Qarz E Jaan (HUM) #4 - Usama, Nameer, Yumna | DT.N. Pg 136 - Page 55

Originally posted by: Alizba63

Right, fair point. I still haven't watched it yet. Will review once I watch! Hopefully they do twice a week.

Meri Tanhai is currently on air so not possible once it will go off air ATSH will go biweekly on April or May

Originally posted by: anikamathur

Meri Tanhai is currently on air so not possible once it will go off air ATSH will go biweekly on April or May

How is hum suddenly allowing doubles? They never did this for ishq murshid or parizaad?

Are they loosing trp and viewers or gaining with doubles? Maybe last year was a wake up call for them?

Originally posted by: Alizba63

How is hum suddenly allowing doubles? They never did this for ishq murshid or parizaad?

Are they loosing trp and viewers or gaining with doubles? Maybe last year was a wake up call for them?

Yes their trp was losing also audience are requesting to hum TV to go Bi weekly and they did Meem Se Mohabbat was the first one to go bi weekly then qarz E Jaan also gone bi weekly

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

How is she not courageous (in this issue) when she is ready to face that family by making her daughter run away from the home. There are people who listen to her other than nashwa. There are people who are willing to help her. Yet she is choosing the hardest way.

It's good she is making sense to you. I can't feel the same. Hope some others (not you) don't shamme us for feeling like it.

It’s totally fine. She’s a frustrating character. So I totally get it. I’ll probably be annoyed too if she stops making sense to me.

Originally posted by: Alizba63

Thank you. In this world dependence is such that it hurts not only your identity but also your soul.

Bisma when she was widowed after 2 years of torture chose not to escape, was rather unable to at that time, then how can she do it so easily after 25-27 years of abuse.

There are so many free humans who stay in horrible situations not because they're kidnapped but it's that shelter, it's knowing that one abuser instead of 20 random on the street that they stay. Remember what Bisma says...that world is a jungle with bheriya compared to only Taya and dado. They're mehfuz in that home physically....

The duress insane.

I remember as a kid when I visited a desi country I used to be so mad at seeing other child helpers/maids my age. I used to ask why they're here? At the end of their shift when their parents or mom would come I used to chat with them and try to find out more about their life. At that time I didn't realize but I do now as a grown adult that no parent would like to send their precious jaan to be a house help to be abused and tortured. Itni gurbat aur majboori hai.

Sometimes we forget to see it from the oppressed people's point of view. We need to show grace and mercy to Bisma.

No one in this world like to be enslaved and under duress for their human rights like food, shelter safety and medicine.

It is the evil circumstances that people like dado and Taya and hence the society creates.

That's my take.

If we see Bisma as a hindrance to Nashwa Burhan getting together then one will get mad at her but if we see her as her character is...then it will make sense.

Also, she's asking Nashwa to run away but she herself won't go and Nashwa will never leave her. I said this 1 thread ago that the weakest link between them escaping and being stuck is Bisma's situation.

An abuser will take advantage of your situation, make you feel grateful and then become your khuda. If Bisma had escaped the second time Asim came to her after Behzad passed away, she still had hope and a chance to reclaim her lost identity. But now after decades of losing her voice and personality (remember that Bisma used to be like Nashwa! Imagine!), I fear maybe even Asim’s love won’t be enough to heal her and bring her back now. This house really snuffed out her light and now she loves her cage.

Asim sahi annoy hota hai. This is her own choice and her own doing but this is what realistically happens to so many people. They learn to accept and love their prison

That is enough for me. Constantly getting mocked for my every opinion just because I called out targetted hate of an actor and expressed my like for a sane ship. When in the same forum I hyped other ship from the same show at beginning, that was celebrated but now it is being ridiculed and shammed. Sorry for seeing characters as characters instead of judging characters by the actors playing it.

This is my last post here.

You two are the good people I found here. Thank you guys♥️.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

That is enough for me. Constantly getting mocked for my every opinion just because I called out targetted hate of an actor and expressed my like for a sane ship. When in the same forum I hyped other ship from the same show at beginning, that was celebrated but now it is being ridiculed and shammed. Sorry for seeing characters as characters instead of judging characters by the actors playing it.

This is my last post here.

You two are the good people I found here. Thank you guys♥️.

Getting mocked and shaded isn't new to this forum...it depends on us how we take it...been there fought and now made peace with it as we can only change ourselves not others

It's open forum so everyone can express whatever they want within the constraints of forum rules, as long as u r following those rules don't worry about what others say or think

They made block feature for a reason, use it for ur own sanity

Leaving forum isn't the solution

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGfTYdQs4Ef/?igsh=MWJjcnh5emowbzM3bg==

PS - block feature is there for those who don't like VMs

Nope that's fine. I'm leaving. I may check in ones in a while or maybe after weekly or biweekly episodes.

Should stay here and continue shipping and VMing. My bad I cannot maintain the endurance and the passion of a shipper to fight on. I give up. It's super tiring going through the same hoops.

I really hoped to stay and not suffer the same fate as the girls who were driven off. Alas, we don't always get what we want.

But peace of mind is more important than having the last word.

Makes me wonder about what the girls said in the other threads. They told me that Man jogi and Zard was called flop by a group who claimed to be all pious. Bilal and Sajal mocked. I didn't believe them. Now I'm starting to see the real colors. Maybe they were right.

I cannot constantly have someone hint at me that I'm immoral and a hater for critiquing Usama's acting. I never shared his style posts.

Anyways, Thank you for everything guys. I sad to see things go haywire.

I have to stand my ground on why I think this whole thing happened and it has everything to do with Usama.

Maybe see you once the dust settles.

Peace.

https://x.com/DinaArafa90/status/1894607079874150614?t=E_yfa8waLgN59ubALpsndw&s=19

This is cute