jahil gawar anpadh naukar - Page 3

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

Exactly

I am shocked seeing people calling Raavi wrong. I don't think she thought anything like Suman said. Our Raavi is a sweetheart. Everyone keeps hurting her but doesn't understand her. I am not angry on Shiva on shouting but Raavi was not wrong she did nothing wrong.

When Shiva can support Dhara blindly even after her wrong but Raavi can't support that women who took care of her like a baby when she was an orphan. She was not blindly supporting her unlike others she was worried seeing a sickle on her neck.

him supporting dhara blindly is wrong too......but dhara is not going around and spoiling people's life like mami did.....she isnt a manipulative, cunning, thief......she is staying with dem and trying to break the family and raavi knows her too well as she has been staying with her.......but luckily raavi is too good and innocent ......

m not saying her not to support her mami..that would come naturally to her as it comes to shiva.....but she herself saw and heard what all she has done.....she accepted and challenged shiva shamelessly.....she may support anyone she wants but taunting suman and getting angry at shiva is not acceptable for me....

u might have a point which i m not understanding right now.......let the time take it course........thanks for putting your point

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

suman talking to mami was a good thing.......straight forward.....i didnt like raavi's attitude there........

i understand its her masi but is she deaf to whatever her masi confessed? m glad suman corrected her that r u shouting on me or your masi?

too much of naukar naukar thing......raavi's anger is misplaced and m not liking it a bit....shiva doing whatever he did, was right in his place....coz of her masi and masa his dad died, they lied and took not only money but kangan which she keeps flashing....raavi if u have so much problem den attitude jeb mein rakh and nikal......

cant she see mami had been trying to instigate everyone possible to create issues....raavi herself said she doesnt want her life to be destroyed by listening to her masi? how dare she tells shiva to stay in tameez ka dayra? teri masi ko rakh wahan...and u too be in that.....raavi is behaving as if she doesnt know anything.....mami is kind of a female who can never let anything good happen with anyone.......totally disgusting.....

shiva and raavi till date had nok jhonk but today he literally got angry and for all the right reasons.....

i mind husband or wife's anger if its unnecessary(no gender bias, jo galat hai wo galat hai) but here i m not finding him wrong

m angry coz m so much hurt......i know shiva is simple and doesnt mind what others say but there is a limit to everything.....

i havent forgiven dhara but abhi usne aisa kya keh diya jahan raavi uspe gussa kar rahi hai?

whoever doesnt like my shiva and has problem with him being jahil, gawar, anpadh, naukar can go to hell to never return coz shiva didnt beg to get married to sarvagun samppan raavi, he is as much victim as she is......so stop berating and humiliating him....poor man has noone who can understand him....

and shiva dont pay for kangan.....it is your mom's....u dont need to do any such thing

precap- dev did he ever ask u ki shopping kyun karte ho? itna paisa kyun udate ho? tumne paise kyun mange or kahan kharch kiye? den y the hell u r asking.........and i do mind the tone.....its kind of interrogating ....not out of concern

I totally agree with you whatever you said today raavi's behaviour was so disgusting it's enough for her to play victim card she should come to reality shiva saved her life twice still she is in her own world if she has so much problem y don't she leave him and go with maami poor shiva how much he has to listen

I am wishing tomorrow shiva should tell raavi if she has so much problem better go with maami break this marriage then she will understand his value

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

Ok so I have a bit different opinion about this.

Writers actually wrote soo confusing lines for Raavi.

It is difficult for Raavi to support one side right now. Pandya family is her family and she loves them but for Raavi Mami is also very important.

Mami kesi bhi hain we can't deny that she has given unconditional love to her and wants the best for her. And most importantly for Raavi, Mami has took care of her like a mother even when she was a orphan.

So right now everyone wanting to Raavi just suddenly ditach from her is not possible and say things would be wrong in soo many levels.

About Insulting Shiva by Mami, I don't know if u guys saw or not but she has asked her to not talk like that with him but it was him who shouted on her. Even before if Shiva won't have come I am sure Raavi would have answered back.

Raavi was ok till Shiva kept that grass cutting thing on Mami ka neck. That was when it was a bit too much for Raavi.

Raavi has always supported Shiva in front of Mami even before wedding. She is very clear with not taking her opinions but u can't expect her to be quite and see her Mami getting hurt.

Now Shiva is her husband and most importantly now she knows that how many times he has saved her life so definitely she won't have went against him and supported Mami. But bcoz that thing could have hurt Mami that's why she stopped Dhara.

