Beautiful Message Which We Missed - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shruti21

As we all have heard about the New promo it's clear Nisha was physically abused in childhood. No big deal, it was evident from quite a sometime.

But this time I'm disappointed with myself, because I failed to see beyond my limits. I was so engrossed in the whole marriage drama that I couldn't see how long it takes a parents to understand that something went wrong in their child's life that her life took 360 degree U turn.

The clear message which CV's wanted to show that sometimes when you see a devastating change in your child's life you need to dig into the matter. You need to find out what went wrong. You need to talk to your child. You need to protect your child. You need to be their supporting system. You need to tell them they will always stand by you.

Ramesh and Laxmi failed badly as being a parent. Because they couldn't protect their child. It was the other way round. At age of 15 Nisha took the responsibility on herself of protecting her family. Though we should be proud but I guess sometimes you have to let it go, you have to let others protect you.

I don't know what damage this truth will do but one thing is for sure the entire family will be devastated. Even after having so many differences I hope they realise how they failed their child.

Harsh but CV's did their best to show the bitter side of Indian families. I hope people get the message from the show.

This show is definitely UNIQUE.

P.S- Ignore the typos please.

I wish my parents watched this serial and could understand my pain which only my friend understood when ever i see saurav i remember my friend who also left me in this world all alone .

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Its commendable that such a sensitive topic is taken by the show. I hope and pray that they handle the issue with the same sensitivity till the end.

Taking the track and the general scenario into account, the incident has a huge role to play before pointing fingers at who is responsible. Same is the case with Nisha. We cannot say Ramesh and Lakshmi hadn't been good parents or has failed. Like the way Lakshmi questioned Nisha today, Ramesh and Lakshmi could have Nisha even before too. The same way Nisha didn't answer today, she might have not answered then too. Both might haven't felt the urgency to get deep into the matter as they would have found Nisha behaving perfectly normal with just few changes.

Now another question is why couldn't Nisha share her problems with her parents. I don't think Ramesh or Lakshmi would over react, or may blame her. They seem to be understanding parents. Then why? According to my reasoning, the incident would have been such that Nisha herself is so ashamed of that she is just not able to share it with anyone. The incident would tarnish her image, her parents image and her family image so much that she might have considered to keep it within herself. Or she could have been blackmailed into keeping it a secret.

With Lakshmi knowing her truth, what would be her next move? Should she tell Nisha that she knows the truth now? Should she share it with Ramesh and both of them together be the pillar of strength for Nisha? Or let Nisha come around by herself?

I think girls need to be given good knowledge about proxemics. They need to know the distance which men/women should main when having a conversation with them. Jwala had no clue about that. Same way, boys too should be taught about the distance they need to maintain. Parents do hold responsibility to educate their children about this.

Ramesh nd Laxmi r very much protective nd caring parents..i don't think they should b blame..

Originally posted by: nirmita

I wish my parents watched this serial and could understand my pain which only my friend understood when ever i see saurav i remember my friend who also left me in this world all alone .

Originally posted by: minal11

Ramesh nd Laxmi r very much protective nd caring parents..i don't think they should b blame..

When ur child is at school or away from the home nd if something horrible happens to them how wud u protect them??? Which way u will get to know about it???

Nd this is not the condition in only Indian society many other countries facing children getting physically abused in their childhood.

Originally posted by: Shruti21

Rima diii... *hugs*

yup, this show now reminds of satyamev jayte's first season first episode. It was on same topic. N i still remember the story of guy who was raped by his own uncle that too for years.. Oh my god. That was horrifying. Still CV's have very carefully handled this topic. I am so impressed.😊

hug baccha. yes it does. sexual abuse scars for life. it is the ultimate harm one can do to a child

Originally posted by: Shruti21

oh boy, are you trying to say that Nisha is at fault that she din tell her problem to her parents??

I will say watch the first episode of satyamev jayte season 1 thn maybe you will realise what trauma a child goes when he/she is physically abused. How at first a child try to tell everything to his/her mother but parents fails to take up all the little hints.

Yes Ramesh and Laxmi failed as a parents. I am not saying they are not protective but still they failed to protect.

Why it took 8years to meet a counsellor?

Why they din realised their daughter has changed out of the blue?? Because Laxmi said to Ramesh idk what happened but our Nishu changed drastically??

Why they din realised their daughter stopped playing the game which she loved?? It took 8years to realise it that oh Nisha was very good at games but she stopped without any pressure?

Why they din take Nisha to a therapist or doctor when she had some weird dreams??

when did i ever said nisha is at fault????

I think it would be better to wait and watch as to what exactly happened before pointing fingers at who is wrong. The reason being..take the current track. Is Jwala wrong? Of course she is. How can she trust some unknown stranger and go out without telling anyone? What if Nisha had done the same? Trusted her wrong friends? So it will all be speculation and I would say speculation is very insensitive in this matter.

It would again be wrong to say Ramesh and Lakshmi didn't notice the change. Of course they know she has changed. But they didn't probe in quite as much as Lakshmi has done now. They wouldn't have thought in the worst possible case that something as bad as this could have happened to their daughter. We know it, because the show has depicted it in such a way that we know she is troubled. Have they failed as parents? May be. But failed would be a strong word to use. And their result would depend on how they support after knowing the truth.

I agree with most of your post, especially in regards to the message. But I completely disagree with the assumption that Laxmi and Ramesh failed as parents. No way.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I think it would be better to wait and watch as to what exactly happened before pointing fingers at who is wrong. The reason being..take the current track. Is Jwala wrong? Of course she is. How can she trust some unknown stranger and go out without telling anyone? What if Nisha had done the same? Trusted her wrong friends? So it will all be speculation and I would say speculation is very insensitive in this matter.

It would again be wrong to say Ramesh and Lakshmi didn't notice the change. Of course they know she has changed. But they didn't probe in quite as much as Lakshmi has done now. They wouldn't have thought in the worst possible case that something as bad as this could have happened to their daughter. We know it, because the show has depicted it in such a way that we know she is troubled. Have they failed as parents? May be. But failed would be a strong word to use. And their result would depend on how they support after knowing the truth.