I think Ginni needs to learn a lesson - Page 4

Originally posted by: AhsaanBaig94

@Krani,
Agreed. Kids these days gets infuenced to bad things very quickly, and they don't have confidence to tell about their problems to their parents, just because they are affraid that their parents may scold them or nt going to understand their problem. Then they starts to go deep in it, just as Ginny did. She kept saying that she won't continue this lie anymore, but she was forced to do so because of surrounding pressure.
The rumor was spread, but who spread it? Ginny? No. It was her classmates who made that, Ginny just accepted it because of pressure to go in to that group. She was wrong, absolutely. Kids of current age should not discriminate with each other, and just because of it. They becomes big and dicriminates on higher levels. It starts from childhood. You are just kids and saying that I am better than you, just because you go to cafe with your BFs, actually just friends. Now, coming back to Ginny, what happened to her was wrong, no acceptance on that deed of Dev. And he deserves punishment too. You can't do such thing to young innocent kid.

Originally posted by: Sachi16

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well said Ahsaan.. hiding from parents is another draw-back.

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sometime parents are understanding, most of the time they can't hence, you feel the need to hide from them rather than getting scold.

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many factors affect. Sometime, kids learn from parents too. they see their parents showing-off & learn to be like them.. hence, start the descrimination based on different things even if they are just in school. 🥱

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Totally agreed with all your points @Krani, @Sachi, @Ahsaan..

Definitely Peer pressure. It has become more like a status issue. If one does not hang out with the "cool" gang...does not have boyfriends, they are termed to be reserved or as here "behenji". Children will never want such a tag associated with them and are ready to do anything. What Ginny did was wrong...but she had no other way. She was forced to say such a lie.

Coming to boys like Dev. They like to be famous. They want the girls to say that I want a boyfriend like Dev. Because of this, they think themselves to be higher than anybody else and are fearless to go to any extreme as there is no one to question them.

I am so very glad that this track has taken this route about bullying rather than love and boyfriend. Proud of this show.

Originally posted by: AhsaanBaig94

@Bold: Bang! That said it all. 😉 Learning to discriminate from your parents is true. As you said, they see their parents doing so, they find it cool and starts doing at school which is not the place to do so... they are all are students and studiying at same level. There is no big no small.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I think it is just now with kids. It with everyone. Now if I dont use a touch phone(which I dont) people look at me as if I am old fashioned.

The same point about Peer pressure was touched during Monty track too...but the track intended was different so this issue was not given importance.

Kids learn many things from parents. The "cool" girls parents may be doing the same thing. But girls like Ginny, whose parents are not like that, learn it from the society. They get attracted towards the "popular" tag.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@Sachi...In another case, my dad's phone is an old model, and its buttons are all worn out...and I keep insisting him to change the phone and due to my pressure he changed it. Now I dont know what to say. 😕 Sometimes, unknowingly we pressurize others also in doing such things.

Elders intentionally or unintentionally starts comparing kids with other kids right from their young age. Look at your brother, look at your cousin how smart they are, how good looking they are. Parents yield to those talks as it is done by elders. Some way those talks remain in the kid's mind and when similar situation arises in school, they want to prove themselves that they are better than others.

Originally posted by: Sachi16

Shwets, what you asked your Dad to do isn't about show-off. Me & my bro bought new phone to my Dad when he was using Nokia 3315 over years & all buttons were completely erased. It's coz he needed to change it. It was diffciult yo manage.

comparison is again very common. Kids with comparatively reserved personality & less smartness get into shell & lose all confidence. I have seen a very close friend being the victim of same. Me & my other friend had to try so much to take her out of that fear. Still when we all moved on in our life, she lacks confidence & she is the most brilliant of us all but not in her family. her siblings are rankers & she ended up losing all her confidence over years of constant comparison. A very close friend of mine. 😔