I didn't saw how Raavi was wrong. I love Shiva the most and I felt really bad with the way Mami was shitting but Raavi too was not at fault.

About Shiva shouting on Raavi I didn't find it that much offending. I am against manhandling of Shiva but this time I couldn't call him wrong. He actually asked her to shut up with his haq on her as husband. He may have shouted but his tone was not containing any indifference or any hate. He shouted on her as he thought of her as wife not as Mami ki behen ki beti. Bcoz if this would have happened before marriage or even before khandar incident he won't have cared about her and we all have seen the way he has treated her. He didn't did anything to her so I saw that as a progress. Hope tomorrow Raavi doesn't disappoint us. Hope we see a meaningful conversation between them about the expectations they have from each other and what they feel about all this Mami ka drama. They need to talk hope whatever progress we saw from last 1 week won't go down the drain.

What I am not liking is that how almost everyday Shiva Raavi r getting physically mentally and emotionally hurt. No one cares about them.

Gaura doesn't care they r in their own world of delusion that batwara did all good, Dev Rishita let's not talk about them, Krish chota hain, Suman is more into making Family United, Mami ke tamashe khatam nahi ho rahe. Literally no one is treating them like humans, they aren't robots that they will keep getting hurt and they would be fine. They aren't getting break from all the shit.

i am not saying her to suddenly support shiva and not do anything for mami......that's not what i meant....i meant she may support mami and whom so ever she wants, her choice, but she cant taunt suman which she clearly did by shouting and telling her aap kyun apni beizzati karvane aa jate ho.......here no one invited mami to join the family, she herself comes for masala and to create issues in the family......and raavi knows that .....after listening to what suman had to say, she should have just taken her masi away instead of shouting and showing her displeasure .......my pov

shiva scolded raavi coz he wanted to know what else mami has in her mind for him and the family.....raavi was listening to her, the venom coming out of her mouth and her challenging shiva that i took the kangan and when suman cant take it back, who is he(who looks like a servant and blah blah blah).... she cant stop any of dem.....but here she knows who is right and wrong.....and shiva wasnt going to kill her ......that much confidence she should have....his anger is way too much but he isnt a murderer .....so getting angry at shiva was not acceptable to me.....and m just angry that doesnt mean i dislike raavi......i love her too but here what she did was wrong in my eyes........

@bold i cant agree more on this......these 2 have been neglected in such a harsh way......there is no redemption for anyone associated to dem for putting dem in this situation and harassing dem like this.....they needed to be handled so delicately after such events happening in their lives........but everyone is in their own world and pushing and pulling dem as they want........

Originally posted by: Madhu1000

I totally agree with you whatever you said today raavi's behaviour was so disgusting it's enough for her to play victim card she should come to reality shiva saved her life twice still she is in her own world if she has so much problem y don't she leave him and go with maami poor shiva how much he has to listen

I am wishing tomorrow shiva should tell raavi if she has so much problem better go with maami break this marriage then she will understand his value

the problem here is that many think only raavi is a victim here........shiva is as much victim as she is....he has done nothing but try to save her from whatever situation he can in best of his abilities....even in his hate or dislike for raavi, he told everyone to tell raavi truth before wedding and warned dev about the situation....so he is inside out a genuinely good person.....

raavi being in her own world is fine by me coz 10 years of love or admiration takes time to wear off or it might never go away.....and i dont want her to accept or admire shiva for saving her life....i want her to see who he is in real keeping aside his appearance(usi ka jhagda hai)....

she once opposed prafulla for talking to shiva like this but she kept yelling at shiva to be in limit and leave her masi......cant she see prafulla is the one out of line here and has always been.......she can keep fighting for her masi all she wants but snapping at shiva is wrong....

This, here is the reason I am not a Raavi fan. I like her because she’s the other half of ShiVi but she seems incapable of deciding between right and wrong.

Pissed me right off. I just couldn’t stand Raavi or Prafulla. Shiva calling her Naagin was on point. She’s full of venom.

