Originally posted by: funny_fubar
I actually feel this is more close to real life. Even with our parents, brothers sisters, relatives etc, it is impossible to know every single interaction with every other person. Relatives do tend to hurt each other. Rishitha was of course very dramatic, but in most cases it is very subtle.
Even in real life sometimes it is best to not share everything to everyone as they might make the situation worse. I definitely filter out, or carefully choose how I describe an event, especially if I know that the loved one I am talking to will react badly or hold a grudge.
Raavi should definitely share everything with her husband, but Raavi and Shiva are not yet in that headspace- they have quiet a while to go. She will need to figure out how to share her feelings without triggering Shiva.
I know that a lot of people feel that they will feel a sense of justice if Shiva really blasts Rishitha, but if that does happen, it will leave a bitter taste in everyone’s mouth. Rishitha will get further antagonized and all the other family members will be uncomfortable and walking on eggshells. I have lost count of the innumerable family dramas, where a third person jumped in to defend one side and just ended up blowing the issue out of proportion.
I simply loved the way Gautham handled the issue- that is the cleanest way to resolve the fight. Making Rishitha realize her mistake and apologize to Raavi from her heart is WAY more satisfying than Shiva humiliating Rishitha and forcing her on the defense, where nothing gets resolved.
I am kind of dreading the Kesar prank at this point, because if Rishitha takes it the wrong way, it would be like two steps back in terms of family bonding progression.
Sometimes you need to loose a battle to win the war 😳