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Originally posted by: .shivi396

Lakdiyan bhi haath me ghus sakti thi🤪🤣

Experience bol raha hai🤣🤣

I seriously read that lakdiya as ladkiya,

and for a second I thought what the hell did you just write🤪🤣

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

💯 This needs to be addressed ASAP! We need to see Raavi move forward from pitying herself to realizing what has happened & then deciding what she wants for the future. Conversations between her and Dev as well as Dev and Shiva are more important than ever!

One thing that has been bothering me recently is how Dhara keeps telling Raavi & Shiva they are incomplete without each other! It‘s almost as if she’s forcing them to accept each other... that’s not how it works. They both need to work things out together and individually. In the end, if they decide it’s not working, they should part ways. No one else can decide something so crucial for them and even if they are madly in love, that doesn’t change that fact that they are individuals as well. I feel like Gaumbi has a more balanced approach when compared to Dhara. He shows rather than tells which is sometimes more impactful.

🙌 Dhara reminds me of an old school mother who doesn’t know how to fix things but will mollycoddle everyone. Her statement of both are incomplete without each other is another foolish one to make.

Marriage is a sacred bond, I agree but Raavi almost got married to Dev which included garlanding and halfway through pH eras. Dudette that gal had the most horrific nightmare of her life and Dhara ji starts telling her the importance of being nice to each other.

Shiva seems to be deeply affected and shaken post her suicide. I love the fact that he keeps a very watchful eye on her. He hasn’t changed his equation with her but has always worried about her safety. Her simply singing a morbid song irked him. He is just very alert and watchful around her something Dhara busy trying to build a dollhouse for the family fails to do.

Her defender to fix any situation is muted silence, tears and making everything about her. If you don’t do this, I will cry and not talk to you. This attitude was a classic hit in the 90’s but these are millennials and Gen Z we are talking about, even if small downers, there has been a tremendous evolution and focus on individuality. It’s great to have a joint family set up but this isn’t helping Shiva-Raavi even a single second.

I agree with you on Gaumbi, I would totally dig in for a sequence between Shiva and Gaumbi where he breaks the ice of conversation not as an older brother but like a man would comfort another. Shiva needs a friend like Hardik was to Gautam.

Gaumbi’s way of dealing things is far more realistic as compared to Dhara.

That scene when dev asked rishita to marinate food , and she says mera manicure kharab ho jayega ...

While I completely dislike rishitas behavior , sometimes I do the same 🤣Seriously..I am in a fix 🤣 I never say it directly like rishita but when I don't feel like working and someone else is , I just let them.

Also, dhara ordering raavi , that also I didn't like.. may be if the boys also joined in cooking n stuff , the scene would be more balanced. Cool I mean.. aise bhi lovely tha 😆

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Originally posted by: Transference

🙌 Dhara reminds me of an old school mother who doesn’t know how to fix things but will mollycoddle everyone. Her statement of both are incomplete without each other is another foolish one to make.

Marriage is a sacred bond, I agree but Raavi almost got married to Dev which included garlanding and halfway through pH eras. Dudette that gal had the most horrific nightmare of her life and Dhara ji starts telling her the importance of being nice to each other.

Shiva seems to be deeply affected and shaken post her suicide. I love the fact that he keeps a very watchful eye on her. He hasn’t changed his equation with her but has always worried about her safety. Her simply singing a morbid song irked him. He is just very alert and watchful around her something Dhara busy trying to build a dollhouse for the family fails to do.

Her defender to fix any situation is muted silence, tears and making everything about her. If you don’t do this, I will cry and not talk to you. This attitude was a classic hit in the 90’s but these are millennials and Gen Z we are talking about, even if small downers, there has been a tremendous evolution and focus on individuality. It’s great to have a joint family set up but this isn’t helping Shiva-Raavi even a single second.

I agree with you on Gaumbi, I would totally dig in for a sequence between Shiva and Gaumbi where he breaks the ice of conversation not as an older brother but like a man would comfort another. Shiva needs a friend like Hardik was to Gautam.

Gaumbi’s way of dealing things is far more realistic as compared to Dhara.

I completely agree! Honestly it’s a bit scary cuz both Shiva and Raavi are being stifled in the name of family and them fighting with each other is almost becoming an attempt at holding on to some sort of normalcy. Their lives went through such a major change overnight and honestly neither one had much of a support system to just be there for them... on a personal level.

These fights also lead to them being disrespectful towards one another which is not helping them build their relationship (at least not in a healthy way). Neither are getting the chance to acknowledge the trauma they went through and instead are expected to be happy & move on. Seeing someone close to you almost die is a huge trauma on its own (in Shiva’s case) and what Raavi went through is just awful!

I hope Suman’s appearance shifts Dhara’s focus elsewhere. And ShiVi are given the chance to talk.

@Bold- That would be amazing! I think Shiva really needs that! Someone who can have an honest conversation with him... no judgements or emotional blackmail... and that can segway into him confronting Dev and Raavi.

chali chali phir group dance ke waqt baach raha tha😆

Sach mein off screen group dance lag raha tha🤣

Small question, did raavi change her decision to wear that peach dress to black coz shiva said she'll look chipkaliyon ki beauty queen.. coz they showed the flashback there.. was that a way to show what effect shiva's words have on her???

I wonder if maami coming there would change things up for shivi coz she is determined to keep raavi safe from shiva lol also I hope they dont use anita still being hung up on gaumbi maybe raavi seeing that will be more determined to never be like that about dev though she had the advantage of getting married so she has another kind of distraction that anita never got hence never getting the full closure.

Humari pyaari phoolkumari

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anyone watched on tv??

was it a different precap as discussed here??