Why are the real culprits not actually getting blamed?

In today's episode, they all kept blaming Dhaara again. However, why is Dev not getting an earful from those same people because the entire drama is really his fault? He was the one who hid his relationship and decided on this marriage when he was clearly in love with someone else.

It was Gautam's idea to hide the truth from his mother, but Suman is only blaming Dhara for everything. I am seriously tired of it. Idk if it is some ITV logic to gain more sympathy for the FL, but it is seriously illogical.

I understand Raavi blaming Dhara because of her age and the shock she had to go through. Hopefully, when she calms down she will know that it was actually Dev's fault for playing with her emotion (although it was unintentional).

At least at the end, Gautam spoke up...will have to wait for tomorrow's episode to see what he actually says to Suman. However, Dhara needs to stop being everyone's punching bag and speak up for herself a bit more. I know it will never happen because is the ideal bahu who never raises her voice for her own self and will take the blame for everyone.

Anyways, that was my little rant for today's episode. Can't wait for Rishita's full-on Drama tomorrow and Raavi finally speaking up against her.

Same! I was getting so frustrated as the episode went on and I was begging Dhara to say something. How exactly is it her fault that Dev chose to keep his mouth shut and not say anything? And although Gombhi is at fault for trying to keep everything quiet, what else could he have done? GauRa were trying to finds solutions for something that Dev threw on them.

Oh no!! Is that what happened in today’s episode? Why does everyone blame Dhara. How is this her fault???

I actually started watching this show few episodes ago

But correct if I am wrong

Isn’t Dhara’s character one of mute sacrificial type

She gives up everything for this family

Only difference is that her husband always stands up for her

I was kinda disappointed with today’s epi

Not going to lie

It seemed like a precursor to the drama that shall unfold in the week

Wondering if I should just catch up on episodes at end of the week

Today was much of a filler after the high drama of last week. Nothing progressed, staying put where the family was...in shock and reeling.

Her only fault was she assumed that the 'R' in Dev's phone is Raavi and hence went ahead with marriage without asking Dev (actually no one else also asked Dev, but yet again Dhara told Gombi that Dev loves her). That's it.

Like you already said it was Dev who hid his relationship and Gombi's idea to hide everything. Dhara even went as far as to go to Janardhan's house and ask for Rishita's hand. What else could she have done? She was making the best of the situation.

It was Dev who said he will marry Raavi because Dhara was insulted at that house.

But since Dhara's character just is that way, I don't really expect her to stand up (it would be nice if she did).

Once again suman blames dhara then atleast now dev should come out and take it on him.

Also there should be a Dev Raavi scene. Not in mind talk also dev asked forgiveness to raavi or is guilty. He really just feels bad for dhara and gautam.

Infront of Suman, Shiv also doesn't stand for Dhara it seems. Specially this blame game Shiv should say it loud enough again to all that it is dev's mistake.

Suman didn't even say a word to dev. Also when gautam said he promised all not to say anyone. Still dhara is to be blamed. So typical MIL

I have given up all hopes that any female lead will ever speak for herself. So no surprises here that Dhara is getting blamed. But I don't understand why is Dev being let off so easily. It was all his fault. He was the one who didn't come clean with Raavi about his emotions even though he knew that she likes him since childhood. Even befor ethe marriage talk was on, he should have cleared it and not called it her bachpana. He clearly lead her on.

And after all this fiasco, dilly-dallying with his decision, he never showed the grace to ask for her forgiveness even once. I don't know how he even looks in everyone's eyes.