kunal's realisation...slow yet effective - Page 5

Originally posted by: norzar

hi

enjoyed reading everyones take and i do respect everyones opinion

lets see what they show on mon

norzar

Originally posted by: norzar

hi

i loved how kunal was shown rem siddhi today. even siddhi had some nice fbs of her and kunal's moments. loved the bg song.

cvs are showing kunal's realisation slowly and thats perfect.

kunal is a complex character and cvs are showing him open up slowly, he has acknowledged today that siddhi has become his aadat and he needs her and he misses her etc. Next step will be him accepting that he loves her and wants her, and all that will come in with veena track,

norzar

Well said norzar... More than the confession of love the perfect way was portraying siddhi as his zaroorat aur aadat...

Necessity and Habit... it someone is ur necessity and aadat it means that u cannot take that person out of your life,...it inturn means that siddhi is kunals life... ussne yeh bhi kaha ki woh siddhi ke bina adhoora hei... itna sab kuch keh diya... Raj says kunal cannot live a single day without her... and thats more than saying i love you...

Originally posted by: Fariyal

Thanks Simi, for pointing out the "mother" analogy.


When a loved one goes missing, is kidnapped, be it a wife, mother or sister, the 1st thoughts that come to a rational person's mind are fear for the safety of that person, fear of loosing that person..."I hope she's alright, I hope they dont hurt her, its been so long, I hope they've given her something to eat or drink"...Not I'm missing her, I'm adhoora without her, she has become my aadat, my zarurat. (who cares what she is going through right now!!)
And where is the question of looking for romance in yesterday's episode? In a situation like this, romance should be the last thing on ones mind. What was missing from the script yesterday was Kunal's fear for Siddhi's safety. He shouldnt have been sitting staring at the moon & missing her, he should have been worried about something bad happening to her. There should have been at least 1 dialogue about her being snatched from him just as she was becoming so important to him, how he couldnt bear the thought of loosing her.

I read through all these interesting posts here & I agree with Simi, there can be more than one way to look at it & the problem lies with the writers & script.

The episode was meant to be a big part of Kunals realization of the importance of Siddhi in his life but Fariyal is right, the words didnt match the mood. When your beloved is in danger you would obviously be thinking & praying about her safety & not going on & on about how you miss her😕 I agree with all the romantics here that its the small gestures that makes you miss a person when he or she isnt around but they chose the wrong episode to show these scenes. These scenes were better suited to an episode where Siddhi had gone away to Kapils house & he was missing her, but in a serious situation like a kidnapping it was a little odd to see him just sitting & thinking about his zaroorat😕
The long Fb about the shoes & shirt also got me thinking that this is the same old message of where a good Indian womans place is supposed to be in her husbands life & that got me mad again.
Romantic that I am, i simply blanked out all of it besides the me tumhare bina adhoora hu part❤️
Actually I read on the forum that there was a ME planned for this weekend & then got cancelled, so I think that this epi was probably only a filler planned as part of the ME & as such not to be given much importance.

i also agreee... n this is what which makes me crazy for kunal...😳

Originally posted by: Aruna11

I read through all these interesting posts here & I agree with Simi, there can be more than one way to look at it & the problem lies with the writers & script.

The episode was meant to be a big part of Kunals realization of the importance of Siddhi in his life but Fariyal is right, the words didnt match the mood. When your beloved is in danger you would obviously be thinking & praying about her safety & not going on & on about how you miss her😕 I agree with all the romantics here that its the small gestures that makes you miss a person when he or she isnt around but they chose the wrong episode to show these scenes. These scenes were better suited to an episode where Siddhi had gone away to Kapils house & he was missing her, but in a serious situation like a kidnapping it was a little odd to see him just sitting & thinking about his zaroorat😕
The long Fb about the shoes & shirt also got me thinking that this is the same old message of where a good Indian womans place is supposed to be in her husbands life & that got me mad again.
Romantic that I am, i simply blanked out all of it besides the me tumhare bina adhoora hu part❤️
Actually I read on the forum that there was a ME planned for this weekend & then got cancelled, so I think that this epi was probably only a filler planned as part of the ME & as such not to be given much importance.

@Aruna11, It's nice of you to try & understand a different perspective. LOL I didnt even think of the sunder, susheel bharatiya patni innuendo, you could be right😆
Anywhos, I'm over the lousy episode & being a romantic, like you, am looking fwd to Kunal saving his wife 2mrw😍

Originally posted by: Fariyal

@Aruna11, It's nice of you to try & understand a different perspective. LOL I didnt even think of the sunder, susheel bharatiya patni innuendo, you could be right😆
Anywhos, I'm over the lousy episode & being a romantic, like you, am looking fwd to Kunal saving his wife 2mrw😍

Fari, glad to see your optimistic self back 😆

Originally posted by: annie_mckinnen

Fari, glad to see your optimistic self back 😆

Oh totally, Annie, how can I forget its only an Indian soap, it does affect me when you expect one thing & get fed another, but then you can't disregard that it's the home medium & they have to please a huge cross section of society, not just my type. So yeah, I've bounced back😃

Originally posted by: Iamrani

@ Annie - Just wanted to say I absolutely loved your POV and agree with it 100%. I am also a married woman and know a thing or two about hubby-wife relationship myself. I think Kunal remembering Siddhi due to the things she took care for him was utterly romantic.

I think your replies were bang on and I loved your take on the whole Kunal missing Siddhi scenario over all the others members👏

Thanks Rani for your generous comments. Seems like the two of us are hopeless romantics 😉

Originally posted by: annie_mckinnen

Thanks Rani for your generous comments. Seems like the two of us are hopeless romantics 😉

Originally posted by: Iamrani

Oh Absolutely Annie, I am a real hopeless romantic at heart. I have been with my hubby for 12 years now, 10 years of dating and 2 years of marriage, but still when he is away on a business trip or something, I miss him looking at his things or things that remind me of him. I rarely think of how passionately we were in bed or how he used to kiss me or hug me😆 because those things are there, but when your loved ones are not with you temporarily, you miss them by looking at all things that remind you of them. So in my opinion, what Kunal was going though is not unusual. Yes, If they were this young, newly married couple who had just come back from their mushy mushy honeymoon and he was missing the physical intimacy with her when she was away at her folks place, It would have been appropriate to show Kunal missig her physically, but in this situation I concur with Kunal's feeling.

I may not understand the social norms of India as I have grown up in US, but I would assume the feelings of love and physical intimacy between a man and a woman must be the same in every country and culture.