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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: davearcha
If Ramesh would have pointed Dadaji would taunt him showing I was successful while you failed. Dadaji has to realize this himself, that IF he would have been a bit supportive, Ramesh's life would have been a bit different. He may or may not succeed but atleaat he wouldn't be this depressed.

I don't know how he isn't about to see it all these years. Ramesh would have definitely said it loads of times that if he had got the support, he wouldn't have failed so badly. Dadaji said once that Ramesh believes that he spoiled Ramesh's life. So Dadaji doesn't think his decision was wrong even 1%. May be he is right and Ramesh doesn't see that. May be Dadaji's decision was correct. But his treatment of Ramesh doesn't prove that. It seems he wants to punish Ramesh all his life for rebelling against him and going against his wishes.

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Archa Dave

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Posted: 10 years ago

#32

He mentioned Dhokha hi milta hai wahan. To Nisha or Sukku or Lakshmi, I am not sure. So this is why he is scared to send Sukku there.

Ramesh has lots of feelings buried deep inside him. And that would one day come forefront probably when the past comes out . . .

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Teogapi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@bold And the look on Mohan and Viren's face showed that they aren't happy either.

they can show that viren also had some dream which he lost because of the fear of dadaji. They can show this during umesh restaurant track.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Teogapi
if he says that I want ramesh to say that ur bauji gave u time to be successful mine didnt. My father dragged me back to home within 6 months.

If he says that...he would be BAMed..😆

Ramesh cannot say those words...because he is now dependent on his father for shelter which is sad. If Dadaji asks him to leave the house, it will be very difficult for him. If he doesn't have work in the business, what else job can he do? Ramesh has to keep quiet and hear Dadaji because he has to be part of the business to run the family.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: davearcha
He mentioned Dhokha hi milta hai wahan. To Nisha or Sukku or Lakshmi, I am not sure. So this is why he is scared to send Sukku there.
Ramesh has lots of feelings buried deep inside him. And that would one day come forefront probably when the past comes out . . .

Oh...Yes...He used to drink because of that...regretting his decision of going to Mumbai. He remembers every minute of the struggle and failure.

He doesn't let his past hinder his family's life. But it is bound to come out one day.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Teogapi
they can show that viren also had some dream which he lost because of the fear of dadaji. They can show this during umesh restaurant track.

But does Viren have it in him to speak to Dadaji. If he tells because of fear of Dadaji he buried his dreams..etc...Wouldn't that break Dadaji? Like he has never given happy lives for any of his kids?

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Teogapi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

If he says that...he would be BAMed..😆

Ramesh cannot say those words...because he is now dependent on his father for shelter which is sad. If Dadaji asks him to leave the house, it will be very difficult for him. If he doesn't have work in the business, what else job can he do? Ramesh has to keep quiet and hear Dadaji because he has to be part of the business to run the family.

sometimes I fell so bad for him. He gets insulted every time. Dadaji doesn't even see anyone and insults him in front of outsiders. Ramesh wanted to move out but Lakshmi said they won't be able to manage the expenses.I want the truth of all the mistakes done by viren and mohan to be exposed in front if dadaji. Only then he will see all the nainsafi he has done towards ramesh

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Teogapi
sometimes I fell so bad for him. He gets insulted every time. Dadaji doesn't even see anyone and insults him in front of outsiders. Ramesh wanted to move out but Lakshmi said they won't be able to manage the expenses.I want the truth of all the mistakes done by viren and mohan to be exposed in front if dadaji. Only then he will see all the nainsafi he has done towards ramesh

He can tell Ramesh anything, but not in front of his kids or outsiders. Sukku already considers Ramesh as nothing, who can never stand up to Dadaji. Ramesh may be a friend to all the cousins, but what do they actually think of him?

He has somehow developed some defense mechanism to hear the taunt. Probably he believes he deserves it and never tells a word.

Viren and Mohan's truth has to come out one day. Ramesh's name and life has been partially spoiled by them too. Dadi knows it I am sure.

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Archa Dave

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Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I don't know how he isn't about to see it all these years. Ramesh would have definitely said it loads of times that if he had got the support, he wouldn't have failed so badly. Dadaji said once that Ramesh believes that he spoiled Ramesh's life. So Dadaji doesn't think his decision was wrong even 1%. May be he is right and Ramesh doesn't see that. May be Dadaji's decision was correct. But his treatment of Ramesh doesn't prove that. It seems he wants to punish Ramesh all his life for rebelling against him and going against his wishes.

Honestly IMPOV : Parents take a decision for our well being and security. That is what generally they think about. but yes, here he should have been understanding is what I feel. While working here, Ramesh future has been secured but he hasn't been happy even working there, he tries.

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Teogapi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

But does Viren have it in him to speak to Dadaji. If he tells because of fear of Dadaji he buried his dreams..etc...Wouldn't that break Dadaji? Like he has never given happy lives for any of is kids?

he should face the truth that his children buried their dreams coz of his strict nature. If he breaks down mohan can always call Dr. Shreshta😉