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Posted: 10 years ago
@Isha
Who could have been the ones who trolled Shruti? Wouldn't they be fathers' themselves, at least a section may be? One can find this initiative cool, someone might not...but abusing beccause of that is so wrong.

Major parts in India, people don't have smartphones to take selfies. They wouldn't even know what selfies are. The pics posted are all from the urban side. Having said that, as I said, the initiative is not a bad one, but doesn't serve any purpose but just a "cool" thing. And what use is posting pics with their daughters a day? Like...do you really feel the fathers, all fathers would have been completely thinking about the base reason for the initiative?

Yes, one has to be proud to have a daughter...Somewhere using selfies for that doesn't go along I feel.

There could be lakhs of girls abandoned by their parents listening to the radio program of PM...What use could be this initiative for them?
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Posted: 10 years ago
I still don't understand Twitter...😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
@Shwetha -- yeah I feel you on the selfie thing. Like I don't mind the idea of a selfie, but I HATE how it's become so huge and mainstream in our era. I do not understand what the need is to take 5-6 selfies in one go and post them all online. Like all I'm for self-esteem building, but to me, the selfie culture is a lot more about narcissism than actual self-esteem promotion. So blahhh
@mansi - shukriya for the compliment :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
i hate this selfie obsession
sometimes thike hai but har samay
i also hate the fact ppl share anything like please post some decent photos
and pouts 😡


even i don't understand twitter 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

@Shwetha -- yeah I feel you on the selfie thing. Like I don't mind the idea of a selfie, but I HATE how it's become so huge and mainstream in our era. I do not understand what the need is to take 5-6 selfies in one go and post them all online. Like all I'm for self-esteem building, but to me, the selfie culture is a lot more about narcissism than actual self-esteem promotion. So blahhh

@mansi - shukriya for the compliment :)


Does selfies actually help increase self esteem? At least it doesn't for me..😆

I am actually not for posting personal pics on social networking...At least selfies with weirdo expressions...Yes...It's a place to share pics and important happenings in your life with your friends and family...few pictures are also Ok...But somewhere I don't feel comfortable sharing mine, at least. I feel I can be easily googled by anyone..😆

I also hate status updates...I am eating noodles...I am sleeping...😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@Isha

Who could have been the ones who trolled Shruti? Wouldn't they be fathers' themselves, at least a section may be? One can find this initiative cool, someone might not...but abusing beccause of that is so wrong.

Major parts in India, people don't have smartphones to take selfies. They wouldn't even know what selfies are. The pics posted are all from the urban side. Having said that, as I said, the initiative is not a bad one, but doesn't serve any purpose but just a "cool" thing. And what use is posting pics with their daughters a day? Like...do you really feel the fathers, all fathers would have been completely thinking about the base reason for the initiative?

Yes, one has to be proud to have a daughter...Somewhere using selfies for that doesn't go along I feel.

There could be lakhs of girls abandoned by their parents listening to the radio program of PM...What use could be this initiative for them?


I think the vitriol directed against Shruti was for 2 diff reasons: 1. she actually had the audacity to go against the PM (who most people seem to love to the point of devotion) and 2. she's a woman with an opinion (aka sexism)

As for whoever did the trolling -- dude singling out fathers is totally biased. I bet my life that there were women and mothers who also trolled shruti. and I do agree with you in that the abusing Shruti was wrong -- I wasn't arguing that point at all. I may participate in using abusive language, but even I can see that it's wrong.

And actually, the selfie with daughter iniative was actually started in a village by a sarpanch. so it wasn't a completely urban thing. i think some people even got money for it (for having the best father-daughter pic?)? And the initiative served a purpose in temporarily linking daughters with coolness. and that's wherein my logic lies. like once the iniative came out, the main thought father's would've had would be like "of hey, I have a daughter, I can participate." It's just a small baseline to attempt to change some views on daughters.

as for the daughters abandoned for listening to radio program, honestly i don't really know where you're going with that point. wouldn't they be abandoned before hand? I don't know details of that kinda stuff unfortunately.

again to reiterate, we're on the same page in that the initiative isn't a bad one. But I'm also arguing that's it's not completely useless either. I think any small step is worthwhile.
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Posted: 10 years ago
😭
pv is such a wonderful show yaar hw did i miss this?
i cried watching epi38,39
lucky sweety breakdown😭
lucky's dialog "hum sab parvarish karna seeki toh re bas koi galti nahi kar sakte and a pause bhari pad jate hai and a weak smile" to jeet was awsm
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

http://www.thehindu.com/opinion/op-ed/comedy-nights-with-kapil-its-no-laughing-matter/article7379599.ece

Wonderful read...


can i just hug the writer?😆
i hate the bloody show...ad the way it show women😆

good morning guys😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Shwets1502


Does selfies actually help increase self esteem? At least it doesn't for me..😆

I am actually not for posting personal pics on social networking...At least selfies with weirdo expressions...Yes...It's a place to share pics and important happenings in your life with your friends and family...few pictures are also Ok...But somewhere I don't feel comfortable sharing mine, at least. I feel I can be easily googled by anyone..😆

I also hate status updates...I am eating noodles...I am sleeping...😆😆


idk man. I've heard arguments that selfies are good because they make you feel good about posting your pic online. so like they promote self-esteem. i'm not some expert on this 😆

LOL well yeah you have a point there. not gonna argue. i usually share pictures on fb on behest of my friends (never ever share selfies on fb 😆) or share pics on instagram to like document experiences -- like once i shared a selfie of me using a mud mask 😆 but you can privatise things if you're paranoid about being discovered, or like use a diff name. like my instagram pg doesn't mention my name at all (except for last name but my last name is so common anyway so idgaf 😆)

and dude, status updates are the worsttt. LOL i use my twitter to like vent (twitter is basically just fb status updates) about uni and how much i hate it 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: maniwood

i hate this selfie obsession

sometimes thike hai but har samay
i also hate the fact ppl share anything like please post some decent photos
and pouts 😡


even i don't understand twitter 😆



the pout thing is the worsttt. I HATE it. ruins perfectly good photos imo. people always look so ridiculous pouting. except keira knightly. she looks good. but she's the only exception bc i love her 😆

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