Is Shiva being treated fairly...? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Sujz

I think it applies to both Shiva and Raavi, Everything fell into place just because they sacrificed a part each but most of the times all we get to see is, the elders approaching both of them, asking Shiva to control his anger or Raavi to move on. I have never seen anyone constantly putting the pressure of apologizing to Dev or making Rishita realize she has Dev only because Raavi didn't make a bigger fuss about it and Shiva agreed to just marry someone out of the blue except the one time Gaumbi spoke with Rishita about Raavi in last episode.

In my opinion, both Shiva and Raavi are taken for granted, at least slightly yes. And hitting someone is surely not the best thing to do neither I liked it even though Shiva's prank had turned too much by the end of it, anything could have happened to Rishita out of shock.

Very true.

And I agree the prank was too much.

Ever since the plan started I was totally agitated.

But I just feel Shiva's feelings are being totally sidelined as if they don't even matter.

Raavi's too as a matter of fact. That was a life altering experience she went through.

They shouldn't expect her to move on so soon.

It just breaks my heart to see Shiva being clobbered for playing a prank while Dev goes scott free even after playing with a girl's life.

Totally agreed.....I felt really bad for Shiva and krish..and raavi that girl is innocent... She can't think bad for anyone yaar... If she tries to be na... She can never do it...she is just trying to find herself... In all this chaos she lost herself being heart broken.... Dev didn't even once rectify himself and apologizes to raavi... He was taken her for granted since starting... And now too..and bow Shiva and krish...

I knew this plan of darao rishita will not go well... But... It's very bad.... What dhara did in front of everyone specially today...i know... Dhara have the right to scold...but it creates a negative impact over krish and Shiva.... Mostly krish... He is not mature 3

Enough to think what is right and wrong....

Shiva will be very heart broken yet will not sat anything as he treats dhara as his mother.. He will silently took it... I just hope... In all this raavi gets to see her vulnerable Shiva...as hopefully in all this mess raavi and Shiva may come closer...

The promo is quite justified...too let see after suman entry what happens.

The scaring plan is a blunder since the start.. And Shiva and krish both need a good punishment but this way.... Is wrong... Totally wrong...

I read one spoiler that krish will run away 😒 from the family... I feel the scolding and dhara's crying will be the reason towards this step...

Just hope.. Dhara will understand the complex situation... And treat everyone equally... Since today's I felt really bad for Shiva and raavi and now krish...

Heart broken...let see dhara gets some solution too solve this..and look after them also beyond dev and rishita too ..💔

Everyone has pretty much said everything I have been thinking about the family dynamics post marriage. At the end of the day, the two people who have lost everything are Shiva and Raavi and yet there is no acknowledgement of their loss by the very people who have wronged them. At least in a meaningful way. And while that's one of the major reasons these two make for such sizzling chemistry set in this backdrop of so much angst, it really is not fair to them.

Setting aside the absolute horror I feel at the fact that Dev got around to at least talking to Shiva but never approaches Raavi, the thing is I genuinely look at Dev as much a spoilt brat as Rishita. Because to me, that is my real tick off. That Dev is treated like this Raaja beta who even when he is wrong is treated with kid gloves.

Honestly, Shiva looks like the elder one because of his sheer empathy. The brothers know and understand the sacrifices Gaumbi and Dhara made, but where Shiva shines is the way he chooses to reflect his love and gratitude back. To me it looks like Dev understands the sacrifices but is burdened under it's yoke while for Shiva it acts as a strength that these two people who mean the world to him reciprocate it right back at him.

And while it's not right to pick at someone and assess them down to just one moment, the truth is it's the hard times that show what you really are made of. Both had these crucial testing moments and what they chose ended up defining what lies ahead for them.

The struggle in a family is always how parents react to such things and what cuts me deep is the parenting strategy they use over here for all the four. Usually in most homes parents do the usual I will be the good cop, you be the bad cop thing. But here it's like Dev and Rishita have only good cop while Shiva gets the bad cop. And that's something at least in my place, my parents did only when my sister was a kid. They told me to be more understanding since I was the elder one. Once she grew up, both of us got good cop bad cop. So why is that not taking place here.

Even when Dhara looses her cool with Rishita, she immediately back pedals and wants to switch back to good cop though what Rishita said was repugnant.

So why the kid gloves for the two people who have literally ended up shaking the very foundational values that this family seems to be standing for!!

Isn't it time that Rishita learns to fight to earn her place in the family in the way Raavi literally sheds blood, sweat and tears for. The less said for Dev, the better. The first word I think of when I picture him is spineless. And if he has to grow one, then it's high time that he is held accountable for his actions. Gaumbi and Dhara have to push him hard. But I guess I can see why they don't do that with him, because when placed between a rock and a hard place, this guy seems to crawl into his shell and get out only to eat pizza and say I am full from all the burden of burrowing in.

Does that mean others should pick the slack for these two. That's unfair. In today's episode, why exactly did Gaumbi slap poor Krish. To me it looked like simple appeasement for Rishita. But she is a plain and simple bully, at least for now, and the more you give way to her, the more she will grab. So the strategy should be to find a middle ground with her. Dev anyway is a mute spectator to his own life and will just sit still, look pretty.

