Ritchelle👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 i read the updates and rarely comment simply coz due to the obssesion of the leads no other voice can be heard. howeever you have broken the chain and am proud to see you dong that!! you have hit the nail correctly, why is it so urgent for navya and anant ot get married? why not at 25 after experienceing other than the college canteen romance? anat loves navya lot , v sweet but he is totally idealistic, he is focussed on kaash canteen jaisa nhn reh sakta, his total lack of ambiton? how can this be a genratio y of today??
yes you love each other, the new soch will not be leaving owrk ofr marrying and yes at times even i have wondered is navya strong mature enough to manage the pressures of work and the added pressures loonies will put on her in susral while giving time to a v demanding and adorable hubby, along with her mayaka ( frineds incuded in it) and her own slef?? i dnt think she is at the moment ready to do so, she is such a giving person she will either compromise her own slef always, mayakafor susral, anant for happiness of susral work will not be given that much as the loonies will continue to taunt her. is anant mature liberal enough to manage navyas woking at the moment no as he just assumes after marriage it will always be navya and me , i will always have her around , he is so much in love with her😳, he will never actually understand her dilemia of adjusting both work and family , new setting. esp her love or need to work coz the cvs have simply never shown him to have an ounce of ambition
those who couldnt take her gift form her salary would allow to work? no way. i feel if she marries without clearing this then she will never be allowed to work, no matter even if anant says so. why ? coz : she will be blackmailed into that being a bahu you should feel for our paramparas, traditon, you are ruining them ,huritng us,she wont go against them as rember when she was leaving she said next time i will ensure i never make any mistake, anant dsnt have any placei n his family, he is simply not taken seriously enough to have his say on what his wife will do or wnt do, he is still not serious about work so his dad really dsnt take him serious so even if he supports her i doubt it will result in her getting permission.
now coming ot the main point, i understand ppl want to see them saath at any cost as they feel abhi nhn hui shadi then shayd hu hi nhn and what if sp screws this over. i understand that, however again i really dont see any thing modern in it, modern for me wouldt be navya worknig first and then shadi ( would be welcome as i personally feel 21 ius too young and they both are v impressionable) or navya worknig and shadi saath no for me the nayi soch would be for the girl to take her own decsion to listen to her heart to do what she wants for her on slef without any pressure of what wil smaj say, have to do this for parents, fiance, susral etc.
that will be new soch! yes i agree that bht mushkil se agree kia to get married but they can convince all to give gap and i feel during this only their understanding will grow coz the way they are now if they get married , then everyday the susral ppl will successfuly create new MU and we will have full fledged kitchen politcs ignoring hubby show on our hands.
also dont navyas parents want thier SIL to actually do something on his own before he gets maried and take thier daughters responsiblty?
amar did what good mentor is supposed to do and for navya amar is a mentor, he is not entering into personal boundaries, he is just asking her to realise that she is a good worker, navya has this flaw she dsnt take herself seriously , apni worth ka andaza nhn ha usku, he did what a teacher does to a student who is really good and leaving studies to get married the teacher will always say that ik dafa soch lu you are really brilliant bht acha future ha, and that is what amar just did . am glad navya has a sincere mentor by her side.
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
