Time to heal - Page 3

Originally posted by: BHAVI1972

I do agree he is the odd one out. So does it mean that he need some medical/psychologists help to recover from his sickness in name of failure.

Originally posted by: BHAVI1972

I do agree he is the odd one out. So does it mean that he need some medical/psychologists help to recover from his sickness in name of failure.

Originally posted by: sarakvp

good post...u rightly said 9 years is a big time one can got over from the grief...even abhay lost his entire family but he has learned to live for the child which is not his...truly i cant understand what exactly his problem is...it lookslike he used to live in this lifestyle... the family have to give a shock treatment...if gaurav stop paying anands school fee thn he will automatically work for his son...but here veena mata searching reasons to scold her dil for her sons velagiri...

Originally posted by: Rush2220

Are we talking of 'Reel' or real.😕

If it is reel then i dont think it is sensible to discuss also coz Both Siddhi n Kunal are doing what most real ppl would not, Kunal does not do much, still stuck up in his grif etc etc, drinks plays cards but does it with his own money where as he should be spending that money to take care of his kid if nothing else.

Siddhi decks up on someone else s money, (not even bhai, behan) red sari, nailpolish posh car sab kisi aur ka (kunal se zayada bhikhari toh yeh hai) and she does not even have a 'gurav' in her life😆 iski toh life set ho gayi bhai👍🏼🤢

so both are basically useless creatures taking space but then it is a show and a show can not be 'real' even satyamev jayete was dramatized

coming to real, this is very sad but 3 days ago a 21 yr old boy just next to my building jumped off the 9th floor and committed suicide coz he was unable to clear the AIEEE exam in April. for 3/4 months he must have been depressed/frustrated and then could not take it anymore. when I think as a parent i feel i can take care of my child/siblings all my life but will never want such an end. I am not justifying anything here, just feel that in real life things are very different. every person behaves differently in difficult situations.

Originally posted by: BHAVI1972

Rosh - suicide in young generation has become a fashion. It is a sad but reality these days. I live in a small community still teen suicide case here is the highest.

It is more to do with kids interaction with family and these days social media is a big culprit too. It is a totally another point of discussion.

Here we are just talking about adults who do not want to get out of guilt.

Discussing reel life is not our worth since as you said is totally different than reality.

Originally posted by: Rush2220

sorry Bhavi I think I am still in shock, just cant take it off my head. Have read in news paper, seen on TV but this was just so close and when I read your topic everything just...it all just came back.

Originally posted by: BHAVI1972

No worries Rush, I totally understand you. I had a friend of my daughter who came to our house all the time. She was one of her best buddies and she committed suicide. I know i went through hell for a month and was so scared for my daughters

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

Ramya you said it correctly.

Very few odd do exist who can't let go of their mistakes and indirectly punish their sleeves same way Kunal is doing right now. Kunal just can't forgive himself for what happened to Siddhi.

That is why he keeps enduring through all the taunts from Gaurav and society at large. It is little more than self-pity; but more of self-destruction.

I have felt Kunal does need help from psychologist as he is incapable of letting things go and forgive himself as he feels he doesn't deserve it. Usually acceptance from loved ones help people let things go. Kunal received that acceptance from Siddhi. so not saving the person who accepted you as you are just threw him further down in his own eyes.

But one needs to move on to some extent, while still keep blaming self.

Originally posted by: BHAVI1972

We have also seen this man Kunal Chopra back to square one where he is in a cocoon again. Everyone wondered what happened in 9 years which i guess was cleared that he can not face the court since he lost his wife in that court. His confidence is lost and so is his strength. This is ridiculous reasoning.. if he wanted he could have moved heaven earth mountains to get Siddhi back.. but he didn't do any such thing... Siddhi said we are through and he just agreed, Ridiculous... ... sorry but from begn of show, Kunal has been a weak character who at the first sign of failure rushes to his fav. drinking bar... creates a scene and then gets his family's sympathy...

So the question of the day how long can a men (And by men i mean a human here) take to overcome his guilt? Guilt cannot be an excuse to not work... and more importantly not earn. A more rationale track would ahve been to show him leave law and instead take up another profession... that still makes sense.. as his passion couldn't save his "so called" love (so called as to this day I am not convinced he loves Siddhi... he is still too much into Ritcha i think)

We as a human try to find excuse for our failure. True.. But how long can our failure haunt us? Depends upon failure type...😆.These days with the publicity of things like Yoga, Art of living and what not can Men have an excuse to live in his guilt and do nothing? 🤣 Trying to imagine Kunal do this... yaa not happening.. so its not an option for Kunal

To me it is the act of a coward: Agreed! If a men can not overcome his weakness be it physical or mental then he is a good for nothing. Family does help the person to overcome their foes but if the person can not help themselves no one else can help them. Satya Vachan

What are your views friends?