: kalpanaR

Hmm your official trips seem to be never ending
Are your parents still at your place ?

Parents are still around...

And official trips will continue... they are here to stay... I will complete 2 years in this organization on 22nd June... So plan to start job hunting a few months later.. hoping that the job scenario will also improve by that time... waiting for modiji ke achche din 😆

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kalpana ravella

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Posted: 11 years ago

#555

Originally posted by: jay_bpm
no wasn't like that.
After my 6 month review on Monday supervisor asked me if I have any problem working with team or working with women. He said others feel i don't respect them as professional so i should try to bring more of their input in my work than just asking my supervisor.
I told him I just have strong sense of boundaries with opposite sex so don't want to bother them and i do ask them when needed.
But then today finally told him something i had been feeling for sometime. I don't feel comfortable there as feel I am expected to do certain things or things in certain ways but i don't know what are these expectations. He said but I am doing training, intake very well. I said yes there i feel confident as know what I am asked to do. I have also established good rapport with other dept but when walk in our own dept i don't know. I know I have lot to learn but don't know how to. I am not sure if I can approach others and feel I am not at same level as other 2. I was told by previosu supervisor and professor given me new i need to keep my head down and follow. I am trying to do that but don't like it. I feel I need to get their approval for things and I hate that feeling. Result, I am feeling apprehensive in doing some tasks and not able to be myself or do the task despite having skills. I feel i will be wrong and all that.
Supervisor said I am worrying too much. I don;t need to follow anyone, can develop my style and if it takes extra time, that's ok

Jay you don't have to worry abt all these things too much...Your supervisor did say that you need not follow anyone right So there you go Just do your work efficiently (which i am sure you are) and try to interact with your teammates often if you can

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kalpana ravella

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Posted: 11 years ago

#556

Originally posted by: shweta_r

It is about RR... so u will not be interersted.

So Shweta How did you like the episode ? 😉

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kalpana ravella

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Posted: 11 years ago

#557

Originally posted by: shweta_r

Parents are still around...
And official trips will continue... they are here to stay... I will complete 2 years in this organization on 22nd June... So plan to start job hunting a few months later.. hoping that the job scenario will also improve by that time... waiting for modiji ke achche din 😆

Good that your parents are still around You have some help atleast.

Are you planning to take a break and apply for jobs ?

Achche din aa gaye - railway and freight charges hike 😆

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jay_bpm

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Posted: 11 years ago

#558

Originally posted by: kalpanaR
Jay you don't have to worry abt all these things too much...Your supervisor did say that you need not follow anyone right So there you go Just do your work efficiently (which i am sure you are) and try to interact with your teammates often if you can

yes everyone is telling me that I am worrying too much. Today discussing a case I noticed whatever I was being suggested, I had thought abt it. But when it came to applying it, for whatever reason I got apprehensive thinking what if I'm wrong.

I did not have that trouble at academy interacting with ppl with much more experience and they told me I am on right track. but when I walk in my dept, apprehension kicks in.

I felt may be because I didn't get formal training on site and just learning things as I am very much thrown into doing because of all chaos at work. My supervisor said he knows it and feels sorry for me with all that but it is what it is.

I just feel more comfortable working with my supervisor compared to colleagues so when say I should try to interact more just so they feel good, I feel not being genuine. And result, i worry a lot.

Well I am just glad I told my supervisor honestly what I felt and now I shall work on developing my style being humble but sticking to my ground when needed.

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BornHyper

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Posted: 11 years ago

#559

Originally posted by: kalpanaR

So Shweta How did you like the episode ? 😉

As someone on that forum said - "This is how you do it"... All the shows that I have watched, the confession and romance is like 2-3 mins... and then big disaster will happen...

In RR, I am glad they showed it for full 20 mins and all credit goes to the CVs and director for showing it so nicely... no vulgarity !!!!

I hope its just the trailor 😆😉😳 and there will be a honeymoon trip too!

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BornHyper

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Posted: 11 years ago

#560

Originally posted by: kalpanaR
Good that your parents are still around You have some help atleast.
Are you planning to take a break and apply for jobs ?
Achche din aa gaye - railway and freight charges hike 😆

I will apply for jobs, once i secure one then i will plan for a 2 week break between jobs