Shiva' s practical joke did go too far, but if you have ever had a younger brother, it's literally the way they break the ice and get you down to their level and seal a friendship built on shared laughs. And if the law of this jungle slash family is raising a hand on the person who deters then I demand at least a hundred for DevTa each. Don't mind if I get some more..

Originally posted by: WarriorB

Everyone has pretty much said everything I have been thinking about the family dynamics post marriage. At the end of the day, the two people who have lost everything are Shiva and Raavi and yet there is no acknowledgement of their loss by the very people who have wronged them. At least in a meaningful way. And while that's one of the major reasons these two make for such sizzling chemistry set in this backdrop of so much angst, it really is not fair to them.

Setting aside the absolute horror I feel at the fact that Dev got around to at least talking to Shiva but never approaches Raavi, the thing is I genuinely look at Dev as much a spoilt brat as Rishita. Because to me, that is my real tick off. That Dev is treated like this Raaja beta who even when he is wrong is treated with kid gloves.

Ohhh!! Absolutely! I can not agree more.

Honestly, Shiva looks like the elder one because of his sheer empathy. The brothers know and understand the sacrifices Gaumbi and Dhara made, but where Shiva shines is the way he chooses to reflect his love and gratitude back. To me it looks like Dev understands the sacrifices but is burdened under it's yoke while for Shiva it acts as a strength that these two people who mean the world to him reciprocate it right back at him.

And this is why they take him for granted. They have a "Shiva will understand. He will handle everything" attitude. They forget he too is human. He too is suffering for the mistakes of his elders. I'll always remember that he was the one reminding Dev that he shouldn't lead Raavi on of he didn't love her.

And while it's not right to pick at someone and assess them down to just one moment, the truth is it's the hard times that show what you really are made of. Both had these crucial testing moments and what they chose ended up defining what lies ahead for them.

The struggle in a family is always how parents react to such things and what cuts me deep is the parenting strategy they use over here for all the four. Usually in most homes parents do the usual I will be the good cop, you be the bad cop thing. But here it's like Dev and Rishita have only good cop while Shiva gets the bad cop. And that's something at least in my place, my parents did only when my sister was a kid. They told me to be more understanding since I was the elder one. Once she grew up, both of us got good cop bad cop. So why is that not taking place here.

That is sooooooo unfair 😭

Even when Dhara looses her cool with Rishita, she immediately back pedals and wants to switch back to good cop though what Rishita said was repugnant.

So why the kid gloves for the two people who have literally ended up shaking the very foundational values that this family seems to be standing for!!

They got away with bigger mistakes while our Shiva is being anhilated for a prank gone wrong.

Isn't it time that Rishita learns to fight to earn her place in the family in the way Raavi literally sheds blood, sweat and tears for. The less said for Dev, the better. The first word I think of when I picture him is spineless. And if he has to grow one, then it's high time that he is held accountable for his actions. Gaumbi and Dhara have to push him hard. But I guess I can see why they don't do that with him, because when placed between a rock and a hard place, this guy seems to crawl into his shell and get out only to eat pizza and say I am full from all the burden of burrowing in.

Does that mean others should pick the slack for these two. That's unfair. In today's episode, why exactly did Gaumbi slap poor Krish. To me it looked like simple appeasement for Rishita. But she is a plain and simple bully, at least for now, and the more you give way to her, the more she will grab. So the strategy should be to find a middle ground with her. Dev anyway is a mute spectator to his own life and will just sit still, look pretty.

I soo wish to see this happen.

Shiva' s practical joke did go too far, but if you have ever had a younger brother, it's literally the way they break the ice and get you down to their level and seal a friendship built on shared laughs. And if the law of this jungle slash family is raising a hand on the person who deters then I demand at least a hundred for DevTa each. Don't mind if I get some more..

I'd pay good money to see mera DevTa being taken down a peg or two.🤣

Originally posted by: WarriorB

Shiva' s practical joke did go too far, but if you have ever had a younger brother, it's literally the way they break the ice and get you down to their level and seal a friendship built on shared laughs. And if the law of this jungle slash family is raising a hand on the person who deters then I demand at least a hundred for DevTa each. Don't mind if I get some more..

💯 I wish this point is raised by someone in the show. Why slaps for krish and shiva when devta got away with worse ?

In any case they must never resort to raising hands, I don't expect it in ps at least..gaura have been an epitome of patience and perseverance...it sends such such wrong msg to hit someone in anger . Just bec krish is young, and raised his voice at rishita? Sometime.bk gombi did the same with his mom for his wife . Suman should have slapped him for it ? It is NOT about haq and mere bache hai so I have the right to discipline. Plz they are not mere bache 🤢 They are grown ups who command respect.

Originally posted by: barbieflora

Very true.

And I agree the prank was too much.

Ever since the plan started I was totally agitated.

But I just feel Shiva's feelings are being totally sidelined as if they don't even matter.

Raavi's too as a matter of fact. That was a life altering experience she went through.

They shouldn't expect her to move on so soon.

It just breaks my heart to see Shiva being clobbered for playing a prank while Dev goes scott free even after playing with a girl's life.

That's my point. Even though Shiva deserves some kind of scolding for this prank, I don't know if its fair while Dev just almost ruined a girl's life because of his spinelessness. Also yes, Rishita has an upper hand comparing to Raavi.