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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: davearcha

Honestly IMPOV : Parents take a decision for our well being and security. That is what generally they think about. but yes, here he should have been understanding is what I feel. While working here, Ramesh future has been secured but he hasn't been happy even working there, he tries.

There is definitely a huge MU between Ramesh and Dadaji. Ramesh thinks Dadaji spoiled his life by not supporting him in his career. May be Dadaji had a reason to. Dadaji feels Ramesh doesn't give any respect to him and rebelled against his wishes. So both are right...but they aren't seeing that.

When Ramesh was speaking for Umesh to Dadaji...Dadaji said Ramesh might have thought his decision back then for his singing was wrong...but now his life is good because of that...and Ramesh's face showed he doesn't agree to it. Ramesh believes he could have made it big if Dadaji hadn't dragged him back home.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Teogapi
he should face the truth that his children buried their dreams coz of his strict nature. If he breaks down mohan can always call Dr. Shreshta😉

Haha...Dr. Shreshta in demand again...😆

But as Dave always points out...Is all this revelation needed at his age now? Will he be able to take it?

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Archa Dave

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Posted: 10 years ago

#43

Although Dadaji wanted secured lives for all 3 of his kids, they were all never happy. The day Dadaji comes to know of this, he will be broken, but he will be completely broken on knowing the nainsaafi Ramesh had met because of his brothers.

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Teogapi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: davearcha

Honestly IMPOV : Parents take a decision for our well being and security. That is what generally they think about. but yes, here he should have been understanding is what I feel. While working here, Ramesh future has been secured but he hasn't been happy even working there, he tries.

I am OK with the fact dadaji brought back ramesh to Jaipur. But I hate that he always taunts him on his failure. He could have said don't worry beta u am there for u what if y failed u are always welcome at the shop. He could have boosted up his morale. Instead he taunts him. Somehow I feel dadaji is very proud that all his kids are kinda dependent on him.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: davearcha
Although Dadaji wanted secured lives for all 3 of his kids, they were all never happy. The day Dadaji comes to know of this, he will be broken, but he will be completely broken on knowing the nainsaafi Ramesh had met because of his brothers.

That the tag of irresponsibility was because of his brothers.

At the same time, I feel, if Dadaji had been more respectful, Mohan and Viren would also have followed that. Since Dadaji considers Ramesh RDR, Viren copies it exactly. If not for that, there is lot of love among the brothers. Just to be in good books of Dadaji, Ramesh always gets trapped.

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Teogapi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: davearcha
Although Dadaji wanted secured lives for all 3 of his kids, they were all never happy. The day Dadaji comes to know of this, he will be broken, but he will be completely broken on knowing the nainsaafi Ramesh had met because of his brothers.

he has to face the reality otherwise he may not be able to give the respect ramesh deserves. They can show a ramesh dadaji scene after the truth. Ramesh consoling dadaji that he is the best father like nisha consoles ramesh.

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Archa Dave

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Posted: 10 years ago

#47

@Rema I don't think he is proud that they are dependent. He is proud that he was able to secure all their lives. That is what he wants for them, leading a secured life esp after he dies. .

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Teogapi
I am OK with the fact dadaji brought back ramesh to Jaipur. But I hate that he always taunts him on his failure. He could have said don't worry beta u am there for u what if y failed u are always welcome at the shop. He could have boosted up his morale. Instead he taunts him. Somehow I feel dadaji is very proud that all his kids are kinda dependent on him.

I don't know how the system in the house works. When brothers need money, they have to loan it from Dadaji? And there is no equality in salary?

Dadaji and Ramesh loves each other very much and we saw that in the scene after Ramesh knew about Nisha's past. But Dadaji just can't forget Ramesh's failure..and makes sure Ramesh doesn't forget too. Ramesh could be set as an inspiration, that if you fail in one area, you can always excel in another. (but brothers never let him excel in the shop also) Dadaji wants to prove that all his decisions are right.

He is slowly seeing that it isn't, with Ritiesh and Dolly's sasural.

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Teogapi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

That the tag of irresponsibility was because of his brothers.
At the same time, I feel, if Dadaji had been more respectful, Mohan and Viren would also have followed that. Since Dadaji considers Ramesh RDR, Viren copies it exactly. If not for that, there is lot of love among the brothers. Just to be in good books of Dadaji, Ramesh always gets trapped.

that's why ramesh wants nisha sukku and bunty to be successful. So that he can say what if I am unsuccessful at least I made my children successful

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Shwetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: Teogapi
he has to face the reality otherwise he may not be able to give the respect ramesh deserves. They can show a ramesh dadaji scene after the truth. Ramesh consoling dadaji that he is the best father like nisha consoles ramesh.

Dadaji can't change what he did...That guilt and regret of spoiling of ruining Ramesh's life would be too much for him.

Ramesh would understand how that guilt would feel as he himself feels it everyday after Nisha's past.

Ramesh can definitely console Dadaji...but would Dadaji be the same as before..the Singham after knowing he never identified his own sons.