jahil gawar anpadh naukar - Page 2

Ok so I have a bit different opinion about this.

Writers actually wrote soo confusing lines for Raavi.

It is difficult for Raavi to support one side right now. Pandya family is her family and she loves them but for Raavi Mami is also very important.

Mami kesi bhi hain we can't deny that she has given unconditional love to her and wants the best for her. And most importantly for Raavi, Mami has took care of her like a mother even when she was a orphan.

So right now everyone wanting to Raavi just suddenly ditach from her is not possible and say things would be wrong in soo many levels.

About Insulting Shiva by Mami, I don't know if u guys saw or not but she has asked her to not talk like that with him but it was him who shouted on her. Even before if Shiva won't have come I am sure Raavi would have answered back.

Raavi was ok till Shiva kept that grass cutting thing on Mami ka neck. That was when it was a bit too much for Raavi.

Raavi has always supported Shiva in front of Mami even before wedding. She is very clear with not taking her opinions but u can't expect her to be quite and see her Mami getting hurt.

Now Shiva is her husband and most importantly now she knows that how many times he has saved her life so definitely she won't have went against him and supported Mami. But bcoz that thing could have hurt Mami that's why she stopped Dhara.

I didn't saw how Raavi was wrong. I love Shiva the most and I felt really bad with the way Mami was shitting but Raavi too was not at fault.

About Shiva shouting on Raavi I didn't find it that much offending. I am against manhandling of Shiva but this time I couldn't call him wrong. He actually asked her to shut up with his haq on her as husband. He may have shouted but his tone was not containing any indifference or any hate. He shouted on her as he thought of her as wife not as Mami ki behen ki beti. Bcoz if this would have happened before marriage or even before khandar incident he won't have cared about her and we all have seen the way he has treated her. He didn't did anything to her so I saw that as a progress. Hope tomorrow Raavi doesn't disappoint us. Hope we see a meaningful conversation between them about the expectations they have from each other and what they feel about all this Mami ka drama. They need to talk hope whatever progress we saw from last 1 week won't go down the drain.

What I am not liking is that how almost everyday Shiva Raavi r getting physically mentally and emotionally hurt. No one cares about them.

Gaura doesn't care they r in their own world of delusion that batwara did all good, Dev Rishita let's not talk about them, Krish chota hain, Suman is more into making Family United, Mami ke tamashe khatam nahi ho rahe. Literally no one is treating them like humans, they aren't robots that they will keep getting hurt and they would be fine. They aren't getting break from all the shit.

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

It was a sad episode , I think raavi is torn between the two she knows her Mami is wrong everywhere but then maybe she thinks she is indebted towards her as she brought her up as she is an orphan and raavi did tell Mami off but shiva shouted at her and she was shocked .

I don't support man shouting at his wife but what I interpreted from that scene was shiva shouted at her as he was getting affected by maamis insults and his insecurities 10 folds because of the his budding feelings or suppressed feelings (considering the fact that he had feelings for her since childhood) . There were too many feelings and emotions shiva was going through .

i dont understand y husband cant raise voice....i am not talking about abuse here(abuse of any form is not acceptable).....in normal life when someone gets angry they shout or raise voice......be it husband or wife....depends on the circumstances......gender bias nahi hai......even siblings, mom dad....people raise voice.......here shiva's anger is justified.......when shiva is wrong den if raavi yells at him, its acceptable.....

u might be right that she feels torn......i get it.....den y did she yell at shiva?

shiva wasnt insecure when he shouted.......he wanted mami to spew all her venom, what all is in her mind should come out....his budding feelings were not the reason at all.......ya he was hurt coz every day if someone keeps calling u names.....m sure anyone would get pissed........

its just my POV.........yours might differ......and i respect that.....

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

And more than raavi I want Dhara to take a stand for him like Suman took after that kidnapping incident . She claims to be her mother and she can't understand his pain and why he has such extreme anger issues . She should tell Mami the value of shiva in the house if he is the servant than Dhara is also a servant who is 24/7 working for the family , then gaumbi is also a servant who worked tirelessly for his family and the business

If not take a stand atleast apologize to shiva , I mean I know raavi and shiva and meant to be it was their love story from the beginning but it's because of dhara's emotional blackmailing that shiva is in this marriage , have a heart to heart conversation with him about this marriage atleast

well said! Dhara 1.0 would have done something like this, but the Dhara that we have now is just useless 🤪

Originally posted by: 07RB

I know many are not happy with Raavi behavior. But to br really honest I don’t feel her behavior weird. For her she is a mother figure she would not start blindly believing Shiva behavior.

That's exactly the problem. Raavi blind to mami. Shiva blind to dhara , dhara gombi blind to suman and mami.

All in all a toxic joint family. They can't stay away from each other but won't be happy living with each other. There will always be issues bec elders need to be respected no matter what shit they say , bec they will keep secrets from each other so that others don't get hurt, bec there will be no equal responsibilities and rights.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i dont understand y husband cant raise voice....i am not talking about abuse here(abuse of any form is not acceptable).....in normal life when someone gets angry they shout or raise voice......be it husband or wife....depends on the circumstances......gender bias nahi hai......even siblings, mom dad....people raise voice.......here shiva's anger is justified.......when shiva is wrong den if raavi yells at him, its acceptable.....

u might be right that she feels torn......i get it.....den y did she yell at shiva?

shiva wasnt insecure when he shouted.......he wanted mami to spew all her venom, what all is in her mind should come out....his budding feelings were not the reason at all.......ya he was hurt coz every day if someone keeps calling u names.....m sure anyone would get pissed........

its just my POV.........yours might differ......and i respect that.....

