Rishita needs a reality check - Page 3

Originally posted by: ananyakhetarpal

I agree wholeheartedly! Hate the double standards here. If Gaumbi can explain calmly to Rishita sooo many times, he can definitely have a little patience with Krish.

Yep. I agree Krish's reaction was a little over the top, but this is a boy seeing someone disrespecting his father(figure) ! And this wasn't even the first time, of course he's gonna burst !! 🙄🙄

Originally posted by: ananyakhetarpal

I agree wholeheartedly! Hate the double standards here. If Gaumbi can explain calmly to Rishita sooo many times, he can definitely have a little patience with Krish.

They take their own family members for granted.

I think Rishita should have known before marriage what she was getting into!! She dated Dev for two years, how come she had no clue about Dev’s family and what his family means to him? Either she never tried to understand or Dev never put in efforts to make her understand.

In India marriage is never about two people coming together its always about two families! Rishita coming from a nuclear family will have difficulties in adjusting to the Pandya family and their customs. I am not denying that but she is not willing to put in any efforts! What has she done since the time she got married for the family? Neither she helps in the kitchen nor does she help with any other chores. She doesnt even work or contribute financially! So how does she expect the family to put in 100% efforts while she is not even willing to put in 1% ? For a moment she acts as if she is sorry and the next moment she is back to being nasty! I think if Dev cannot make her understand what his family means to him, they should probably leave the house! Dev should get his priorities straight. Either its your wife or your family! And Dev has no one to blame here but himself. Because no one forced him to marry Rishita, it was his own choice so he has to face the consequences. I am so disappointed with both DevTa, its better Suman throws them out so that they realize the benefits of having a family around! 😔

Originally posted by: Hanyshah

Yep. I agree Krish's reaction was a little over the top, but this is a boy seeing someone disrespecting his father(figure) ! And this wasn't even the first time, of course he's gonna burst !! 🙄🙄

And he's still a child! Rishita is a grown up, married woman and still she is being given so many chances and Krish who spoke against her ONCE and that too because of her disrespect towards his elder brother gets slapped!

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

I think Rishita should have known before marriage what she was getting into!! She dated Dev for two years, how come she had no clue about Dev’s family and what his family means to him? Either she never tried to understand or Dev never put in efforts to make her understand.

Their two years of dating is absolutely irrelevant. They only romanced and went on picnics but never had any real conversation. I think Shivi are much better in this point. Even though they’ve been childhood enemies/frenemies, they understand each other much better than Devta.

Originally posted by: ananyakhetarpal

And he's still a child! Rishita is a grown up, married woman and still she is being given so many chances and Krish who spoke against her ONCE and that too because of her disrespect towards his elder brother gets slapped!

Exactly ! Dhara and Gaumbhi are expecting their brothers to just accept and respect Rishita because they believe in their upbringing. But they also need to understand that respect is a give and take matter. If people respect you, you respect them in return. But Rishita doesn't. I'm not saying her points are not valid, I do agree that some of her questions are what Gaumbhi and Dhara should be thinking about now that 2 of the younger brothers have wives. But it was the way how she rudely brought up the matter that pisses people off. As for Krish and Shiva, it's not even about how Rishita disrespected either of them, it's how Rishita disrespected Dhara and Gaumbhi that got them so fired up. That's why they borderline hate Rishita 🙄🙄🙄

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

I think Rishita should have known before marriage what she was getting into!! She dated Dev for two years, how come she had no clue about Dev’s family and what his family means to him? Either she never tried to understand or Dev never put in efforts to make her understand.

In India marriage is never about two people coming together its always about two families! Rishita coming from a nuclear family will have difficulties in adjusting to the Pandya family and their customs. I am not denying that but she is not willing to put in any efforts! What has she done since the time she got married for the family? Neither she helps in the kitchen nor does she help with any other chores. She doesnt even work or contribute financially! So how does she expect the family to put in 100% efforts while she is not even willing to put in 1% ? For a moment she acts as if she is sorry and the next moment she is back to being nasty! I think if Dev cannot make her understand what his family means to him, they should probably leave the house! Dev should get his priorities straight. Either its your wife or your family! And Dev has no one to blame here but himself. Because no one forced him to marry Rishita, it was his own choice so he has to face the consequences. I am so disappointed with both DevTa, its better Suman throws them out so that they realize the benefits of having a family around! 😔

That's what puzzles me ! In all of that two years, has Dev not mentioned how important and how much he loves his family to Rishita ? Or is Rishita just to oblivious and in love to take notice of what is important to Dev ? GIRL, he even broke ties with you and agreed to marry someone else because your father insulted his sister in law. And you still can't see how much he loves his family ?

Rishita just thinks that just because Dev chose to marry her, now he will side with her no matter what. Means that he has chosen her over his family 🙄🙄

One more thing though, Rishita kept repeating that the family has been guilt tripping him making him stay away from her, but in reality she has been the one guilt tripping him by reminding him REPEATEDLY THAT SHE LEFT HER FAMILY TO MARRY HIM. She needs to understand that was HER CHOICE. DEV DIDN'T ASK HER TO RUN AWAY WITH HIM, she was the one who did it all on her own !!! 🙄🙄🙄

That’s the problem with Rishita. She raised a fantastic point about money but the stupidity is just too much.

She’s definitely a few fries short of a Happy Meal!!

Originally posted by: Namita-M

That’s the problem with Rishita. She raised a fantastic point about money but the stupidity is just too much.

She’s definitely a few fries short of a Happy Meal!!

I actually agreed with Rishita on the money point completely but its such a sensitive topic, I wish she would have brought it up in the right way!

Originally posted by: Hanyshah

One more thing though, Rishita kept repeating that the family has been guilt tripping him making him stay away from her, but in reality she has been the one guilt tripping him by reminding him REPEATEDLY THAT SHE LEFT HER FAMILY TO MARRY HIM. She needs to understand that was HER CHOICE. DEV DIDN'T ASK HER TO RUN AWAY WITH HIM, she was the one who did it all on her own !!! 🙄🙄🙄

This is literally God's honest truth!