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I know I'm probably the only one in the forum to feel that yesterday's push pull Piansh romance was in absolutely poor taste.
Why I think so ??
Let's consider Ruby at first . Because most people seem to believe Ruby deserves this to happen to her because of who she is and what she did etc. and also because of the condition in which Ansh - Ruby got married.
Well, within episode 3-4 , most of us knew that Ruby is Daayan . We saw her killing multiple people . We saw she's working on behalf on Mohona , fulfilling her orders very obediently , and finally getting married to Ansh when he was under DC compulsion . So yes , it was indeed a sham of a marriage , just like that of Mridul-Mohona , and Ansh Kajal are products of that sham marriage , basically bas***ds.
So, yes from the viewers point of view , unless and until you're the fan of daayans aka Team Daayan ( some one , say, like me! ) , one may be in fact justified to not even consider Ruby-Ansh marriage as a thing.
So they can be forgiven for that.
Same goes for Rathods including Vedashree . They know how Ansh got married to Ruby from Ved . They know of Ruby's realty and DC's effect on Ansh when the marriage happened.
But what about Ansh ?? What the hell is this dude even thinking ??
He now knows only this much ( correct me if I'm wrong ) - Ruby is a normal girl , who became kind of obsessed in love with him and did a very stupid and selfish thing by lying about being a daivik , so that she can marry him. Does he know any thing more for sure ?? NO ! Does he suspect any thing more ?? NO ! Yesterday he apologized to Ruby for his rude behavior with her , when he found out that she's not a daivik , though going by the situation he was totally justified in being angry in that situation. He let Ruby hug her since she has the right too , though he did not return it. This establishes two things - Ansh is a good person ( that is basically the purpose of showing that scene ) . 2ndly , he's completely bought the narration presented by Ruby . Had he even a whiff of doubt in any corner of his mind , that Ruby is a dayan who might be associated with all the events endangering his family and especially his mother's safety , apology to dur ki baat , ghar se hi nikal deti . Hug to dur ki baat , he'd have wrecked havoc upon her.
So ?? He believes her version of the story.
One very confusing question-
Why he isn't concerned about him not remembering the events of the marriage ?? Does he attribute it to him stepping into DC ?? As in , he thinks he isn't supposed to remember any thing that happened when he was under DC , once he's out of it ?? Like a memory erase between pre and post DC ?
But no matter , how much one yells Ruby-Ansh marriage is a sham , the only thing important in the context of the story is- what Ansh thinks .
Does he think this marriage doesn't count because he couldn't remember it happening plus Ruby lying about being a daivik ?? In that case why isn't he clarifying his stance to Ruby and/ or any one else who calls him a married man that " NO, I don't consider myself married to Ruby . Because of so and so... " Would make the following scenes less creepy.
So what am I supposed to think of it ?? He himself doesn't think this marriage is a sham . He obviously doesn't love Ruby but that is a totally separate topic.
So what is Ansh planning to do exactly ?? He's married to this girl and he's irrevocably attracted to another girl . What is preventing him to just request Ruby for a divorce ?? Why he wants to keep both in a loveless marriage , when his family's safety is also no more dependent on it ?? What is his excuse in furthering this marriage ?? Ruby's not daivik .
How hard it is to walk up to her and have a mature conversation with her regarding this soup of a situation ? If he couldn't do jsutice with Ruby ask for divorce damn it. Don;t be a Kunal.
Is this his sanskar stopping him from asking for a divorce ?? In that case , where is that same sanskar while getting up, close and personal to Pia with his wife standing nearby and probably watching ?? Probably a whole lot of people , guests watching ?? Does he plan to threat , show his glowing eyes to the entire world if they ask him what is he doing with another lady who's not his wife ?? He didn't even have a proper reply to Naman's question.
Let's not forget , Ruby is still very much his wife , so far as the world knows. They got married with a crowd of guests in mehendi, haldi and wedding day. Guests were asked to leave before the marriage but that doesn't mean they don't know who's the bride . It was known to all who he was getting married to. If we leave a wedding party before actual marriage ceremonies , does that mean we don't know who the hell is the bride ?? 😆
I don't give a damn whether Pia - Ansh are twin flames , soul mates . Doesn't change the situation in hand or make it in any way acceptable. In SBRK also , CVs took all the efforts and pains to establish it as a fact right from the beginning that the EMA pair are soul mates . Does that make their EMA acceptable in any way ?? Hell no !
It's not about Ruby . Honestly, isn't Ruby an extra ?? What does it matter what she deserves or not deserve ??
It's about Ansh and only Ansh . His morality . His character . He has every right to fall madly in love with whoever he wants and spend his life with her . But how he deals with his feelings makes all the difference between a hero and a villain like Naman ( Isn't Naman also in "love" with Pia ?? If you ask Naman , you'll find him thinking he's fighting for his love and he's justified too !! ) .
So Ansh basically going to get all mushy mushy with Pia , while leaving his wife as stand by ?? Woww ! Just because they're leads every thing is justified ?? Umm..no. In fact , they'll be scrutinized more minutely since they're the protagonists . The examples. The benchmark of good.
If he thinks his marriage is invalid ( like most people in the forum do , but Ansh behaves oppositely ) , show him CLEARLY VOICING THAT OUT or at least thinking that . Show him ask for an annulment .
If he thinks he's married and he is sure this marriage has no future and he couldn't be or rather doesn't want to be serious about it , SHOW HIM VOICE IT OUT CLEARLY AS WELL AND ASK FOR A DIVORCE , so that he's free to unite with Pia or do whatever he wants once he's a free agent.
If thinks he's married and he doesn't want / couldn't gather the guts to ask for a divorce , then SHOW HIM STAY LOYAL TO THE MARRIAGE AND MAINTAIN STRICT FRIENDLY DISTANCE WITH PIA .
There's absolutely no other situation around here that makes him look any less of a creep than Kunal .
Shadi ko mazak banake rakha hai.😡 Shadi hai ya nahi age clearly tay karo.. Shadi rakhna hai ya nahi ye bhi clear cut tay karo.. Divorce ya annulment dikaho.. Fir ana romance dikhane.🥱
Honestly , this Piansh romance will the Silsila-ish puke worthy till then. 🤢 No wonder Pia was so angry yesterday . I'd have felt the same if a married guy would've tried a number on me. 😆
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