Originally posted by: mpks1
Bhabi aur bechaari? Nah! She is chalak and a control freak who is also a sweet talker and emotionally manipulates people around her😆
Just today I was listening to my husband talk to his desi friend from his first job who happens to be a Gujarati. They have been friends for 20 years. Both of them were talking about long term, retirement, how will the kids be in the future 😆 My husband said this, when our kids are settled, he can’t wait for them to leave and will only butt in their lives if they ask for help, otherwise even ready to pay the down payment to their house, so they can live far far away from him. I was making Quesadillas for dinner today, and drinking water too, couldn’t control my laugh and splashed water all over 😆 He talks in Hindi to all his desi friends especially if they are from Bombay and up, “mujhe meri privacy, peace and quiet life chahiye” 😆
I will tell you my husband is a unique piece, he doesn’t believe in hum saat saat hain, yet he loves his parents (now mom) and brothers too, will do anything for them and for my kids but everyone has to stay away from him after a certain point, as he doesn’t like crowd😆
I didn’t have to fight for anything when I got married long time ago regarding in-laws, nuclear family, joint family etc, he took care of it and don’t have to think about how our retired life will be, because he will take care of it 😆