Pandya Store|Episode Discussions Thread #2 - Page 105

Originally posted by: Transference

I am copy pasting this from another thread.

I would like everyone in the Pandya family to cut Raavi some slack. The girl was obsessed with one man for 10 years. She dreamt, lived, breathed that she would marry into the family and Dev.

She’s literally been through hell and back. Isn’t this the same Raavi who drank Dev’s photographs’ ashes when her Mami burnt it?

She literally committed suicide and came back. The lack of empathy from even Dhara is boggling. Dudette, this girl is trying to smile and nowhere I see her insulting anyone. Nothing has changed between her and Shiva in her head. Both of them are bickering and lashing at each other like they always did! It’s totally childlike.

The one thing she has probably not registered is that Shiva has become sensitive post their marriage. They haven’t even had a proper conversation between each other about what this marriage could mean to them.
They are just mad at each other right now. Misdirected angst to the turmoil in their life.

The sheer fact that she isn’t pining for Dev and holds no grudges against Rishita shows her lack of attachment to any of them.

She is latching on to the most powerful emotion that can give her a sense of empowerment, her sense of entitlement over Shiva. I think the makers have done a fantastic job in portraying her focus on Shiva.

He is the centre of her universe right now as she was Shiva’s pre-marriage. Both have a lot to resolve and it wouldn’t happen overnight or by Dhara making them hold hands and hugging each other.

They aren’t kids anymore whose fight they can resolve.
Raavi and Shiva are both dealing with a lot of complexity. No one can resolve this unless they spend all their pent up emotions.

Upar se woh kidnapping, divorce drama uska alag sa trauma.....

One more thing which i dnt understand is why is no one talking to raavi about what exactly has happened when dev has told about rishita...it would have really helped raavi to move forward

Completely agreee!

Originally posted by: D_e_s_t_i_n_y

aacha hai phir.😆

Uske one liners ke wajshe serious episode mein balance bana rahata hai..😆

Why is Dhara so exhausting 😵 I’m fed up of her emotional blackmailing, she needs to give people damn space..and the scene with Dev and Shiva, she should’ve made Dev apologise to shiva not with the nonsense of parivaar isleyi hai ki ek glati karta hai toh dusra sambhal deta hai type rubbish..Dev couldn’t bring him to apologise and had the audacity to be even hurt, uskoto gaumbi ke jhoote padna chahiyetha...

Raavi is still not over her hurt from shiva leaving her with goons, she wants to hurt shiva in whichever way she could and Acting out against dhara is the easiest way to get under Shiva’s skin. I am actually glad that they’re not showing everyone to gun gaan dhara automatically..

Originally posted by: akki2

One more thing which i dnt understand is why is no one talking to raavi about what exactly has happened when dev has told about rishita...it would have really helped raavi to move forward

Serious note mein bolu toh woh log raat gaye baat gaye motto follow karate hai.. 🤪

Originally posted by: akki2

One more thing which i dnt understand is why is no one talking to raavi about what exactly has happened when dev has told about rishita...it would have really helped raavi to move forward

looks like Raavi herself is not interested to know, else she would have pushed to know in continuation with today’s fight between Shiva and Dev. Raavi is busy getting disappointed that Shiva didn’t get any jhoote 🤪

Originally posted by: Transference

I am copy pasting this from another thread.

I would like everyone in the Pandya family to cut Raavi some slack. The girl was obsessed with one man for 10 years. She dreamt, lived, breathed that she would marry into the family and Dev.

She’s literally been through hell and back. Isn’t this the same Raavi who drank Dev’s photographs’ ashes when her Mami burnt it?

She literally committed suicide and came back. The lack of empathy from even Dhara is boggling. Dudette, this girl is trying to smile and nowhere I see her insulting anyone. Nothing has changed between her and Shiva in her head. Both of them are bickering and lashing at each other like they always did! It’s totally childlike.

The one thing she has probably not registered is that Shiva has become sensitive post their marriage. They haven’t even had a proper conversation between each other about what this marriage could mean to them.
They are just mad at each other right now. Misdirected angst to the turmoil in their life.

The sheer fact that she isn’t pining for Dev and holds no grudges against Rishita shows her lack of attachment to any of them.

She is latching on to the most powerful emotion that can give her a sense of empowerment, her sense of entitlement over Shiva. I think the makers have done a fantastic job in portraying her focus on Shiva.

