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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dey.bh

I dont think so. She never learnt the contents of the second letter. She was young and didn't understand why she came back at all. She still believes that her mother committed suicide because she couldn't become a singer or because it was too late to achieve anything.



True... she didn't read the second letter. But she could have as a child thought that somewhere her words may have been responsible. Because Nimki knew her mother didn't commit suicide after she came back but after hearing her words. There is a possibility that Nimki as a child could have made such a connection.

Anyways, this could be why Ram bacchan never showed the second letter. It would have been an extra burden on Nimki who was already unable to deal with the tragedy. It is one thing to think that her mother committed suicide because she failed to fulfil her dreams but all the more terrible to know that it was because her mother felt that she failed as a mother. And unfortunately, it seems like it was Nimki's words that really pushed her to take that final step... although one can't fault the child Nimki for what she said.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I feel it is Nimki's words that made her mother kill herself. And Nimki is not acknowledging it.
And Nimki's decision to be selfish is not related to the incident but her own desires. No one becomes selfish just like that. If your inner nature is good, you will also think being selfish is not the solution.

I will not give Nimki free pass.

Nimki's mother took an impulsive decision and faced the consequences. Leaving an infant like that is an act of irresponsible behaviour.

And Nimki is also irresponsible in her own way.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I feel it is Nimki's words that made her mother kill herself. And Nimki is not acknowledging it.

And Nimki's decision to be selfish is not related to the incident but her own desires. No one becomes selfish just like that. If your inner nature is good, you will also think being selfish is not the solution.

I will not give Nimki free pass.

Nimki's mother took an impulsive decision and faced the consequences. Leaving an infant like that is an act of irresponsible behaviour.

And Nimki is also irresponsible in her own way.

👏👏I just agree with you because i also thought about it each and everyone has their own nature and thought so is Nimki she's selfish and by the way if you still remember she herself admit it.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nimii was a child who was hurt that her mother left them just like that. She doesn't realise her words had hurt her at all. She misunderstood her mother and probably didnt believe her words was important for her mother.
There can be a lot of things here. Probably, she thought Mono's accident was a roadblock for her mother and therefore she committed suicide. Lets not blame a young gjrl for a woman who didn't know how to take decisions or deal with the consequences thereafter.

Nimki being selfish because of her mother's death is pure shit. Someone like Mahua needs to tell her that she wants to be selfish and is hiding under the veil of her mother's wrong example.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: S.Stephy

It must have been terrible for Nimki to have to stay in the same room where her mother committed suicide. I guess Ram bacchan didn't have an option to move to another house.

I also wonder whether Nimki somewhere feels guilty inside for what she said to her mother when her mother returned. Maybe Nimki thought her words were responsible for pushing her mother to suicide and maybe she is covering it by her hatred for her mother and shutting out her feelings.

This thought did cross my mind too. When Nimki said all those harsh things to her mother she was just a child who was deeply hurt by her mother.But I think as time passed by she did realise she was too harsh towards her mother and after all that was her last interaction with her mother and she probably did feel guilty about that.
When she was narrating this incident to her sister she said that she didn't find fault in her mother wanting to pursue her dreams.So somewhere along she did a lot of thinking and came to this conclusion that it is important to pursue one's dreams or else they will end up hurting themselves and others around them.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I wish Bdo should be like a brother to Nimki than her suitor. He should guide her without selfishness.
Let her marry babbu and that itself will teach her many things.

Let babbu truly fall in love with her.

Let Nimki change them than vice versa.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I wish Bdo should be like a brother to Nimki than her suitor. He should guide her without selfishness.

Let her marry babbu and that itself will teach her many things.

Let babbu truly fall in love with her.

Let Nimki change them than vice versa.

Now it is impossible because BDO already shown love for her but Babboo who never shows affection as a friend lover fiancee to Nimki can be her brother.
They can have the songs played on each raksha bandhan festival and celebrate the festival.
Edited by ALUJNA21 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Now it is impossible because BDO already shown love for her but Babboo who never shows affection as a friend lover fiancee to Nimki can be her brother.
They can have the songs played on each raksha bandhan festival and celebrate the festival.the

Bhai dooj ka chance nikal gaya aur rakshabandhan bhi abhi door hai😆 kya kare Abhimanyu ko jeejaji bhi nahi bana sakte...ajab mushkil hai.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dey.bh

Bhai dooj ka chance nikal gaya aur rakshabandhan bhi abhi door hai😆 kya kare Abhimanyu ko jeejaji bhi nahi bana sakte...ajab mushkil hai.

The only chance is wedding.😉
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Posted: 7 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Now it is impossible because BDO already shown love for her but Babboo who never shows affection as a friend lover fiancee to Nimki can be her brother.
They can have the songs played on each raksha bandhan festival and celebrate the festival.

RIGHT babbu never see Nimki in lovers sight ...he can become great brother for nimki as he loves her sister sweety...but bdo is already fall in love with nimki and choose her as prospective wife .Now how is this possible???
Edited by sandhyanu--1995 - 7 years ago

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