Shwets, why don't I see any major issue in Nisha interfering between elders?
when she goes to defend her father, to fight with her grandpa, why doesn't it bother me, rather I see myself in her. my mum never could defend herself in family matters, she never had in her to go and argue even when she is right. and she is the most peaceful person I have ever seen my life. you know that. so I always was ready to answer. not disrespectfully but answer I would. Roopal is mostly wrong when she taunts Lakshmi and Nisha. Lakshmi doesn't have it in her to reply. But Nisha can. so she does. exact same like Me and my Mom.
I don't think that elders are always right. they can be wrong too. Dadaji is wrong according to me when he pays Ramesh less. if you are so understanding, why can't you see that your son does work but he isn't smarter like your 2 elder sons. why can't you keep it equal?
if he does that because of Ramesh's past failure, then isn't parents NOT supposed to differentiate between kids? isn't parents supposed to NOT hold your mistake against you, but rather make you stand up again and teach you to see beyond your failure?
this is where, I find elders wrong. our old generation could never accept their kids failures. they always held it against their kids. and that is where I feel, they need to be told that mistakes happen. anyone can make it. teach your kids to learn from it and move on.
I don't see it wrong when Nisha goes to interfere for this. It's her who is going to be affected too when her father get's less monthly pay. her family gets affected. I don't believe when Mohan/Viren says Ramesh doesn't do any work responsibly. Ramesh does, only thing is, his past mistake has been taken as his nature. being elder and worldly wise, I am sure Dadaji can understand this. if he can't, Nisha is right to go and say it out to them.
bottom line is, being elders doesn't make you right.
if Viren is ready to hit his grown up son in front of many, then Nisha is right to interfere. Viren must not do that. come on who hits on their grown up kids. and personally, I find Viren's character very chidchida type. always finds negativity. so, there I support Nisha when she replies him equally in his style.
Edited by NimbuMirchi - 10 years ago
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