Shiva was about slit a person's throat , it was extreme anger , raavi must have been scared and anyways I would wait for tomorrow's episode

Iam not taking any side I feel for both the characters both of them have gone through a lot and both of them are not treated well by their families and why would shiva be angry at raavi , she was telling maami to go and also told her not to talk to shiva like that

I think shiva was also angry because raavi was crying and raavi had to go through insults because of her aunt maybe he was angry on the fact that this girl he might be in love with is related to the whom he hates

And are u saying that shiva is not insecure about himself at all or was not insecure in that moment because he is definitely insecure especially when it comes to raavi and it has been established through a lot of scenes , one where he tells Dev that Kahan gentle man Milne wala tha aur Kahan mein mil Gaya raavi Ko or the whole scene with the kapde and all

Even yesterday that whole mango mirchi scene and shiva it's a mismatch like them with that expression

And that what attracts me to their love story , both of them are hurt both of them and baggages and inner conflicts and I would love to see these emotions playing the wheel in their story rather than any third person

Shiva was the most sane and right today.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

suman talking to mami was a good thing.......straight forward.....i didnt like raavi's attitude there........

i understand its her masi but is she deaf to whatever her masi confessed? m glad suman corrected her that r u shouting on me or your masi?

too much of naukar naukar thing......raavi's anger is misplaced and m not liking it a bit....shiva doing whatever he did, was right in his place....coz of her masi and masa his dad died, they lied and took not only money but kangan which she keeps flashing....raavi if u have so much problem den attitude jeb mein rakh and nikal......

cant she see mami had been trying to instigate everyone possible to create issues....raavi herself said she doesnt want her life to be destroyed by listening to her masi? how dare she tells shiva to stay in tameez ka dayra? teri masi ko rakh wahan...and u too be in that.....raavi is behaving as if she doesnt know anything.....mami is kind of a female who can never let anything good happen with anyone.......totally disgusting.....

shiva and raavi till date had nok jhonk but today he literally got angry and for all the right reasons.....

i mind husband or wife's anger if its unnecessary(no gender bias, jo galat hai wo galat hai) but here i m not finding him wrong

m angry coz m so much hurt......i know shiva is simple and doesnt mind what others say but there is a limit to everything.....

i havent forgiven dhara but abhi usne aisa kya keh diya jahan raavi uspe gussa kar rahi hai?

whoever doesnt like my shiva and has problem with him being jahil, gawar, anpadh, naukar can go to hell to never return coz shiva didnt beg to get married to sarvagun samppan raavi, he is as much victim as she is......so stop berating and humiliating him....poor man has noone who can understand him....

and shiva dont pay for kangan.....it is your mom's....u dont need to do any such thing

precap- dev did he ever ask u ki shopping kyun karte ho? itna paisa kyun udate ho? tumne paise kyun mange or kahan kharch kiye? den y the hell u r asking.........and i do mind the tone.....its kind of interrogating ....not out of concern

I agree with you too.

I did not like Ravi's attitude today. I do wish someone list all the thing her maasi did to Pandya family. I mean Shiva talked only about separating brother and sister. And I do think she did not hear Suman questioning Prafulla regarding the video.

About precap..... I don't think what Dev asked is wrong. I am not fan of him and Rishita. But yes anyone in their place will question Shiva because he was there for taking loan. It will concern anyone in the family and interrogation is the first thing family will do. Don't know about Rishita but Dev would definitely think if you need money can ask from Gautam but why loan.

Shiva ka gussa sahi h lekin.......I literally felt bad for Raavi...she defended Shiva when he was called servant and called her maasi maami, yet Shiva shouted at her ......it was difficult for her to see her maasi in such state....she never sided with her coz she knows about mami's hatred towards Pandya family but she can't withstand her insult so she was telling her to leave......yet maa and Shiva scolded and taunted her......Raavi doesn't deserve such torture....I truly want her to give silent treatment to Shiva stating that she is just being the ideal quiet wife for dominating husband like Shiva who has manhandled her and asked her not to interfere several times and even scolded her...only slaps are left which she doesn't wish to face...so she has decided to stay quiet and obedient....and this would make Shiva feel guilty to no end 🌵

Originally posted by: chulbul2111

Shiva ka gussa sahi h lekin.......I literally felt bad for Raavi...she defended Shiva when he was called servant and called her maasi maami, yet Shiva shouted at her ......it was difficult for her to see her maasi in such state....she never sided with her coz she knows about mami's hatred towards Pandya family but she can't withstand her insult so she was telling her to leave......yet maa and Shiva scolded and taunted her......Raavi doesn't deserve such torture....I truly want her to give silent treatment to Shiva stating that she is just being the ideal quiet wife for dominating husband like Shiva who has manhandled her and asked her not to interfere several times and even scolded her...only slaps are left which she doesn't wish to face...so she has decided to stay quiet and obedient....and this would make Shiva feel guilty to no end 🌵

Exactly

I am shocked seeing people calling Raavi wrong. I don't think she thought anything like Suman said. Our Raavi is a sweetheart. Everyone keeps hurting her but doesn't understand her. I am not angry on Shiva on shouting but Raavi was not wrong she did nothing wrong.

When Shiva can support Dhara blindly even after her wrong but Raavi can't support that women who took care of her like a baby when she was an orphan. She was not blindly supporting her unlike others she was worried seeing a sickle on her neck.

Shiva and Raavi need to find their way! I think this is going to be a very well deserved tipping point in their relationship!