Originally posted by: firsttimehere
Hello Vandana
For me the shivi part of story ended at their remarriage and they lived happily ever after . ❤️
I can't relate to this overdose of misunderstandings happening between Shiva and raavi that they are showing . That's not how a marriage is supposed to be , that's not how a husband is expected to be . I am not one of those who wants angst and what not . I wanted meaningful growth , love and respect which can very well happen with the mock-fight , dry humour , bubbly vs silent storm that were few of the traits / characteristic of Shiva and raavi as individuals and with life the characters also grow . None of it happens here . Raavi is treated dobi , Shiva turned to an insecure person from street smart long long back and their story doesnt have a proper path .
But i do realise that serving a normal decent story isn't the CVs cup of tea.
Such a pity , really .
P.S i do love certain shivi scenes here and there only due to the acting of kanwar and Alice and my love for the shivi that were there .
Sorry for the long rant 😊
Absolutely.. I agree with every word of yours. Even though I'm not married, being a lawyer, I've spent a lot of time in family courts. Have seen people going through messy divorces coz of all sorts of reasons. I have seen people withdrawing their divorce petitions for all sorts of reasons.
In reality, people get divorced because of extra-marital affairs, abuse, too much in-laws interference, or no/less communication, etc. Nobody files for divorce and gets engaged simultaneously trying to find true feelings for their soon-to-be ex (only happens in Bollywood and ITV) whilst a lot of people get engaged (nothing wrong/illegal about that if they're stern with their decision and feelings).
Anyway, coming to Shivi, they never had any heart-to-heart convo about their insecurities and abandonment issues.. everything was swept under a rug! Too much family interference like they're some royal couple of Britain husband and wife should sort their issues inside the four walls of their bedroom, they should never allow a third person because there's no space for a third person in a marriage. Here bhabhiMa and Suman seem to dance on Shiva constantly and annoyingly... it's weird coz women in this day and age won't tolerate such BS, and the same goes for men in general/real situations.