Originally posted by: Anushka_31
According to me inn dono ka progression krne ke liye mu or separation to chaiye tha.
I m reading few posts on twitter and comments on instagram where everyone wants ki raavi ya shiva ko kuch ho jaaye.
So accident wagerah bahut typical sa ho jaata. Hum jitna marzi writers ko gaaliyan de le pr ek pov se I think they have done a pretty good job in shivi's story.
Like sneha ke aane se pehle shiva ko Raavi psnd aane lg gyi thi and he want to express that feelings to her or mere according agar shiva uss phase me Raavi ko apne dil ki baat bta deta to Raavi usse seriously na lekar uska mazaak bna deti. Remember haveli time jb usne haste hue kha tha ki ladai nhi krega to kya pyaar krega? So before sneha kaand Raavi was not at all serious about him. She doesn't have any feelings or thi bhi to na wo use pta tha na hme. So uss waqt shiva use apni feelings btata or wo unhe mazaak me lekar has deti to shiva ab se zyada heartbroken hota. Sneha ne chingaari lgayi or shiva ko ye realise krvaya ki wo or Raavi me zameen aasman ka fark hai uske baad diary kaand ne ye realise krvaya ki shiva wo insaan hai hi nhi jaisa Raavi chahti thi or ye baat sach bhi hai. Raavi shiva ko kbhi choose nhi krti or jb aapko ye baat pta chlti hai ki aap jisse apna bnana chahte ho wo insaan ki nazro me uski priority me sbse last pe ho to aapka reaction yahi hoga jo shiva ka tha.
Uske baad diary kaand ke baad they r not interacting that much pr kuch or bhi nhi ho rha tha isliye dheere dheere krke friends aate gye or sneha ki lgaayi chingari me ghee daalkar aag bnate gye.
Or wo aag mannat track me itni bdh gyi ki usme Raavi or shiva ka rishta jal gya.
Pr inn sbke beech hme kbhi Raavi ki feelings ka pta nhi chla according to me Raavi kbhi iss rishte ke baare me na soch rhi thi na kbhi sochti wo bs flow ke saath chlti rehti jo ki shiva nhi chahta tha and obviously ek rishte me aap bina kuch feel kre sirf flow ke saath nhi chl skte.
Shiva ka cold behaviour usse sochne pr mazboor kr rha tha pr wo kuch samjh nhi paa rhi thi ki shiva ko exactly kya chaiye.
Raavi ke kuch dialogues ek dum khokle the like:
1. Oh to isliye mujhe itna fark padh rha hai
2. Shiva tune aaj tk mujhe pls nhi bola kya itni doori aagyi
3. Pehle teri ladai me bhi apnapan hota tha or ab aisa kya ho gya ki teri chuppi me bhi duriya hai
4. Mai uski hona chahti hu usko apna bnana chahti hu....
And then all compromises adjustment phir se shuru krte hai dialogues.
Inn dialogues se Raavi ke after behaviour me koi change nhi dikhta tha so mere according again shiva kuch krta tha wo uss baare me sochti and then again next day flow ke saath chlti thi.
All compromises dialogues are making shiva more insecure. And I agree ki ek rishte me compromises ki jagah nhi hoti na hi adjustments ki hoti. 2 imperfect log milkar ek perfect rishta bnate hai. Raavi always talks about compromising with each other jbki kisi bhi rishte me compromise nhi hota adjustments hoti hai pr ek dusre ki wajah se apne aap ko adjust nhi Krna hota balki ek dusre ke saath situation me adjust Krna hota hai.
Till the mannat also shiva and Raavi ke beech me cold war sa tha obviously I agree with shiva ki raavi use koi reason nhi de rhi thi ki wo use apni feelings btaye or wahi dusre traf raavi is being a dumb usse kuch smjh nhi aa rha tha ki uski life ne achanak u turn le liya hai. Usse bs shiva ki narazgi dikh rhi to or insecurity. Wo insecurity or narazgi kyu hai wo uss baare me soch hi nhi rhi thi. According to her time ke saath sb thik ho jayega.
During the bike jalao according to me shiva ne raavi ka koi direct character assassination nhi kiya tha it's just that raavi ne saamne se bola or shiva ka jawaab aaya to jaa jaa unke saath hi rehle like thing.
After separation also raavi never thought about shiva but shiva ke dimaag me hmesha raavi ka khyaal tha. And it's just because raavi is never serious about shiva usko shiva se zyada pandya family ka dukh tha. During divorce also she was disheartened because iske baad wo pandyas ki bahu nhi hogi.
More than Shiva's patni she was always pandyas bahu.
And uske baad uska deep dialogue to maami and Anita wo bhi bs isliye tha ki heat of the moment me uske dil me jo tha wo Zubaan pr aagya.
But raavi is unable to understand what her heart wants. That's why uss dialogue ka koi follow up nhi mila.
According to me writers are handling their story pretty well. Kyunki agar sneha kaand se shuru krke mu end krne tk ye log sirf shivi ka hi track dikhate to wo bahut boring ho jata as well as track bahut jldii khtm ho jaata. Abhi hm speculate krte rehte hai shivi mu end hone ka wait krte hai to mere hisaab se itv is all about these things only.
And if they are ghusayoing other tracks it's just because they want to take it very slow. Jo real lge obviously itv hai to hum sb direct conversation nhi expect kr skte and shiva or Raavi direct conversation krne waale couple hai bhi nhi
Or generally ek joint family me hr ek ki life me issue hota hai or idhar bhi yhi ho rha hai dhara is having pregnancy and insecurity issues
Rishita is having adjustments issue
Krish is having a track connected to him
And shiva raavi story is going like everyone is trying to make them realise but they will realise by their own.
And jo zyada overdramatic ya overdose ho jaata hai so its itv.✌️
And jha tk maine raavi ko smjha hai she is not in the same phase in which shiva is.
Abhi usse bahut kuch realise Krna hai. Shiva is way ahead to her.
And I think mu track ke chlte hi raavi or shiva ke jo personal issues hai wo bhi khtm ho jaayenge like Shiva's insecurity ,raavi abandonment issue or ek dusre ke ye issues ye khud solve krenge and then they will have a beautiful journey together.
So, I think baar baar accident nhi thik hote like ek already hme milgya tha kidnapping mu ko khtm krne ke liye khandar me ab baar baar same chiz dikhayenge to we r the only one jo writers ko blame krte hai rinse repeat recycle ke liye.
My POV
I want others to give their views on this ki wo log iss baare me kya sochte hai unke according kya hai?
This is absolutely true that Raavi is not on the same page as Shiva , even the thing that she would made a joke if at the night of reception Shiva would have confessed. Yes Raavi only thinks about Pandya Family and being Pandya Bahu and not as Shiva ‘s wife may be because use lagta ki Shiva does not think of being her husband and about this marriage but does full fill every responsibility, actually they have not talked about their marriage only like what were there dreams , in which situation they are and what do to about this marriage ahead. I think they did not think as couple in their marriage only it was just for the family she was bahu, devarani and bhabhi . So yes they need to solve this things with themselves first and then with each other.
I agree that separation was needed at some point but I think they rushed something’s like Shiva’s liking towards Raavi so fast like it not had been a month but that is also justified as they knew each other from childhood just couldn’t know real each other which they were discovering in that after jeera kaand face . And yes I think the separation was rushed because first they should have developed a basic understanding as roommates or at least as humans am I not saying as couple . If after understanding each other then attraction and then this insecurity track by that Sneha kaand and then separation for realising their true feelings ( because as said they are not like ordinary couples to talk each other and sort things )and love which developed during the course would have justices better.
‘This is my opinion
