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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shweta_r


Hello Kalpana... long time 😃

How has your week been ?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

well finally had honest chat with my supervisor abt my status in dept so just thinking abt that and all


what do u mean by "status in dept"?
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Posted: 11 years ago

And Jay cannot guess what that reason could be 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: kalpanaR

How has your week been ?


very hectic and stressful... coming week I have a trip to Mumbai and to hyd the following week
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: kalpanaR

Is it bcoz you are not happy with what you are assigned/doing ?? 😕

no wasn't like that.
After my 6 month review on Monday supervisor asked me if I have any problem working with team or working with women. He said others feel i don't respect them as professional so i should try to bring more of their input in my work than just asking my supervisor.
I told him I just have strong sense of boundaries with opposite sex so don't want to bother them and i do ask them when needed.
But then today finally told him something i had been feeling for sometime. I don't feel comfortable there as feel I am expected to do certain things or things in certain ways but i don't know what are these expectations. He said but I am doing training, intake very well. I said yes there i feel confident as know what I am asked to do. I have also established good rapport with other dept but when walk in our own dept i don't know. I know I have lot to learn but don't know how to. I am not sure if I can approach others and feel I am not at same level as other 2. I was told by previosu supervisor and professor given me new i need to keep my head down and follow. I am trying to do that but don't like it. I feel I need to get their approval for things and I hate that feeling. Result, I am feeling apprehensive in doing some tasks and not able to be myself or do the task despite having skills. I feel i will be wrong and all that.
Supervisor said I am worrying too much. I don;t need to follow anyone, can develop my style and if it takes extra time, that's ok
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shweta_r


what do u mean by "status in dept"?

my status in sense where do i fit in department?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shweta_r


And Jay cannot guess what that reason could be 😆

No I have no idea what it is
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Posted: 11 years ago
Jay - I do not think that you need to stress yourself about this. You should be happy that you are getting honest feedback. Everyone has their own personality traits that are difficult to change... Give it a conscious effort and you will surely be able to change that slightly
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

my status in sense where do i fit in department?


understood that after reading your long post
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shweta_r


very hectic and stressful... coming week I have a trip to Mumbai and to hyd the following week

Hmm your official trips seem to be never ending
Are your parents still at your place ?

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