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Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
Boring ke saath mat jana kabhi
Excitement hona chahiye positive type ka
Saari zindagi bore ho jayegi nahin to
Choose someone who lits up ua world even if he Is normal
Yeahh.
Koi spark to honaa chahiye.
But sometimes you see some incidents around you, within your family and you begin to feel that maybe zyada expectations nahi rakhni chahiye.just a normal guy is good enough.
My own mother tells me not to keep those fancy expectations of love and romance that is shown in the movies, because that's not how real life works 😅
Whenever the topic of marriage comes up.there would be a guy with a good job, good family, to problem kya hai?
Ab unhe kaun samjhaye that there needs to be a basic level of attraction between people.
I am from a pretty conservative household,I have seen women from my previous generation marrying without even seeing the guy once.
My best friends mother didn't know to which brother she was married till the first night. There were 4 brothers in the house and she had no clue which one was her husband.the husband and wife are allowed to stay in the same room only after 4 days. In those 4 days the bride gets to stay in another room or with the mother or sister of the groom.and I am not exaggerating 😅
So that's why I asked you, does such love even exist about which you write in your fanfics?
I admit I am in a lot better position now.i have good exposure, I am independent, can take my own decisions.so I am taking my own time now.
Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa
falling in love with a certain type of person isn't necessary
fall in love w someone who both loves & respects you :))
because y'all are gems & you deserve everything the world has to offer 🥺❤️
That's so true ❤️ Love, Honesty and respect. Yeh teen chizein chahiye😳
Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa
falling in love with a certain type of person isn't necessary
fall in love w someone who both loves & respects you :))
because y'all are gems & you deserve everything the world has to offer 🥺❤️
Awwww thank you Saraaaa, that is really sweet! 🤗❤️
Practicality overtook🤣
Those kinda guys don't exist around me🤣
Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi
Yeahh.
Koi spark to honaa chahiye.
But sometimes you see some incidents around you, within your family and you begin to feel that maybe zyada expectations nahi rakhni chahiye.just a normal guy is good enough.
My own mother tells me not to keep those fancy expectations of love and romance that is shown in the movies, because that's not how real life works 😅
Whenever the topic of marriage comes up.there would be a guy with a good job, good family, to problem kya hai?
Ab unhe kaun samjhaye that there needs to be a basic level of attraction between people.
I am from a pretty conservative household,I have seen women from my previous generation marrying without even seeing the guy once.
My best friends mother didn't know to which brother she was married till the first night. There were 4 brothers in the house and she had no clue which one was her husband.the husband and wife are allowed to stay in the same room only after 4 days. In those 4 days the bride gets to stay in another room or with the mother or sister of the groom.and I am not exaggerating 😅
So that's why I asked you, does such love even exist about which you write in your fanfics?
I admit I am in a lot better position now.i have good exposure, I am independent, can take my own decisions.so I am taking my own time now.
@bold- it does, you just have to wait to find it or wait for it to find you :))
I know it sounds very stupid, but trust me you deserve all the love & respect in the world 🥰
never settle for anything less than that ❤️
Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa
@bold- it does, you just have to wait to find it or wait for it to find you :))
I know it sounds very stupid, but trust me you deserve all the love & respect in the world 🥰
never settle for anything less than that ❤️
Thankk youu dear ❣️❣️❣️
On some days you need such positivity.❤️
Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi
Yeahh.
Koi spark to honaa chahiye.
But sometimes you see some incidents around you, within your family and you begin to feel that maybe zyada expectations nahi rakhni chahiye.just a normal guy is good enough.
My own mother tells me not to keep those fancy expectations of love and romance that is shown in the movies, because that's not how real life works 😅
Whenever the topic of marriage comes up.there would be a guy with a good job, good family, to problem kya hai?
Ab unhe kaun samjhaye that there needs to be a basic level of attraction between people.
I am from a pretty conservative household,I have seen women from my previous generation marrying without even seeing the guy once.
My best friends mother didn't know to which brother she was married till the first night. There were 4 brothers in the house and she had no clue which one was her husband.the husband and wife are allowed to stay in the same room only after 4 days. In those 4 days the bride gets to stay in another room or with the mother or sister of the groom.and I am not exaggerating 😅
So that's why I asked you, does such love even exist about which you write in your fanfics?
I admit I am in a lot better position now.i have good exposure, I am independent, can take my own decisions.so I am taking my own time now.
I dunno about the world
I have been a pretty sheltered kind of a person
I have witnessed only devotion around me. And love.
So I say yes.
Maybe not to the extent of madness but quite close. So yeah there is that kind of love. And I dont say u get it in first sight. Love is not the name of falling. U grow in love. Trial and error se. baaton se. u learn. U make mistake u fall and then u learn not to do it again. It is magical but there is effort too. Nothing cones without effort and a will to make it work. So if u r looking for that instant spark I dunno of it. But waisa love zaroor exist karta hai.
It wont be similar to mine but it will work for u...
Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi
Yeahh.
Koi spark to honaa chahiye.
But sometimes you see some incidents around you, within your family and you begin to feel that maybe zyada expectations nahi rakhni chahiye.just a normal guy is good enough.
My own mother tells me not to keep those fancy expectations of love and romance that is shown in the movies, because that's not how real life works 😅
Whenever the topic of marriage comes up.there would be a guy with a good job, good family, to problem kya hai?
Ab unhe kaun samjhaye that there needs to be a basic level of attraction between people.
I am from a pretty conservative household,I have seen women from my previous generation marrying without even seeing the guy once.
My best friends mother didn't know to which brother she was married till the first night. There were 4 brothers in the house and she had no clue which one was her husband.the husband and wife are allowed to stay in the same room only after 4 days. In those 4 days the bride gets to stay in another room or with the mother or sister of the groom.and I am not exaggerating 😅
So that's why I asked you, does such love even exist about which you write in your fanfics?
I admit I am in a lot better position now.i have good exposure, I am independent, can take my own decisions.so I am taking my own time now.
Marriages, especially arranged marriage in India, is mostly taken as a deal. Families from the same caste, same financial strata, kundalis match, guy has a handsome salary according to the the financial status of the families and you're done👍
Nothing else matters, and that's what iritates me.
And I'm always frustrated to see the girls my age getting ready to marry a guy just because of the above factors.
Positivity can exist with practicality tooooo
So never give up