And what makes you think Shiva is very vocal and doesn't need a push. If anything he is the first one to escape from this relationship. He never tries hard.
First it was insecurity that made him file for divorce
Secondly he wanted Raavi's sacche ehsaas which made him agree to the second marriage
Third he was going to propose but since Raavi fought with Dhara, he was firm that unless Raavi is back to loving Dhara, decided not to take the relationship forward
Finally IVF and Divorce kaand happened which was orchestrated by Anita and Mami and both cleverly implicated Raavi and he now trusts Anita and Mami more than Raavi, hence hating on her.
More than Raavi, it's Shiva who needed the push and still needs the push.
He never sees Raavi for who she is, his relationship with her is associated either with his insecurtities, BhabIMa or Mami.
Raavi has been the one who was trying hard after Sneha Kaand but he refused to budge.
Shiva is a coward who is not ready to take the relationship forward and fight for it head on unlike Raavi who is ready to do anything to win him back.
i totally agree with you
I jst gave my pov about raavi
Or mai hamesha se jaanti thi ki ekbaar jab raavi ko apna pyaar realise hoga toh woh koi bhi hadh paar kar jayegi that shiddat wala pyaar jo humne shiva se expect kia tha woh actually raavi se hi dekhne ko milega