Today's Episode- Suman and Shivi - Page 2

Nowdays this forum is only about aww shiva awww shiva n again awwww shiva Ravi...Ravi shiva ..areee twats new in that hate come love saga??? Force marriage but nowadays girls loves these fantasy only ..but these blind hatered towards Dhara is so annoying ..thik hai maara usne .. usse galti hui wo karte waqt even she was crying.she herself was affected the most but nhi awww shiva awww shiva is goin on she sacrificed her 10 years didn't conceive but ek galti or Dhara this Dhara that started by awww shiva Ravi fans lol .. n she isn't in the side of Rishita ,it's jus that Rishita need time n understanding but Krish n Ur aww shiva ne limit cross kardi in the name of mazak they crossed their lines , Rishita isn't saint but Dhara right now doesn't wants that she considers herself as n outsider..baki awww shiva Ravi karte raho

Originally posted by: abhilashaa23

Nowdays this forum is only about aww shiva awww shiva n again awwww shiva Ravi...Ravi shiva ..areee twats new in that hate come love saga??? Force marriage but nowadays girls loves these fantasy only ..but these blind hatered towards Dhara is so annoying ..thik hai maara usne .. usse galti hui wo karte waqt even she was crying.she herself was affected the most but nhi awww shiva awww shiva is goin on she sacrificed her 10 years didn't conceive but ek galti or Dhara this Dhara that started by awww shiva Ravi fans lol .. n she isn't in the side of Rishita ,it's jus that Rishita need time n understanding but Krish n Ur aww shiva ne limit cross kardi in the name of mazak they crossed their lines , Rishita isn't saint but Dhara right now doesn't wants that she considers herself as n outsider..baki awww shiva Ravi karte raho

We have a Shivi hater here !! 😂😂

So true 👍

Suman is right at her place , if Gaumbi can stop Suman from beating her wife , he should also shield his brothers same way .

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

seriously how did you even enjoy it.🤢 i am not a dhara fan,but telling that she didnt have child,thats why she doesnt understand, pointing these to a childless woman is very hurting.i know many such woman wo are part of the family as well as my friend..the trauma,humiliation they go through is very painful.

dhara's decision for not bearing a child is not a joke and easy task. if she had the child of her own and didnt look after pandya brothers,then also she will be getting wrath of people.as a married woman,i am telling u its not that easy...

i was trying to analyse the bhooth scenario again,just think,what if rishita got an heart attack because of that hungama? both krish and shiva will be jailed..

and that justifies dhara beating them up black and blue? those scars will stay for a long time btw and right now dhara would be jailed if her devars didnt worship her. suman said out of anger and in past suman has tried to shield her from the taunts of outsiders for not having a child. but as someone else pointed out, today suman the mother was talking after seeing her sons's scarred back. also her not having a child was a practical choice not a mahaan sacrifice like it is shown. A child doesn't ask to be born or taken care of. that is all on parents so lording that over children is quite toxic. so her taking care of her devars doesnt mean it is ok to emotionally blackmail them to give up the right on a major choice of their life as well as push them to accept their forced relationship while simultaneously expect everyone to take the verbal abuse from someone with their head down and be ok with it. she doesnt even regret beating them and neither her nor gautam went and checked or even asked ShiSh after that beating. ya she is the mother of the year for sure. even now as suman rightly pointed out, she told the truth to her, the head of the family, at a point where she had no choice and threatened everyone else not to tell suman or she will leave. she pampered rishita at the expense of everyone else's happiness and self respect. she tried to behave like a saas but she is not ready for that at all. look at her. she cant take pressure. the moment things got heated she took it out on two members of the family. tell me this, why did the bhoot kaand happen in first place? did dhara bother to put a stop to rishita? she should have started the day she took the room. but no she was busy pampering her and threatening shivi just because she knows they would never reply her back like rishita. it shows that the power has gotten to her head and when suman confronted her she was shaking like a leaf. there is nothing that you or anyone can say that can justify that beating. it was physical abuse, pure and simple.

also, bhoot kaand was wrong but dhara and gautam played their part in making that happen. so lets not blame ShiSh alone for this. Also in all fairness, why is dev never punished considered he left someone and brought her to the brink of dying. i am see a beating for that as that qualifies as per dhara's criteria.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I think the issue is that we should not take it as absolute rights or wrongs, because with that eye pretty much everyone has some fault or the other in this entire situation.

I think that is the point- they are all flawed. Dhara was not right in hitting, but she wanted to show the boys that they made a serious mistake. Suman should not have brought up the childlessness, but she was anguished and angry. It’s not like she brings it up every time she is at home or when she is normal. All of us are guilty of becoming unreasonable and spouting venom when we are angry- and we generally tend to say things that will hurt the object of our anger the most.(we as in probably 80% of the human population. There are saints who would never hurt anyone)

I love Suman. She is a gangster 😆 But she is also human and makes mistakes in the flow of emotions.

I don’t know, if she was right and perfect all the time, I would gotten bored of her.

@bold: Yes! Not sure why anyone expects to see 100% PC characters on tv. It's pretty natural to hurl insults when fighting, especially when one is so livid. Most people do it. You'd have to be a saint to not. What she said was meant to hurt because she was hurt by Dhara's actions - I'm not sure why anyone would expect Suman to not make a comment like that. That's how hurt she really is by Dhara's actions.

Also I really do think (I've mentioned this on other posts) it was to get Dhara to understand or realize how Suman feels. In Suman's POV, its not necessarily right to equate what Dhara feels for/is DSK to what Suman feels/is for DSK + G. (NOTE: I don't want to offend anyone who is/has an adoptive mother - that's a different situation.).

Suman is their real, still alive & present mother, and for Suman, that will always trump Dhara's mother-like role in DSK lives.This is why DSK was pleading with Suman because they know she's the real decision maker. So for Dhara to go behind her back and do this to her children - it's not right and there's no true way for Dhara to understand it until she has her own kids (in Suman's POV).