It's complicated... - Page 2

Siddhi was the only one who truly understood and accepted him with all his complexities. The harsh words that Siddhi spoke 9 years ago killed Kunal Chopra. Her lies made him believe that his incompetence forced er to change and I must say Siddhi had done a great job of pulling off that live. He needs his Siddhi, her love and acceptance to allow him to love himself

Originally posted by: paradigm

Siddhi was the only one who truly understood and accepted him with all his complexities. The harsh words that Siddhi spoke 9 years ago killed Kunal Chopra. Her lies made him believe that his incompetence forced er to change and I must say Siddhi had done a great job of pulling off that live. He needs his Siddhi, her love and acceptance to allow him to love himself

Agree paradigm. Siddhi dud hell of a job in putting up a lie. First she convinced family, she acted such in front of all & in open court, but best was confrontation with Kunal. Some may say just one harsh confrontation, well as I've said many times it was so good.
From psychological pov you want to present a case where at least half is true. Whatever Siddhi said there, well more than half was true with responsibility towards family, dealing with Thakral & no one to support her. Only person to support her was Kunal who at the time was in jail.
So those words still haunt him.

Originally posted by: hima2012

Jay, I said before also that Kunal doesn't actually in the bottom of his heart believe that Siddhi has betrayed him or tried to kill or send the baby away from him. I always felt that he did not have anything to say in favour of Siddhi. Why did he say she tried to kill Anand while talking to Richa.. I think because he forced himself to say that over the years for lack of any proof. But his heart always said that Siddhi always loved him and would never try to kill the baby. Otherwise, like you said, he would have really moved on by now if he really thought she did something like that.

And I feel after what both have done, apologies will not be enough. And I truly feel they may not be needed. More than apologizing, MUs need to be cleared. I feel they will automatically forget everything once these misconceptions are cleared. Ofcourse both will feel guilty for their respective faults but no amount of words will be enough to express how each other felt all these years in each other's absence. So, I would prefer a silent apology from both sides expressed by their eyes and actions rather than words.

Hima, I agree with your post completely, started putting in bold what I like but then realised I have to put in bold the whole of it. Completely agree that he doesnt believe.
I think he is caught between his head and heart. His head is listening to what Siddhi himself said and his heart believing what he felt for her. He is just not able to decide convincingly or 100% is Siddhi right or not. Hence he is in such a situation. If a person is hanging between to trust/not to trust his life goes in a limbo. Only if he decided one way or the other his life would have been better atleast, he wouldnt be so sad.

And regarding apology, v true silent is enough, words not required/words not sufficient. Couldn't agree more with you here.

Jay, great analysis from you too..👏

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