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Originally posted by: slippery_chilka
Ansh is not married. The CV's don't consider him married, the characters do not consider him married, the producers do not consider him married, the director do not consider him married the actors/actresses do not consider him married. Or else they would not have advertised about the romance starting now. To be married and to respect that marriage, there has to be free will. Ansh himself does not remember being married and his DV also does not consider him married. If it gets out that Ruby mind controlled him into thinking they are married, the society too won't consider them married. It's as simple as that. And I think it will happen soon, Ruby's truth will come out soon. For us it's days and weeks but in the show, it's barely been 2-3 days.
If there wasn't so much happening at Rathore house, he would have sat down and thought then come to a proper conclusion on what was happening. He would have asked for a divorce if Pia had been single but he is feeling guilty and doesnot think he has a chance with her so he is quiet but must be thinking stuff through. It takes time to think and come to a conclusion regarding something like this because he thinks Ruby is a normal girl and getting the "marriage" annulled may ruin her life. Life changing decisions like these are not taken in less than a week. He will speak up soon but right now he thinks that Ved and his family too want him to continue the marriage so he is wondering about what to do.SBRK is a completely different story and situation. Like they say there's a zameen asmaan ka difference because Kunal-Mauli's marriage was not a sham. It was based on love and respect and trust. Kunal and Nandini are wrong because there was free will in Kunal's marriage with Mauli. That is not the case here. There's no comparison between Kunal-Mauli-Nandini and Ansh-Pia-Ruby.For example: If a guy mind controls you and makes you say that you want to be raped. Will it be rape or consensual? It's a harsh example, granted but mind control is no less than mental rape.I honestly don't understand why a mind controlled "marriage" is being taken as a valid marriage that needs to be respected and held to a high society standard. Ansh has been nothing but respectful and distant ever since he thinks he is married. He doesnot even look at her like a lovesick guy like he used to, he is actively suppressing his feelings. That close scene in Friday's episode was all DV and not Ansh. Ansh was just mad enough to grab Pia, then the DV took over and for the DV, Pia is his.
Did you even read my post ?? 😕
I made it quite abunduntly clear , in fact quite redundant by repeatedly mentioning that Ruby married Ansh under compulsion. Or may be I made it sound like I don't understand what exactly compulsion means ?? But then I did made it clear that I do understand what is exactly being compelled means.
It basically and simply means absence of consent or dissent . So there was really absolutely no need to go all the extra personal length in trying to hammer that point .
And had I been suffering under the thought that Ansh married with his full consent , don't you think the language of my post would've been , rightfully , vastly different , as in I'd have then called him a cheap low life ??
I took pain to write a whole lot of things that doesn't really come under the scope of this topic , because I suspected that once I make this post , people will again start with the old "Ansh got married under the compulsion of DC " and Ruby is a dayan." jaap .
Just to ensure this doesn't happen , I already covered all those points in my posts , hoping not to hear them repeated . How frustrating. 🥱
What is the point of writing a big post , when one only reads selected half way through it ?
Really , I couldn't care any less , whether the PH , director, writer or actors consider Ansh -Ruby as married or not. They showed a marriage , no matter what condition be during that. I didn't ask them to write one . What was the need for it ?? Please don't tell me it was necessary to bring Mohona , the chief antagonist , out of captivity . It makes absolutely no sense. Till date I fail to understand what is exactly the connection between Ansh- Ruby engagement and Mohona getting human form from stone state . It's absolutely ridiculous that Ruby-Ansh got married and the spells that kept Mohona in a cage fell apart . What is this , a kind of inexplicable ritual ??
You really think viewers give a damn about the intention of a scene ?? No , they don't. Nor are they supposed to. They're only supposed to see the end product presented on tv screen and make their own conclusions from it.
Many shows in ITV present all kinds of intolerable crap with writers and PH fully intending to show them . Are we supposed to consider what are they considering as wholesome entertainment and fall in line , or judge for ourselves and call a crap a crap ??
My point is , Mohona could have been freed by 100 other ways . Ruby-Ansh marriage was written by PH n writers. It's not a track brought about by me . By showing a sham of marriage , they're treating marriage itself as a sham. As a viewer , when some thing like this is shown , I absolutely demand some kind of conclusion or resolution , With out that , the whole situation looks horribly cheap and tasteless. Do I have to repeat now that by resolution I don't mean consummation, kids and wifely rights , since I've mentioned it in my Main post ??
Since you're keen on talking about consent , let's talk about it. Suppose a person is abducted by putting a gun on his head and forced to marry a girl ( a similar track is shown in the lead's marriage in the colors show Bhagyavidhata ) , what will you suggest in that case ?? Leave it as it is and the guy returning to his normal life ?? In the very least , the marriage should be annulled in the proper way , so that there's no future complications.
A marriage can not just be "denied" , it has to be either annulled or divorced .
Worse , Ansh is not even denying . 😆😕😲
Lastly , this post is NOT about the validity of the marriage. It's about what Ansh thinks and nothing else. ( And I clearly remember mentioning this in my main post as well , sigh !🥱 )
What is his thoughts on the status of this "marriage" and what is his plan in that context of that thought ?? Since the CVs showed this , they MUST show what the ML is thinking and what is his POA regarding the same . They can't escape that and jump face forward into the "romance" or whatever . It'll be in extremely poor taste.
Last but not least , Ansh doesn't remember or know, nor does he think he was compelled. So the whole consent-compulsion argument is futile here. Let's not forget Ansh doesn't have the same set of information available to us viewers. And we must judge his actions on the basis of information available to him, not to us !
It's like, suppose I murder a man that makes me a murderer alright , but my husband doesn't know about it. Can he be excused if he beats me up , since he isn't aware how evil I am ??
Some contemplation is needed from Ansh's side is all I'm saying . He's not so young for him to be so casual about his own life.
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