Pandya Store|Episode Discussions Thread #2 - Page 104

okay, after fully watching the episode...I'm changing some of my opinions and adding to some of my opinions.

1)I don't consider either Dhara or Rishita/Raavi in the wrong for that beginning scene with the chunar. and here is my reason because Dhara was right in just trying to make sure they have everything in order, she's been doing this the longest, these rasams and all and therefore just wanted to make sure everything would go good. But Raavi/Rishita was also in the right that they are not kids. and Dhara is going to have to learn that. she needs to start treating them as equals rather than as kids, they need to learn to grow for themselves.

2) the sandwich scene- while I still think that Dhara should have just spoken to Rishita in private. I understand she didn't say that to make Rishita feel bad. she was just stating a fact, like a teaching moment. you could clearly tell she had no ill intent to it. The fact that Raavi stood up for Rishita helps her because then it at least takes away a little of that incompetence feeling she had when Dhara mentioned the vegetables.

3) This is where I am completely changing my opinion and saying that Raavi just wanted to annoy Shiva and Dhara came into the crossfire because it was a full-proof way to make him angry. I don't think she meant any actual insult to Dhara. I think she was just happy that she was annoying Shiva. ( I still don't like that she brought Rishita into that mix though)

4) Shiva is definitely sensitive towards Raavi and suicide.

5) the antakshari scene was actually really cute, I was dreading it from the discussions..

6) My Dev points is probably the one I stand by. I don't care how much good he does, without an apology, it's useless. He clearly does not understand this situation that he ended up putting his ENTIRE family through, especially Shiva. Not once, did this man apologize. Trust me, I OF ALL people know that an apology does NOT fix everything, but he didn't even attempt! why is Shiva the only one they reprimanding !!!!!!!!

7) I don't like how GauRa handled that situation, another opinion that I'm going to be sticking to, the threatening of hitting them was just ridiculous. Gaumbhi made sense when he talked to Dev about Shiva losing everything Dev got everything he wanted, Dhara on the other hand, sorry, I love you but just because a person is older than you does not mean they automatically deserve respect. IT'S EARNED, NOT GIVEN. that hug was for show, doesn't fix anything. there is no proper communication. They are literally just doing things to please GauRa and that's not it. I think they might have even solved more of their hostility if they had just started fist fighting.

8) Raavi is...in her childish mindset. She keeps expecting things to go the same way when they were kids. Krish is right...she is crazy.

9) Krish didn't get his dose of love these past few episodes, so he got a lot in this one😆

10) that Yaadon ki baraat scene was okay. The actors did a good job, but yes it was weird to just flip right into that after that arguing scene that did not solve anything.

11) That ShiVi hug scene was awkward at its best. like it would have been cute if it hadn't been forced.

precap: sigh again with the manhandling but at least some things happening.

...That felt like a long episode...the gifs will come when tomorrow.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

wish Hotstar had subtitles. I don’t understand it

He basically poured out all his feelings.. He had done this marriage in good faith just because his sister-in-law asked him too and yet all he received from everyone both within the family and outsiders/strangers was just taunts, insults and scoldings. Everyone asked him to adjust but nobody understood what he was really going through.. what did he do to deserve all this 😭

Raavi and Rishita ke bonding par sab ko ice cream party🤣

Kabhi socha nahi tha ye episode mein dono ke bonding dekhayege😆

Originally posted by: Abhipyaarhua

Yesss Dhara will deffo bring out the big guns. She might even hit him a few times. Proper emotional blackmail might happen.

Well he deserve it 😆I love how shiva is a little kid in front of his bhabi , i love how she treat him like a child

Ps : dhara will heat shiva and then start crying

For surrre , it will a good scene❤️

Originally posted by: NESRIA

Well he deserve it 😆I love how shiva is a little kid in front of his bhabi , i love how she treat him like a child

Ps : dhara will heat shiva and then start crying

For surrre , it will a good scene❤️

One of the most beautiful relationship in the show - Shiva and Dhara. ❤️

mhh lots! he actually had a good amount of lines in today's episode

Originally posted by: D_e_s_t_i_n_y

kya one liners the? 😆

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

He basically poured out all his feelings.. He had done this marriage in good faith just because his sister-in-law asked him too and yet all he received from everyone both within the family and outsiders/strangers was just taunts, insults and scoldings. Everyone asked him to adjust but nobody understood what he was really going through.. what did he do to deserve all this 😭

It is a needed scene but i think it will take some time before we see such scene in our show

And yes everyone is ignoring shiva feelings

Just because he doesnt show how he truly feel everyone think he is ok

But in reality he is not , he just being responsible

Originally posted by: Abhipyaarhua

One of the most beautiful relationship in the show - Shiva and Dhara. ❤️

True , I love their scenes❤️

I am copy pasting this from another thread.

I would like everyone in the Pandya family to cut Raavi some slack. The girl was obsessed with one man for 10 years. She dreamt, lived, breathed that she would marry into the family and Dev.

She’s literally been through hell and back. Isn’t this the same Raavi who drank Dev’s photographs’ ashes when her Mami burnt it?

She literally committed suicide and came back. The lack of empathy from even Dhara is boggling. Dudette, this girl is trying to smile and nowhere I see her insulting anyone. Nothing has changed between her and Shiva in her head. Both of them are bickering and lashing at each other like they always did! It’s totally childlike.

The one thing she has probably not registered is that Shiva has become sensitive post their marriage. They haven’t even had a proper conversation between each other about what this marriage could mean to them.
They are just mad at each other right now. Misdirected angst to the turmoil in their life.

The sheer fact that she isn’t pining for Dev and holds no grudges against Rishita shows her lack of attachment to any of them.

She is latching on to the most powerful emotion that can give her a sense of empowerment, her sense of entitlement over Shiva. I think the makers have done a fantastic job in portraying her focus on Shiva.

He is the centre of her universe right now as she was Shiva’s pre-marriage. Both have a lot to resolve and it wouldn’t happen overnight or by Dhara making them hold hands and hugging each other.

They aren’t kids anymore whose fight they can resolve.
Raavi and Shiva are both dealing with a lot of complexity. No one can resolve this unless they spend all their pent up emotions.

Originally posted by: ms.ObseSSeD

mhh lots! he actually had a good amount of lines in today's episode

Uske one liners ke wajshe serious episode mein balance bana rahata hai..😆