TERE BIN THREAD- EPISODES DISCUSSION ONLY - Page 18

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

Myra characteristic didn’t change. The character is still responding the way they should. Just a silly way to set out your misunderstanding.

Could have done it better!!

Originally posted by: Moonks

There is only one way to create misunderstandings and that is the messy way. There are somethings in the story which are better understood with time, just one scene is never enough, and I don’t know why my inner literature student is awake now🤪

how? Why? When? Ku??? Lol.

but let’s see like I said earlier writer defo had this covered Bcs meerab did point out you leading her on. However murtasam just ignored and he did the same here. So let’s wait and watch .

Sorry...galat DT me daal diya

I think they bought the right

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

typo: na merham: idk how to spell that. Muslim girls should be infront of someone who is close to you. Is an Islamic rule. And the drama emphasized that allot. That’s why I am questioning: for meerab such a rule then why not for Haya!

MB constantly tells her put ur dupatta on your head.

And murtasam follows the old tridition like you do in jamidar, they are not backwards minded but follows some spiritual value however he blooming contradicts the whole thing with Haya 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️.

one rule for your wife while another for your cousin.

Murtasam legally responsible for his mum, wife and sister. Haya is someone lives so he is indirectly also responsible for her but that does not mean he should forget his duty ans an man and he has been doing all the weird thing for wrong reason. Bru I wouldn’t even touch my cousin. I am not even that conservative and even I wouldn’t do that.

Now that I am thinking: murtasam did say in early episode stop being behaya!!! So I wonder what happened now???

he is leading her on and meerab pointed that out many time but murtasam is not understanding that. Unless writer trying to show how murtasam lacks knowledge at this level.

I will wait for next few episode maybe we will get some justification. Hopefully

gajra scene was done well. he explains that he felt awkward to ask for it back Bcs she wore it. I think that scene was done well Bcs later MB comes in and tells her on her face to take it off. She cries and feels insulted. MB also points out, meerab is not stupid she understand your game plan unlike murtasam.

That house has other elders too.. haya can be handled by mb or anwar. It's no big deal for murtasim to just stay away from her. I don't know why they are showing it as normal cousins interactions from murtasim's pov. I mean guy is more intelligent than this.

Agree I too will wait for next episode to see but i hv no hopes. I think this will going to continue till haya actually cause the real damage to meerasim relationship...

As for gajra scene what I meant is murtasim could confront haya later alone. He knew very well what haya did. Or they are actually showing him so dumb that he believed haya took gajra cause she liked it

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

That house has other elders too.. haya can be handled by mb or anwar. It's no big deal for murtasim to just stay away from her. I don't know why they are showing it as normal cousins interactions from murtasim's pov. I mean guy is more intelligent than this.

Agree I too will wait for next episode to see but i hv no hopes. I think this will going to continue till haya actually cause the real damage to meerasim relationship...

As for gajra scene what I meant is murtasim could confront haya later alone. He knew very well what haya did. Or they are actually showing him so dumb that he believed haya took gajra cause she liked it

meerab seems really P off. She will make sure he suffers. She probably won’t even accept his flirtation anymore.

I mean I wouldn’t until I knock some sense in my husband.

It will be funny to see what murtasim will do with rohil.
I saw some clips he beats him black and blue. Clearly girls can’t do that and meerab wouldn’t. Her love maybe not that deep enough for him. She will just say ok divorce me and that will be bad for murtasim as he loves her so much.

I am excited for next few episodes.

Originally posted by: Moonks

It would lead to good outcome only cause nothing happens in a story with bad purpose unless it is written with that purpose.

And I don’t think the core characteristics are changed as Meerub’s character was strong and stubborn which she still is and Murtasim was the man who viewed everything traditionally and by keeping relationships in mind, Nothing has changed except the situation and they didn’t know how to react aptly according to the situation.

They actually failed to show meerab strong. She is stubborn yes but not strong. At least not so far. Later in show we might see a strong woman.

Nd for murtasim, the conservative atmosphere he has grown up into, it's weird to see him free with haya... I find it more weird how it is shown so normal that haya keeps declaring her love for her married cousin nd everyone around is behaving normal about it...

That's why at places it feels writer is just confused with her own characters...

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

They actually failed to show meerab strong. She is stubborn yes but not strong. At least not so far. Later in show we might see a strong woman.

Nd for murtasim, the conservative atmosphere he has grown up into, it's weird to see him free with haya... I find it more weird how it is shown so normal that haya keeps declaring her love for her married cousin nd everyone around is behaving normal about it...

That's why at places it feels writer is just confused with her own characters...

Reposting from the other thread after seeing the new promo.

Meerab kept telling Murtasim that she doesn’t like it when Haya is around him and to not give her any encouragement. And yet he still thought it was fine to take Haya to the village without informing Meerab. After spending the last few days being all romantic and loving with Meerab and telling her that she is the only person he has hopes with etc. it’s completely natural that she finally begins to feel a sense of trust in him.

So it’s heartbreaking when she goes to the village and finds him with Haya in a compromising situation once again. Yes he explains he was trying to help her with a bit of dust in her eye or whatever it was, but it’s too late. Once you lose that trust it’s hard to get back.

I don’t think Murtasim can actually understand what the big deal is unless he feels the same pain as her. Maybe he will when he gets to know she’s meeting up with Rohail. Even if she tells him he’s just a friend and nothing more, it will be good to see how he likes it when another guy is constantly trying to get close to his wife.

And he cannot justify it by saying Haya is his cousin he’s been with since childhood and so it’s okay if she’s around him. If he cannot understand what needs to change after marriage and what boundaries need to be kept, then he can’t expect her to stop meeting her male friend either.

Originally posted by: JaneAustin

Reposting from the other thread after seeing the new promo.

Meerab kept telling Murtasim that she doesn’t like it when Haya is around him and to not give her any encouragement. And yet he still thought it was fine to take Haya to the village without informing Meerab. After spending the last few days being all romantic and loving with Meerab and telling her that she is the only person he has hopes with etc. it’s completely natural that she finally begins to feel a sense of trust in him.

So it’s heartbreaking when she goes to the village and finds him with Haya in a compromising situation once again. Yes he explains he was trying to help her with a bit of dust in her eye or whatever it was, but it’s too late. Once you lose that trust it’s hard to get back.

I don’t think Murtasim can actually understand what the big deal is unless he feels the same pain as her. Maybe he will when he gets to know she’s meeting up with Rohail. Even if she tells him he’s just a friend and nothing more, it will be good to see how he likes it when another guy is constantly trying to get close to his wife.

And he cannot justify it by saying Haya is his cousin he’s been with since childhood and so it’s okay if she’s around him. If he cannot understand what needs to change after marriage and what boundaries need to be kept, then he can’t expect her to stop meeting her male friend either.

Exactly my point!!!! No matter how romantic he is or how nice he is.. he needs to set boundaries with haya like he used to pre marriage.. until then i dont see why meerab should accept him. She was slowly starting to trust him and she openly says it how she doesnt like haya being around him.