He is the centre of her universe right now as she was Shiva’s pre-marriage. Both have a lot to resolve and it wouldn’t happen overnight or by Dhara making them hold hands and hugging each other.

They aren’t kids anymore whose fight they can resolve.
Raavi and Shiva are both dealing with a lot of complexity. No one can resolve this unless they spend all their pent up emotions.

Bravo!! Well said. These guys aren’t allowed to talk but just hug. Doesn’t make sense to me.

Originally posted by: ms.ObseSSeD

okay, after fully watching the episode...I'm changing some of my opinions and adding to some of my opinions.

1)I don't consider either Dhara or Rishita/Raavi in the wrong for that beginning scene with the chunar. and here is my reason because Dhara was right in just trying to make sure they have everything in order, she's been doing this the longest, these rasams and all and therefore just wanted to make sure everything would go good. But Raavi/Rishita was also in the right that they are not kids. and Dhara is going to have to learn that. she needs to start treating them as equals rather than as kids, they need to learn to grow for themselves.

2) the sandwich scene- while I still think that Dhara should have just spoken to Rishita in private. I understand she didn't say that to make Rishita feel bad. she was just stating a fact, like a teaching moment. you could clearly tell she had no ill intent to it. The fact that Raavi stood up for Rishita helps her because then it at least takes away a little of that incompetence feeling she had when Dhara mentioned the vegetables.

3) This is where I am completely changing my opinion and saying that Raavi just wanted to annoy Shiva and Dhara came into the crossfire because it was a full-proof way to make him angry. I don't think she meant any actual insult to Dhara. I think she was just happy that she was annoying Shiva. ( I still don't like that she brought Rishita into that mix though)

4) Shiva is definitely sensitive towards Raavi and suicide.

5) the antakshari scene was actually really cute, I was dreading it from the discussions..

6) My Dev points is probably the one I stand by. I don't care how much good he does, without an apology, it's useless. He clearly does not understand this situation that he ended up putting his ENTIRE family through, especially Shiva. Not once, did this man apologize. Trust me, I OF ALL people know that an apology does NOT fix everything, but he didn't even attempt! why is Shiva the only one they reprimanding !!!!!!!!

7) I don't like how GauRa handled that situation, another opinion that I'm going to be sticking to, the threatening of hitting them was just ridiculous. Gaumbhi made sense when he talked to Dev about Shiva losing everything Dev got everything he wanted, Dhara on the other hand, sorry, I love you but just because a person is older than you does not mean they automatically deserve respect. IT'S EARNED, NOT GIVEN. that hug was for show, doesn't fix anything. there is no proper communication. They are literally just doing things to please GauRa and that's not it. I think they might have even solved more of their hostility if they had just started fist fighting.

8) Raavi is...in her childish mindset. She keeps expecting things to go the same way when they were kids. Krish is right...she is crazy.

9) Krish didn't get his dose of love these past few episodes, so he got a lot in this one😆

10) that Yaadon ki baraat scene was okay. The actors did a good job, but yes it was weird to just flip right into that after that arguing scene that did not solve anything.

11) That ShiVi hug scene was awkward at its best. like it would have been cute if it hadn't been forced.

precap: sigh again with the manhandling but at least some things happening.

...That felt like a long episode...the gifs will come when tomorrow.

everyone is acting normal and i think it is a way to make things better and help everyone move on

But shiva was effected by raavi suicide attempt

and cant move on from that fact and he want dev to realise that at least and realise that he ruined his shiva life

Just because shiva act indifferent doesnt mean he have no heart

Shiva is angry at because he amost ruined the family relatioships to marry a woman he lOves

But he want shiva to act cool and normal when he is married to woman he doesnt love.....

Dev in the other hand is acting, i did nothing just married the woman my heart choose, who left her family for me and saved raavi from marrying a man who doesnt love her

Plus he thinks raavi wanted to bebea a pandya dil and she is one so why his brother is being a drama queen about the whole situation

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Bravo!! Well said. These guys aren’t allowed to talk but just hug. Doesn’t make sense to me.

I think they face off and pure their hearts out at some point ,

Cv are taking things slowly

If they solve everythinh now then nothing is left to watch

👍🏼

Originally posted by: NESRIA

I think they face off and pure their hearts out at some point ,

Cv are taking things slowly

If they solve everythinh now then nothing is left to watch

👍🏼

I’m actually not sure if it’s going to happen at all. I mean Shiva and Dev. The brothers need to sort it out.

Baki stuff, lots of time for it.