DOTW Maachis topic discussed so far - Page 2

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i dunno...i guess aranged marriage has more benefit than love as long as itz not force marriage.

family marriage has gud n bad..gud u noe the person n der family really well so u have an idea of wat type of person he/she is..bad if sumthing happens btwn da couple other relations have walls btwn them

here u go aji 😃

thanx a lot Jav
you see i'm the best
kiddin u r the best
but less than me 😛

wat agree with Javi???
u sure have some more points in ur mind diferent to Jav's

yes mashal ajis rite
aji seems to b activ in dis topic

coz i like discussin these kinda topics n it will also help me in R.E exam 😉 😛

RE exam.ah ot yeh asal baah hai..c sach samnay agaya

but really aji is good with discussions she particip8z in discussions a lot i dun like 2 cuz im lazy n it makes me think n in chit chat i can rite wateva i want hahaha

Ok, so here are my views as per Aji's orders: 😉 😃

I strongly support arrange marriages... First, parents are the only people you can blindly trust because they will always and I stress "always" do whatever is best for you... You would also want the best for yourself but you being inexperienced and they being experienced, it is better to trust their judgement than your own... I think in arranged marriages, your opinion counts as much as your parents... If parents pick someone for their kids, they usually ask them... The girls or the guys are usually entitled to approve of the person their parents pick... This makes it a mutual decision... I think if someone wants to get to know the person their parents pick, they have a right to do that... They can talk and try to get to know the person, this way they won't remain complete strangers to each other... Also, this way you get a chance to see if you would be able to spend the rest of your life with them...

hmm, interesting topic. Moona!!

it is the most hot topic!!

ok here are my views:

in arrange marriage, a man and woman fall in love after marriage. and in love marriage they fall out of love.

a couple who had a love marriage, start to expect more from eachother. and ven expectations rise. fights also start. however, in an arrange marriage. both are kind of strangers or know little about eachother. they don't expects a lot. but they live a balanced life. with equal love, respect and care.

plus in love marriage you already know everything about that person. so after marriage, nothing is different and they get bored easily. however, in arrange marriage. both learn about eachother about more after marriage. so they have a lot to talk and share.

as for marriage in family...........NAAAAAAAAAA... I don't like this idea. like from childhood, you are calling your cousin "Bhai" and treating him like a bro. and then all of a sudden, he becomes your hubby. isn't it ajeebsa?
maybe its me. coz I never looked at my cousins from this point of view. coz I play with them, beat them up, and bully them. and they have to listen to me.

hmm interesting i guess all of u r kinda right.

btw if u want to post ure view plz do coz den der will b a new show on tomorow night so u hav today n 2mro left wednesday i'll start another 1.