Originally posted by: by_stander
IDK, but generally you vent your anger out on those you trust and love the most... I haven't seen the episode, but maybe she was just channeling her anger out of Shiva because subconsciously she trusts him with her emotions?
I agree, you show your true self to those your closest with. Some of those emotions can include anger as well. But I feel like Raavi has just stepped into a territory of unwarranted anger. She's being absolutely unreasonable, especially since Shiva has been nothing but cordial to her so far. Yes, he "left" her with those goons, but Raavi, why is that one instance shaping your every thought of Shiva? Did you really forget the times he supported you/saved you/wiped your tears?
Just like Dev is being unreasonable with no apology, you're being unreasonable with your anger, especially blaming Shiva for marrying you when it wasn't him who brought up the marriage (i.e., Dhara), it wasn't him who left you at the altar (i.e., Dev), it wasn't him who ultimately asked you to marry him (i.e., Mausa-Pa). The only big mistake he made was to not tell you about the fact that Dev loved someone else, but that wasn't his truth to tell. And as for the goons... everyone makes mistakes in life, talk it out with him if you really have a big problem. Don't just blame him for that one mistake every single time, otherwise he will continue to hide his intentions...