Why does Gautam always shut Shiva up? Just because Prafula is older doesn’t make her right. She’s a downright criminal.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i am not saying her to suddenly support shiva and not do anything for mami......that's not what i meant....i meant she may support mami and whom so ever she wants, her choice, but she cant taunt suman which she clearly did by shouting and telling her aap kyun apni beizzati karvane aa jate ho.......here no one invited mami to join the family, she herself comes for masala and to create issues in the family......and raavi knows that .....after listening to what suman had to say, she should have just taken her masi away instead of shouting and showing her displeasure .......my pov

I am sure she didn't meant that Pandya family brought her to insult her. If I see from Raavi ka POV she is coming clean in front of Suman that she isn't related to the shit done by Prafulla, she doesn't supports it. She wants peace and doesn't want her maasi's interference in her family matters.

shiva scolded raavi coz he wanted to know what else mami has in her mind for him and the family.....raavi was listening to her, the venom coming out of her mouth and her challenging shiva that i took the kangan and when suman cant take it back, who is he(who looks like a servant and blah blah blah).... she cant stop any of dem.....but here she knows who is right and wrong.....and shiva wasnt going to kill her ......that much confidence she should have....his anger is way too much but he isnt a murderer .....so getting angry at shiva was not acceptable to me.....and m just angry that doesnt mean i dislike raavi......i love her too but here what she did was wrong in my eyes........

I don't find Shiva scolding Raavi wrong that was his haq on her. I just want her to appologise for that, which most probably we won't get. She never said he will kill his Maasi nor I think she even thought of that, but he could have hurt her. Just keeping that sickle on her neck was wrong. I don't like Prafulla as she is sort of a criminal but he was angry unknowingly he could have hurt.

Most importantly she knew her Maasi can instigate Shiva and he can do something she he won't even dream to do like physically hurting Mami.

@bold i cant agree more on this......these 2 have been neglected in such a harsh way......there is no redemption for anyone associated to dem for putting dem in this situation and harassing dem like this.....they needed to be handled so delicately after such events happening in their lives........but everyone is in their own world and pushing and pulling dem as they want........

All r saying we r disappointed by Raavi and what not things makes me mad thinking what people want her to do. Ignore that women who took care of her like a family and see her getting hurt.

She was not against Shiva nor she was supporting Mami.

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

All r saying we r disappointed by Raavi and what not things makes me mad thinking what people want her to do. Ignore that women who took care of her like a family and see her getting hurt.

She was not against Shiva nor she was supporting Mami.

In mahabharath Karan was Duryodhans bestie. He knew all of Duryodhans kartoot and yet decided to stand by his side even after acknowledging that Duryodhan was wrong due To some twisted sense of loyalty because Duryodhan always supported him and helped him. Does that make Karan right? Could he not hve done something? Then here in the same way Raavi is expected to speak up when someone is wrong whether it be Maami or Shiva. She is not firm with her maasi. And that’s the readon I find it wrong. Her silence bother me. Especially after Shiva told her his pov she still didn’t defend him today. And as far as maasi being her provider and family for years is concerned. No one wants her to break the relationship but they do expect her to know what’s right and wrong. She knew the fam since she was a child. She wanted to marry in this fam and she knew her maasi and this fam din see eye to eye. So she must hve thought of how to deal with it right? Then y this silence? Y feel like she is being wronged?

Raavi is being blamed because standing on the neutral line just because your loved one is wrong is not the right way. Truth is always the truth.

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

All r saying we r disappointed by Raavi and what not things makes me mad thinking what people want her to do. Ignore that women who took care of her like a family and see her getting hurt.

She was not against Shiva nor she was supporting Mami.

I don't want her to support Shiva just because he is her husband. She needs to support him because he is right and maami is clearly wrong. This is about right vs wrong and not husband vs mother figure for me. Raavi needs to take some time and think over how evil and disgusting maami is and how she ruined the pandya family completely. If she doesn't know the whole truth, I would want her to ask suman or dhara about it. Just because maami gave her unconditional love she cannot excuse her maami or stay silent or neutral when that vile woman is completely shattering someone's self respect and self worth time and time again.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I don't want her to support Shiva just because he is her husband. She needs to support him because he is right and maami is clearly wrong. This is about right vs wrong and not husband vs mother figure for me. Raavi needs to take some time and think over how evil and disgusting maami is and how she ruined the pandya family completely. If she doesn't know the whole truth, I would want her to ask suman or dhara about it. Just because maami gave her unconditional love she cannot excuse her maami or stay silent or neutral when that vile woman is completely shattering someone's self respect and self worth time and time again.

i cant thank u enough darling.....🤗 love for writing this down here

i guess what i was trying to convey was this and my post didnt come out this way........

u did the task in just few lines for which i wrote one page.....thank u once again

Honestly This thing pisses me off Everytime!

Everyone insults him! No one realises his worth!

Earlier it seemed like dhara gaumbi understood him bt now No one 🙂

My poor shiva 💔