Originally posted by: nikkiGarg
you are correct but I want to add one quick point…
It takes two to tango… Raavi also did insult him right back at his face every time… only time she was supportive and trying to pacify him was around when she was guilty due to Sneha Kaand and Diary kaand… agreed Shiva behaved bitterly and rashly… but he got into silent zone after divorce papers signatures… she provoked him again and again… dhol kaand, balcony kaand, lehanga kaand… if he insulted her then so did she… I will always maintain that both are equally wrong… only point which is against Shiva is his indirect accusation on her character… apart from that whatever he did … raavi equally replied back…
I may be wrong but that is totally my opinion…
I agree both Raavi and Shiva are wrong and they need to apologize to each other first! But I feel Shiva went a bit too extreme with his anger:
1. Character assassination (wrong in all aspects). Raavi’s slap was a reaction to this character assassination
2. Kicking her belongings including the sindoor ki dibbi! Sindoor is one of the most important thing in my marital life! I still keep sindoor ki dibbi next to God. It is equivalent to God for me! Seeing Shiva kick that without any remorse was unbearable for me!
3. Announcing in front of everyone that Raavi is available to get married and eligible guys should call Maami for potential rishtas. Agreed this was a reaction to Maami’s constant insults but bringing Raavi in between was uncalled for.
Raavi is wrong too!! Where she also instigated him by doing the dhol- dance, lehenga kaand etc but I still feel Shiva is more wrong here! Just my opinion.. but at the end of the day both should apologize and accept their mistakes.
Also I think we will now see Raavi’s PoV too during her realization track!❤️